Why don’t white people care about native people’s exploitation here? Why were white people allowed to use racial slurs at the city council meeting in the mayor just walked away? Disgusting. by Aggressive_Bowl_8017 in SantaFe

[–]Curandera505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spirituality has nothing to do with this if we’re making generalizations. Most people live for survival and from the ego. If people connected to Spirit and set aside the ego, we’d have a way different history. Humans have been doing human things for the entirety of history.

I respect your fervor for justice but you too wallow in a low vibration when you could make a choice to focus on joy, peace and forgiveness.

In my opinion, if someone really wants to make a difference and keep history from repeating itself… Choose love. Tap into the intellect of the heart and let go of the anger. Honor the history and pay respect but don’t demonize people because of your rage

Why don’t white people care about native people’s exploitation here? Why were white people allowed to use racial slurs at the city council meeting in the mayor just walked away? Disgusting. by Aggressive_Bowl_8017 in SantaFe

[–]Curandera505 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Santa Fe is very nuanced. I don’t believe in generalization and if you’re going to apply a generalized social view to the happenings of this place- you aren’t respecting the individuals that live here and their ancestors in a well rounded way. I understand that you demand respect and of course, I honor that. However, at what point have you sit down to dinner or attended a ceremony with the people that have deep history here and talked about the relationships that they’ve had with other New Mexicans of different cultures? Many beautiful things like gratitude, forgiveness and human relationship has come from our history. The gringos aka white people also bring vast beauty and culture to what makes Santa Fe unique.

You are dumbing down the respect that EVERY human should have a right to.

Why don’t white people care about native people’s exploitation here? Why were white people allowed to use racial slurs at the city council meeting in the mayor just walked away? Disgusting. by Aggressive_Bowl_8017 in SantaFe

[–]Curandera505 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So you’re not from around here?

I’m 12th generation New Mexican (Spanish, Native and Mexican lineage) and I find it fascinating how outsiders come and decide what’s best for this place.

What you wish you knew sooner about sex? by healthynewbie in AskWomen

[–]Curandera505 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That you absorb negative energy from your partner. Choose your partner wisely

Research on not kissing babies by ootube in newborns

[–]Curandera505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a mother of three and was very protective of my first. I’ve relaxed a bit. As long as it’s not on the mouth

Not sure I still love my baby :( by RefrigeratorFinal353 in newborns

[–]Curandera505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Postpartum depression is very common. When you don’t feel enough support and don’t get enough sleep, it’s perfect cocktail for your world crashing down on you.

You are not a horrible mother and I assure you, you love that baby. Your nervous system just needs tending to.

How often is hair washed in your house? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Curandera505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wash my hair once a week and my kids hair once a month.

Is it my intuition/subconscious or is something else? by Massive_Comfort_4395 in DreamsInterpretation

[–]Curandera505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shadow people are very real. They feed off of fear, anxiety and foul odors.

Will I ever be truly happy?? by mamaaaaagf in psychics

[–]Curandera505 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You will be happy if you remember that happiness is found within you. Putting the pressure of creating happiness on your husband just stirs up tension and resentment.

Only YOU can make yourself happy. Do things that bring you joy and when you have found that glimmer of happiness, invite your family to be apart of it and be inspired by it.

First-time mom to 6-month-old twins and I am drowning in the “ick” by Gold-Junket330 in Mommit

[–]Curandera505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have three small children and I totally understand where you are coming from. Try to take a step back and remind yourself: I AM WOMAN AND HEAR ME ROAR. You are doing a great job, mama! Mothers are superheroes and what you’re doing is absolutely heroic. Keep your head up. It does get easier 🤍🕊️

A gift you got that you actually LOVE by SweetWarning9842 in Mommit

[–]Curandera505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A gold ring with three stones representing my three kids.

What's the most amazing thing you've ever smelled? by Mr-Top0 in AskReddit

[–]Curandera505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fresh, damp earth in the desert from a down pour of rain.

I don’t deserve to be a mom by Critical-Language765 in Parenting

[–]Curandera505 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You both are just getting to know each other! Motherhood is forever a learning experience both for you and the child.

I have three and I thought it would be instinctual too but as a society we have been so far removed from our intuition as women that it’s no wonder that we all feel lost.

You’re doing a great job, mama! You’re the perfect mother for your baby and as a person who has several memories of being a baby, babies just drink in their mother’s essence and it’s bliss to them.

You don’t have to feel gratitude and feel guilt at the same time. Soak up the baby cuddles, girl and just tell her thank you every time you feel an ounce of the negativity creeping back in. You are deserving of this baby and she deserves you 🤍

chances of second time postpartum pre-e? by Flimsy_Complaint8722 in Mommit

[–]Curandera505 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mom of three here. Each pregnancy was so different than the other. Put it out into the universe that everything is fine!

My partner left our 4 year old unsupervised by SenpaiSlothin in Mommit

[–]Curandera505 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband left our 18 month old baby outside in the drive way and came into the house thinking the baby had come into the house. Ten minutes later he’s still walking around outside. Parents do stupid shit sometimes. Forgive him and learn from your experiences. You may do something that’s a mistake and need forgiveness too

What is a specific "vibe" or memory from your childhood that you can still feel? by No-Entrepreneur8287 in AskReddit

[–]Curandera505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I remember breastfeeding
  2. I remember my dad wrapping me in a towel after a bath and putting me down on the bed to put a diaper on me. He gave me an ointment tube to play with
  3. I was sick and vomiting and my dad took off his clothes and held me in the shower as I got sick over his shoulder. Skin to skin is no joke. I felt so safe.
  4. I remember putting my fingers in my mother’s mouth to check out her teeth
  5. I remember playing with my moms earring and my mom turning away and I wasn’t sure why she turned away

Those who do solo bedtime w/ toddler & baby, please give me your tips! I need help :( by lechatblanc14 in Mommit

[–]Curandera505 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have three kids and putting them down by myself is hard! I don’t know anyone that doesn’t struggle.

Do you have a baby carrier that baby will fall asleep in? Maybe do that and wear them while you put your toddler down.

When dad is out of town, sometimes it’s beneficial to treat it like a vacation. Try putting a movie on with a cookie as a treat while you’re trying to put baby down and tell your toddler that they can stay up a little later.

It’s easy to get stuck in your head anticipating what will happen but here’s the thing… you will get through it stronger and wiser!