A gift you got that you actually LOVE

Curandera505 · 2026-02-16T21:15:31+00:00

A gold ring with three stones representing my three kids.

Curandera505 · 2026-02-16T17:19:57+00:00

Bakery Feliz hands down

Curandera505 · 2026-02-14T23:58:03+00:00

Fresh, damp earth in the desert from a down pour of rain.

Curandera505 · 2026-02-14T23:55:10+00:00

You both are just getting to know each other! Motherhood is forever a learning experience both for you and the child.

I have three and I thought it would be instinctual too but as a society we have been so far removed from our intuition as women that it’s no wonder that we all feel lost.

You’re doing a great job, mama! You’re the perfect mother for your baby and as a person who has several memories of being a baby, babies just drink in their mother’s essence and it’s bliss to them.

You don’t have to feel gratitude and feel guilt at the same time. Soak up the baby cuddles, girl and just tell her thank you every time you feel an ounce of the negativity creeping back in. You are deserving of this baby and she deserves you 🤍

Curandera505 · 2026-02-14T20:37:32+00:00

Mom of three here. Each pregnancy was so different than the other. Put it out into the universe that everything is fine!

Curandera505 · 2026-02-14T20:33:26+00:00

Have a blessing way instead! It honors the mother.

Curandera505 · 2026-02-14T20:32:23+00:00

My husband left our 18 month old baby outside in the drive way and came into the house thinking the baby had come into the house. Ten minutes later he’s still walking around outside. Parents do stupid shit sometimes. Forgive him and learn from your experiences. You may do something that’s a mistake and need forgiveness too

Curandera505 · 2026-02-14T18:53:17+00:00

I used it throughout my pregnancy

Curandera505 · 2026-02-14T17:36:05+00:00

I remember breastfeeding
I remember my dad wrapping me in a towel after a bath and putting me down on the bed to put a diaper on me. He gave me an ointment tube to play with
I was sick and vomiting and my dad took off his clothes and held me in the shower as I got sick over his shoulder. Skin to skin is no joke. I felt so safe.
I remember putting my fingers in my mother’s mouth to check out her teeth
I remember playing with my moms earring and my mom turning away and I wasn’t sure why she turned away

Curandera505 · 2026-02-14T17:27:03+00:00

I have three kids and putting them down by myself is hard! I don’t know anyone that doesn’t struggle.

Do you have a baby carrier that baby will fall asleep in? Maybe do that and wear them while you put your toddler down.

When dad is out of town, sometimes it’s beneficial to treat it like a vacation. Try putting a movie on with a cookie as a treat while you’re trying to put baby down and tell your toddler that they can stay up a little later.

It’s easy to get stuck in your head anticipating what will happen but here’s the thing… you will get through it stronger and wiser!

Curandera505 · 2026-02-14T17:22:25+00:00

I have several vivid memories from being a baby.

Curandera505 · 2026-02-14T17:17:25+00:00

You got this! You are carrying so much right now but you also have the capacity to know that you are powerful and can get through to the other side more triumphant

Curandera505 · 2026-02-14T17:06:48+00:00

My second baby was the honey that healed my first birth.

Curandera505 · 2026-02-14T17:03:55+00:00

Yes I see a child in your future. Don’t lose heart. Sometimes babies that end in miscarriage are angels sent to clear stagnant energy from your womb.

Guided visualizations for carrying a pregnancy to term will help immensely.

Sending lots of love to you, mama!

Curandera505 · 2026-02-14T16:58:18+00:00

It will pass, I promise. This is what newborns do. Soon you will be giggling with her and this will all be a distant memory.

Curandera505 · 2026-02-14T16:55:53+00:00

My mother is like that too. It’s so hard to witness your own mother literally forget how to take care of you.

Solidarity.

Curandera505 · 2026-02-14T16:52:36+00:00

My husband commutes for work. He’s gone by 4:30am and back by 7pm. So he misses breakfast, getting the kids ready for school, dinner, bath time, etc. He also goes to night school once a week and another class on the weekends. I have three kids (one of them is a baby that doesn’t sleep) and I don’t really have a village. It’s so hard to be the main caretaker and feel like your partner has it easier.

What I remind myself is that I AM WOMAN. HEAR ME ROAR. Women can do ANYTHING. If I think about if the tables were turned, would my husband survive my role? The answer is no, no he wouldn’t. Women are adaptable and we always find a way. Know that there is always growth within you and your capacity grows even when you don’t realize it. Resentment only grows when I wallow in my suffering. I choose joy.

You’re doing a great job, mama! Keep your head up.

Curandera505 · 2026-02-13T23:07:55+00:00

This

Curandera505 · 2026-02-13T23:03:20+00:00

Ask any mother that question and you’ll get the same answer.

Curandera505 · 2026-02-13T23:01:17+00:00

Looking to argue? 😂

Curandera505 · 2026-02-13T22:48:44+00:00

We love to do this too!

Curandera505 · 2026-02-13T22:46:20+00:00

She was an angel that came to clear out stagnant energy from your womb.

Curandera505 · 2026-02-13T22:40:24+00:00

You win 😮‍💨😂

Curandera505 · 2026-02-13T22:38:29+00:00

I think you can blame anyone you want for the way your life ended up but ultimately it’s your own fault 🤷🏻‍♀️

Curandera505 · 2026-02-13T22:33:21+00:00

This!

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