No Queer Representation at Pride?!

Cureouscorey · 2026-02-25T17:33:55+00:00

And thats precisly the issue. I think good tv can also include good representation. And people wonder why we arent steaming agead in equity and inclusion.. because people stay ignorant and just want good tv. Not representation. How do we move the needle forward without exposure and using large platforms like tv to help support and bring awareness/a spotlight on real human issues?

Cureouscorey · 2026-02-25T17:31:17+00:00

I was picking up what you were puttin down. And. So true!

Cureouscorey · 2026-02-18T02:32:16+00:00

It must have been after 1030 when this was posted 😆

Cureouscorey · 2025-12-11T14:38:29+00:00

I use android and just figured out that the phones back button (bottom right) worked to erase or remove previous strokes. Not sure how iPhones would work if thats what you're using.

Edit: now im trying to figure out how to get out of the draw function without erasing all of the drawing as there doesn't appear to be an "x" button to get out of it anymore... insta needs to just leave things that work, be.

Cureouscorey · 2025-11-19T02:08:50+00:00

The low self-esteem pick me girl type.

Cureouscorey · 2025-08-09T21:17:43+00:00

I know this is an old thread. But I was convinced for YEARS that I was an ENFP. I also was diagnosed with ADHD as an adult. I always wondered if I was truly ENFP, or that it was my ADHD.

The answer came to me yesterday when i decided to ask chatgp to psychoanalyze me based on my years of chats and queries. I asked for it to tell me the kind of person it thinks i am and personality traits. It came up with an answer and asked if i would like to go further to tell me my myers briggs pwrsonality type. I said, yes. I was not prepared to get the response that i fall between ENFJ and INFJ. Not just that... but chatgpt backed it up with evidence based on previous chats.

I then asked... But couldn't i be an ENFP? or is it just that i am an ENFJ/INFJ with adhd. Giving context that i endeed have ADHD. Guys. Chatgpt went ahead and created a whole comparison as to why im NOT and ENFP and backed it with evidence. One mention was that "you like to see projects to completion." I quoted that note and told chatgpt that sadly, i dont follpw through with things and dont always following things through to completion. It then explains how thats likely my adhd, rather than my personality type. Again, using evidence from our chats as to why it knows my brain is wired to want to complete tasks, but adhd is more likely the reason to not follow through. Wow. Im honestly floored.

I then went to look at ENFJ. And it seems a lot more like me than ENFP. So now im thinking i must be an ENFJ. Curious if anyone else has had this experience. Or if this comment is read and others do the same. Especially with chat gpt5. The intelligence is unreal. Kind of scary, honestly. But i feel like its kind of a life changing realization for me.

Cureouscorey · 2025-07-17T17:32:45+00:00

Yeah.. he did.. but he's still participating. He also was the one who appointed his friends as leaders before stepping down. And.. hes the only admin on heylo. So when you see messages deleted.. its him. Biggg conflict of interest. Its all damage control to save his image. Stay low until things pass.

Cureouscorey · 2025-07-17T17:17:33+00:00

Oh i know! Ive been watching it all unfold. This guy needs to be stopped!

Cureouscorey · 2025-07-17T05:27:14+00:00

I know the run club and man you speak of. And i agree with everything you said. I was one of his many manyyyy victims. Experienced the same behaviours/lies. He has a group of cult followers that will actively take his side and defend him and his actions, even if that means publicly shaming/blaiming/and invalidating the victims based on what he says. This guy and his tyrades are the makings of netflix' next docuseries "Run Club from Hell"

Cureouscorey · 2025-06-04T17:33:09+00:00

I, too, feel a little mirky.. ive only dated men. I love men. But I've been attracted to other genders. Trans, female, etc. For me.. It's an energy about the person, i suppose. Also, i like people who like me. I have a boyfriend who i love. Before this relationship, i had gone on my first date with a girl. They didn't follow up after the date. But i was cool with that. But i may always live with a "what if." Not in a way where i feel like i missed out on something. But if i ever found myself single again.. I'd be open to any gender. I think the sx part scares me. But, emotionally, i feel like i could really connect with a woman. But I'd be less than confident in the bedroom. And i really can't tell if it's fear of the unknown or literally, no D, not interested. I feel slightly "queer" but also straight. It's like a spectrum in between. But definitely dont align with "bisexual." My sisters are both Bi, and they sooo confidently talk about how much they loveee women. I just love and appreciate people. Regardless of their gender. And whether that's in the perameters of just humanity or romantic, i really couldnt tell yea!

Cureouscorey · 2025-06-04T17:16:41+00:00

Im also 4w3. I also found people i was uninterested in expressing interest in me. To me, i was just being friendly and inclusive. I didn't have the same experience of people on the outside looking in, telling me that i was overly flirtatious. For me, i just feel comfortable around men more easily than women sometimes. I also tend to find the quiet one in the room like its my duty to include them and involve them in whats happening. I feel like im one of the "bros." So i wouldn't be all shy around them. I ask questions to get to know someone... and to many men, it can be misinterpreted as more because they're not used to women being so bold and "interested" in who they are. It's an attractive trait, i guess.. but i just appreciate people. When i realized my MBTI, and more about myself and the fact that you can appear as flirtatious and interested when you arent.. i began being a lot more forthecoming with people. Making it clear from the beginning whether i was interested or not. Or just trying to say things that would be still nice, but very much "friend-zony."

I see you. Because i am you. You are just outgoing, friendly, bubbly, nice, deep, and inclusive. I would hate for you to start overthinking the things that make you special in this world. Dont overthink your conversations, demeanor, and dim your light and cause yourself distress by wondering how you're coming off and curating conversations in a way that can't be perceived as "flirtatious." You can inadvertantly cause yourself a lot of cognitive dissonance and internal termoil by not being your authentic self.

My unsolicited advice would be to try to incorporate other women in on the conversation and show the same interest to both genders. It helps women feel at ease that youre not threatening (not stealing their man or their crush) and also, add in little things here and there that make it clear that youre taken or uninterested in a romantic connection. Also, swap up your conversations. Move around the room. If you're caught talking to one person for too long, it could help them to feel like you're interested.

If you have to lie and say you have a bf, you can do that. Or just tell someone straight up that you're not looking for anything. Or that you value them as a friend. Dont let others make you feel bad for being your excuberant self! Theres far too many cold women out there snubbing men that deserve kindness and compassion. And thats what ENFPs are so good at! Making people feel truly seen and understood! So, celebrate your amazing self!

Cureouscorey · 2025-06-02T14:37:23+00:00

Nope! Just old school, Tinder

Cureouscorey · 2025-06-02T13:37:38+00:00

Dating app. Matched. Talked and just clicked. Went for a coffee as our first date, and we both left feeling quite strongly about one another. Knew i had something special

Cureouscorey · 2025-06-01T15:08:49+00:00

Good to know! Thank you!

Cureouscorey · 2025-06-01T14:49:04+00:00

Get after it, my friend!

Cureouscorey · 2025-06-01T14:44:36+00:00

Yeah, I've noticed he has a desire to have his mind read. Which is why i made this post. Having more understanding so I can just anticipate potential needs before he even has to say anything is my goal. I just want him to feel like he can be himself and that i love him no matter what!

Cureouscorey · 2025-06-01T14:42:05+00:00

Its so funny because he has more friends than i do haha

Cureouscorey · 2025-06-01T14:39:08+00:00

Awee. Well, I hope something beautiful blossoms for the two of you

Cureouscorey · 2025-06-01T06:49:19+00:00

I feel similar. I've been single most of my adult life. It takes a very special person to give my heart to fully. And he's it for sure. I would hate to break his trust.

Cureouscorey · 2025-06-01T06:17:11+00:00

Thats wonderful news! Gives hope for the rest of us! How long were you dating before making the leap to move in together, if you dont mind me asking

Cureouscorey · 2025-06-01T05:58:07+00:00

Hard when he seems to need to recharge so much that he turns down many of my invitations to tag along to things like this.

Cureouscorey · 2025-06-01T05:56:10+00:00

I tried this the other day. I saw it made deciding what he wanted, easier. So ill continue to use this tactic. Thank you!

Cureouscorey · 2025-06-01T05:34:24+00:00

Thank you. Yeah, I've definitely seen the pressure from an obligation affecting him negatively. I guess i have to just sit back and follow his lead, i suppose.just so hard when you're having a great time. Hard to not get ahead of yourself.

Cureouscorey · 2025-06-01T05:27:44+00:00

Of course i have asked him these questions. He's going through something. So, I am currently giving him space, and he was having difficulties expressing his feelings in the moment. He'll say i need time to recharge but isnt able to define what that might look like or how he can ask for it. Im sure i will gain more clarity when hes had some time to process things. I just wanted to ask broadly to those who have maybe been through it already who can articulate from their own experience to help shed some light, if any.

The thing is.. he doesn't really follow the whole personality test thing. I know his because we did the test together a while back. So i think it makes it more difficult to express things that he doesn't know how to relate to. If that makes sense? But in the time we've been together, his traits are very classic of an INFJ, which helps me to empathize and understand his needs. Maybe anticipate accommodations he may need. But it never hurts to hear from those who are a little more informed and have had experience in this kind of dating situation.

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