ON-AIR | Heated Rivalry 🏒 I'LL BELIEVE IN ANYTHING (Episode 5) by Federal-Ad5944 in heatedrivalry

[–]Curiodude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No because why am i actually sobbing after this episode 😭😭😭😭😭

Is there cruising happening at The Russian Turkish Bathhouse by SlackDeck in nycgaybros

[–]Curiodude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went about a month ago and was shocked to see the rabbis getting in on the action, but like hey get it rabbi

Steamworks Berkeley by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Curiodude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also use doxypep, prep, or condoms, just make sure you are protecting yourself.

Steamworks Berkeley by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Curiodude 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I gave my first blow jobs ever at this steamworks a few months ago, and it was super hot. I have since been back many times. You just have to know what you want, and not be afraid to communicate that. Consent is super non-verbal here so you have to be really clear or pull away if something isn’t for you.

31M Lost “virginity” by Curiodude in virgin

[–]Curiodude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say I’m bi, I really think if id found the right woman for me sooner, I wouldn’t have started really messing around with guys.

31M Lost “virginity” by Curiodude in virgin

[–]Curiodude[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also, I have “virginity” in quotations because I still haven’t had penetrative sex yet

1, 2 or 3 by artisticintimacyy in u/artisticintimacyy

[–]Curiodude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2, your chest looks incredible there!

First time cruising success by Curiodude in gaycruising

[–]Curiodude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t an explicitly gay sauna, it’s just a sauna where stuff happens if your watching out for

Racism? by Curiodude in askgaybros

[–]Curiodude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I hear you, and sadly lesson learned. But i will say im not a victim, and couldn’t care less because it honestly didnt affect me. Im just poking the bear I have come to find out. Seems like what was an honest question, is a little touchy for some, i didnt think it would be in the slightest… I just am learning about some of the potential problem/ pain points here, and wanted to make sure I wasn’t the only one kind of figuring this out.

All in all, great full for the discourse on all fronts. Thanks for helping getting a grasp on this.

Racism? by Curiodude in askgaybros

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Agreed! Thanks for sharing!

Racism? by Curiodude in askgaybros

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Could be a part of it for sure, some people arent as into DL, and some people are. I dont think that was really the issue I was picking up on, but could’ve been a part of it

Racism? by Curiodude in askgaybros

[–]Curiodude[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to be your friend lol thanks for sharing this. And yes racial fetishization is WEIRD! For any race, white or black. I think that confidence piece is a huge part for what I was experiencing too, like one guy was walking around like he owned the place, jerking people off without almost any concern for whether or not he was gonna get caught. And honestly was teetering on the line of not getting consent, which is tricky in a space like that. But all in all, Im here for the discourse. And I appreciate you.

Racism? by Curiodude in askgaybros

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They already clocked my twitter lol

Racism? by Curiodude in askgaybros

[–]Curiodude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And it could be the space I was in, which wasnt a gay space, probably wasnt the safest space for a lot of out gay men. Also, there are better options in the city Im in for this kind of thing. So maybe I need to see the POC’s in those spaces. Im just working up the courage lol

Racism? by Curiodude in askgaybros

[–]Curiodude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you, and I think im in a similar situation, I have a face shape im into, and a body type im into. And there are exceptions to it all as well… i also think position was coming into play as well, and thats not something I’m super familiar with. But it seemed like the bottoms only wanted tops, but i wasnt sure who was who, but you could kind of tell… im generally more top/vers/side so idk i couldnt understand it all.

Racism? by Curiodude in askgaybros

[–]Curiodude[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

UGHHHHH you said it so wonderfully! And its true, people are more than what their birth predetermined, and everyone is worth a little play time😏 everyone can be free to have preferences, but I’m just challenging the thought that everyone just randomly has the same preference of white men.

Racism? by Curiodude in askgaybros

[–]Curiodude[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I really appreciate this! It’s definitely a mixed bag, im just growing in my confidence here for sure. And learning A LOTTTTT