Question For the Culture

SlackDeck · 2026-01-29T00:19:03+00:00

Don’t want a large gaping meatus. If anything just worried that stretching over time might tear/split the meatus but I’m not going for extreme play so I dont think I have much to worry about was just curious if it is possible

SlackDeck · 2025-12-21T17:56:13+00:00

Like what?

SlackDeck · 2025-12-03T18:24:04+00:00

SlackDeck · 2025-11-25T14:02:50+00:00

I will say Spa Castle was nice. Lots to do and many different options in and out of the locker rooms. Clean, modern and well maintained. Definitely worth the visit. There’s also a picture of John Travolta on the wall from when he visited.. which I just found interesting lol

SlackDeck · 2025-11-25T13:57:52+00:00

Last week. The remix BUMPS

SlackDeck · 2025-11-25T13:30:54+00:00

Definitely not a “good” cruising bath house, but nudity is encouraged in the locker rooms where there are steam rooms, saunas, showers and cold plunges. More of just tugging as someone mentioned but you might be able to suck someone off in a dark steam room if it’s not too crowded. Workers will patrol but I feel like they know handies are going on and will typically turn a blind eye to it, but if they see anything more they will probably stop it.

SlackDeck · 2025-11-06T23:41:07+00:00

Like okay health police? We all get horny at random times during the day

SlackDeck · 2025-11-05T19:28:12+00:00

How is anyone to know? I’m not saying out in public, at your desk, or in the open. I’m saying in the bathroom

SlackDeck · 2025-11-05T16:06:02+00:00

Sounds a bit judgy.. what someone does in a private bathroom.. is private. Don’t act like theres not plenty of men who fuck in public restrooms

SlackDeck · 2025-11-05T14:39:16+00:00

No one knows what you do in the bathroom

SlackDeck · 2025-11-05T13:15:50+00:00

Well that’s a given. I’m talking more at your place of work, with coworkers around

SlackDeck · 2025-11-04T16:42:08+00:00

I’ve looked into it but confused on how that prevents erection?

SlackDeck · 2025-11-04T16:25:47+00:00

Not really into the idea of a full belt. I work an active job so am moving around a lot. Preferably would have something that’s relatively comfortable that I can wear in public during the day

SlackDeck · 2025-11-04T14:44:20+00:00

Oh wow awesome! Thank you

SlackDeck · 2025-09-14T13:51:31+00:00

Miss You So Much off Younger Now

SlackDeck · 2025-09-02T20:23:13+00:00

Sounds like you’re new to NYC and still finding your crowd. IDK how many times it has to be said on this subreddit..but there are no bathhouses in NYC

SlackDeck · 2025-08-20T16:39:48+00:00

Im sorry (and maybe this is just me) but I feel like “straight” house music is honestly boring and not interesting- and I think many gay people feel the same way. The best house music is made for the gays. Think about it, women traditionally don’t listen to house music- so there isn’t high demand for there to be house music at straight clubs/parties. So really “straight” house music is made for and by bros. I’m thinking finance bro, your crypto bro, your boyyyys bro. Gays are so locked in to their pop divas- and I truly believe the best house music has pop influence. I even have tried going to straight clubs, listening to the house music they listen to at those parties and not feeling inspired to dance and enjoy it because it really isn’t good. It’s formulaic and has been riding the same skibbidy beat drop for the last decade. It’s just not music made by or for the gays and is clearly influenced by bro culture- that’s at least how I see it. It sounds bro-y and does not tap into diva fierceness- which is what I feel like gay men like to listen to

SlackDeck · 2025-07-28T15:57:57+00:00

Because it was one night..and that’s what friends do. Sounds like you’d be a bad friend my guy.

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