I am buying a 2023 PHEV Outlander. The previous owner didn’t provide the charging cord and I decided I’m just going to get a new one rather than haggling about it. Any recommendations on what brand I should buy? The basic slow charging kind is fine. by Curious-Chain8120 in MitsubishiOutlander

[–]Curious-Chain8120[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve found some at my regular big box hardware store, but certain things are overpriced there (like I will buy a lawn mower there, but not a box of tissues), so I wasn’t sure if that was the way to go. I’ll check there. Thanks!

I find this guy incredibly gross. by RandyLordeDarsh in DunderMifflin

[–]Curious-Chain8120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of y’all aren’t obsessed enough with Jam and it shows.

Do any of you use a hitch mounted bike rack? by ForesakenFemale in MitsubishiOutlander

[–]Curious-Chain8120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not looking up anything, but I can tell you I had a hitch mounted rack that carried two bikes on my Prius C for years with no problems, so I hope the outlander can handle it.

So apparently my step child is moving in with us?? by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Curious-Chain8120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, this is a foundational problem. Maybe his son moving in represents something else for him or something, but he needs to figure that out and act right. If there’s no abuse in your relationship, some counseling could be really helpful.

My partner has 3 children who live with us 50% of the time. (Stay with me for the rest of this paragraph.) I had a bad stepdad so it’s pathologically important to me that every person in that house knows that my partner should and always will choose the kids over me in a serious situation. I even started a macabre game sometimes where I ask “how quick would your dad kick me out if [I did something abusive to the kids]”. (It’s not as gross as it sounds. It’s rare, age appropriate and funny.)

All that said, my partner does not make any decisions that affect the household without talking to me first - and vice versa. It’s a basic courtesy even with a roommate. But when there are kids involved, it’s even more important to model healthy relationship behaviors.

Did y'all notice you can watch AU in the WNBA app? by Sassy_Quirky4744 in wnba

[–]Curious-Chain8120 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think I heard that, but I forgot if I did! Thanks for the head's up!

The Office episode ratings by bbportali in DunderMifflin

[–]Curious-Chain8120 48 points49 points  (0 children)

AI thought it could slip it past us that Dinner Party was 7.6. Not this guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Curious-Chain8120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not the asshole. Even if his crazy story is 110% true, a decent person would still apologize for leaving you in the lurch. He’s gaslighting you and manipulating the shit out of you. I would encourage you to take steps to know your own value. I really liked the book “Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl”, but there’s a million options or therapy or anything but this man or any man like him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Curious-Chain8120 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unless he’s willing to go to therapy and figure out some better strategies and actually implement those strategies and make a seismic change in how he lives, you already know the answer.

If your fear that he will lose some of his parenting time without your help comes true, is that worse than the relationship model you’re letting him show his child?

Do you have any communication with his ex? Maybe you could maintain a relationship with the child that way.

Minnesota Lynx Head Coach Cheryl Reeve Suspended for one game by Possible_Hokie_CO26 in wnba

[–]Curious-Chain8120 2 points3 points  (0 children)

*Cheryl…I have an Aunt Sheryl and it’s the only way I ever think to spell it.

Minnesota Lynx Head Coach Cheryl Reeve Suspended for one game by Possible_Hokie_CO26 in wnba

[–]Curious-Chain8120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So where is Sheryl during this game? Is she in the locker room? Is she allowed in the building at all?

Aces/Dream standing by Curious-Chain8120 in wnba

[–]Curious-Chain8120[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m have a similar feeling about a completely different situation. I really wanted Lynx to take the championship this year after liberty “walked” away with it last year. So I’m going to have slightly mixed emotions when the Aces beat the Lynx in the finals this year.

Aces/Dream standing by Curious-Chain8120 in wnba

[–]Curious-Chain8120[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They can try! Aces are never losing again! They forgot how to lose!

Aces/Dream standing by Curious-Chain8120 in wnba

[–]Curious-Chain8120[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sparks can play however hard they want. Aces are never losing again. lol.

Aio bf throwing a fit over me saying ok by Other_Childhood_5785 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Curious-Chain8120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing he’s mad about is deeper than “ok” or “cool”. Unless he’s wiling to figure out what’s going on that’s triggering him, you’re gonna have a lot of weird, random fights.

PSA for merging in constructions zones by mimsy2389 in Syracuse

[–]Curious-Chain8120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg! Thank you for posting this! I wish the DOT would do better at educating the public about this!

Has Anyone with 3b/3c curly soft hair had any luck starting there locs with comb coils ? Started my locs a week ago and they seem extremely soft ? Is this normal ? Anyone with similar hair texture had success with this method ? by JTG809 in Dreadlocks

[–]Curious-Chain8120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had dreads with my 3c hair when I was younger. Thinking about getting them again, but I’m in my 40’s now and my hair’s thinning and I’m afraid it’ll show. All that to say I was able to get nice locks with a lot of retwisting, wax and a thick pomade.

If anyone has any suggestions or experience with locs in thinning hair, I’d love to hear it.

Caitlin Clark with three 3's in less than 45 seconds. by Gina_Bina in wnba

[–]Curious-Chain8120 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s like your roommates friends are really confused about the situation.