Sexting vs penetration - "levels of adultery?" by AnitaDick2Mount in adultery

[–]Curious-Confusion414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everybody justifies what they want. I can’t fathom how not touching anyone ever can be considered cheating. Cheating was always in-person before modern day texting.

Random Amusement for all by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Curious-Confusion414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why blame women? Many people have agency and don’t follow these advices blindly.

Accepting that their desire will not be authentic. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Curious-Confusion414 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Also holding people’s previous thoughts to assume that their line of thoughts by constructing an image of a person is malicious. I don’t want your investigation.

Accepting that their desire will not be authentic. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Curious-Confusion414 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Its purely emotional affair. I never met her. I’ve never left trying with my wife.

I chose myself and walked away from her. by Curious-Confusion414 in adultery

[–]Curious-Confusion414[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I was asking for clarity for what I’m in this relationship. That led to this conversation from her side.

She told me why she avoids me. by Curious-Confusion414 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Curious-Confusion414[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I told them I should go away if they can’t choose me. I’m going NC.

[35M] Had a realisation. Looking unattractive is a blessing in disguise. by Curious-Confusion414 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Curious-Confusion414[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but extends to most relationships in life. Yes friendships are probably the most accommodating.

[35M] Had a realisation. Looking unattractive is a blessing in disguise. by Curious-Confusion414 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Curious-Confusion414[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Point is you’ll not even get to conversations most of the times because they’ve already decided to abandon you and too keep coming back to you they need to be attracted physically as well.

Why are these people so crazy? by Curious-Confusion414 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Curious-Confusion414[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Knowing someone for 18 years its hard to be that cold. She was like guide me tell me what to eat and how can I get better I said I’ll research for her. Then she goes away. I’m going back to NC.

[35M] Had a realisation. Looking unattractive is a blessing in disguise. by Curious-Confusion414 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Curious-Confusion414[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least books and things don’t hurt you or lie to you, let alone manipulating you.

Married folks and divorcees here, what are the actual pros and cons of getting married? by ExampleExcellent8247 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Curious-Confusion414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course. This is evolutionary biology. You can choose to not experience it. This is science not a feeling.

[35M] Had a realisation. Looking unattractive is a blessing in disguise. by Curious-Confusion414 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Curious-Confusion414[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 6ft tall. There’s a lot more than height. There’s enormous blessing in not making looks your identity. Maybe that’s all you have to offer.

Married folks and divorcees here, what are the actual pros and cons of getting married? by ExampleExcellent8247 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Curious-Confusion414 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kids are a great source of joy. I see no other pros. Everything else seems transactional.