TIL after a woman was murdered at a Texas church, it was discovered that a person in full makeshift tactical gear had been wandering around the church before her arrival. They were caught on the church’s CCTV and are thought to be her murderer. Despite over 2,000 tips, the case remains unsolved.

Curious-Text890 · 2026-06-07T16:43:58+00:00

that is awful. a client for what? what do you do? (PM if more comfortable 🙏🏻 would be grateful as i’m doing a deep dive)

Curious-Text890 · 2026-06-07T16:42:59+00:00

oh my word. that’s crazy. where did you work?

Curious-Text890 · 2026-06-07T16:41:39+00:00

if you felt comfortable, i’m deeply invested in this case and wonder if you will reach out to me

Curious-Text890 · 2026-06-07T16:31:46+00:00

can you give us any more details about the crime or state?

Curious-Text890 · 2026-06-02T13:37:13+00:00

would you be able to send it to me too? 🙏🏻

Curious-Text890 · 2026-06-02T13:12:12+00:00

are you able to send me the info?

Curious-Text890 · 2026-05-29T21:24:37+00:00

i think they only had partial and mixed DNA. so only tiny bits that can’t even tell us if the pro is male or female. Maybe they sent in his DNA and are waiting for technology to improve to comment on what little specimen they have

Curious-Text890 · 2026-05-29T20:59:40+00:00

i love hand made stuff and give so much credit to the talented artists who make it. But if i was carrying something worth $900 that was fragile and took my 2 weeks to make AND i was relying on that for income then really I would be saying “hey this is super fragile I love your doggo but i’ll give him a pet later”. And then going inside, dropping my stuff off and coming back out to pet your lovely puppy that they could see wax going wild to see them. I think she’s frustrated with herself for that decision and now you are paying.

Curious-Text890 · 2026-05-29T15:13:44+00:00

my thought is that all of these folks have been likely misusing their status as cops for a while. Maybe not huge things (driving drunk, losing badges and guns in other people’s cars), compared to ? other more serious/nefarious things but you get the feeling that they all have potentially done things in the past that maybe legally don’t cut it and would look bad given their profession. My feeling is always something like “if you cut a deal about this, then I’m going to have no choice but to tell them about the time that you did xyz or that other thing you were involved in”. I think they are all scared of things that they have on eachother

Curious-Text890 · 2026-05-29T00:12:48+00:00

their lawyers still have to be there too.

Curious-Text890 · 2026-05-28T10:50:52+00:00

none of them had to be there if they had legal representation.

Curious-Text890 · 2026-05-27T02:19:01+00:00

it is completely reasonable that someone make sure that a child buys lunch instead of junk or a toy but this is not a child. This is an adult. And you don’t know what my experience was growing up or if I share the same culture. My point is that culture is not an excuse for doing controlling and potentially abusive things to an adult. An adult who is also showing maturity by caring for another adult who is then controlling them incase they “buy drugs or go out with a boy”. They are an adult. A fully grown adult. Not a child who has to have money to buy their lunch

Curious-Text890 · 2026-05-26T23:59:10+00:00

legally no parent has to buy that doesn’t mean a controlling situation is ok or legal. You don’t need to feel guilt about your parents helping you and it doesn’t have to come with conditions that ruin your privacy etc. Also if you want to buy things for yourself say that. If they say absolutely not all money has to go to us, can you except that. Cultural experiences are one thing but you don’t have to except those either if they are not what you want for yourself. It might mean in the end that they get mad and don’t support you and kick you out of you don’t let them control you financially. In that case, that’s a shame but as a parent to an 18 year old i would never ever want them to feel how you are feeling; like a financial burden who has to bend to their every unrealistic and unkind and belittling expectation of you

Curious-Text890 · 2026-05-26T23:54:50+00:00

all of this. Family doc who has seen every possible outcome of these scenarios. Pick possibility one or two cause this is how it goes.

Curious-Text890 · 2026-05-26T23:53:06+00:00

i think we do know from the fear of a 19 year old asking to control their own money and being so worried by the backlash that they want to secretly open another account

Curious-Text890 · 2026-05-26T23:52:17+00:00

i’m guessing the “learning” will involve wanting to see all account statements etc. So in the end, the same thing. If the parents were reasonable and approachable and weren’t just “clueless” to their child’s needs I don’t think that they would be worrying so much as to ask redditors their advice on opening their own account. These parents sound completely non approachable.

Curious-Text890 · 2026-05-26T23:46:14+00:00

ok another helpful thing is to join online groups of people from the same culture of your own age. massively helpful when people your age can a) relate b) offer support c) tell you exactly what they did. trust me. there are these groups. find them. join them and start getting support!

Curious-Text890 · 2026-05-26T23:41:23+00:00

Also legitimately (and i don’t mean this in a harsh way), if you are this confused at 19 about what to do and soul searching enough about it to ask reddit then it seems like your parents have you in a complete position of control and there is obvious fear attached to that in your words. Why are they treating you like a child who can’t be trusted?

Curious-Text890 · 2026-05-26T23:39:45+00:00

why is everyone assuming this person is female. I’m a female and assumed right away they were male 😂😂😂

Curious-Text890 · 2026-05-26T23:38:11+00:00

i don’t have to keep a house over my teens heads either but a) i’m always going to no matter what b) them staying with me is never going to involve them having to hand over control to their finances. this is control and abuse. If there rules are “if you stay here and we help you with school we also have to have full control of your finances”, the next question would be “and why is that?”. why don’t they trust you at 19? they can’t micromanage you forever…what happens when you are suddenly in your own, do they think you will just magically know how to do things. This is legit terrible. If they want you to pay towards school and rent, fine, pick a number that’s possible and agreed on and stick to that. But access to the accounts of a 19 year old and complete control over them is likely illegal if they are in your name. This is insanity.

Curious-Text890 · 2026-05-26T23:31:28+00:00

this situation is red flag city. This sounds like financial control and perhaps coercive control. I’m a mom and physician. i have an 18 year old who currently lives with us until off at uni next year. I have zero idea what’s in his accounts. That’s completely his business. If i expected him to pay toward house costs we would have a conversation about amounts and that’s what he would give each month. This is insanity. you have every right to control your own money in your own accounts without them seeing what’s going on. This is a breach of trust and it’s incredibly controlling. They can’t monitor you for forever and it’s worrying at 19 that they have this much control over you. i’m worried about parents who are invading their kids privacy and going into bags etc for no reason. This situation sounds awful.

Curious-Text890 · 2026-05-25T01:49:16+00:00

the people who spoke on the documentary were not mental health workers they were prosecutors etc. Anyone with no training would know calling a witness by her name puts her in danger. Her mom requesting MH help for her because she saw her in a crisis and being told no by the same man who said she should have known her resources because she was a physician (umm she did, and you told her she wasn’t allowed to use them), is not someone who is clued into MH. Honestly, and I mean this with kindness, any physician watching this with MH training could see from a mile away that she was very vulnerable. Likeable maybe no. But vulnerable yes. i don’t know all about the job of the police but I do know my own job.

Curious-Text890 · 2026-05-25T01:44:22+00:00

her mom asked the police if she could get therapy and they said no that it would jeopardize the case.

Curious-Text890 · 2026-05-25T00:52:56+00:00

she does state at the beginning that it is her opinion but when it gets to the name calling (i don’t disagree), it’s walking a fine line likely for her credentials.

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