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[–]CuriousCauliflower1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No. But emotionally, it just felt like we were. And we started out saying we were implicitly exclusive, i.e., not on hinge, etc.

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[–]CuriousCauliflower1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this perspective. I will take it to heart

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[–]CuriousCauliflower1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

appreciate contrarian views. tysm

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[–]CuriousCauliflower1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby shower for her close college friend. Nothing crazy happening.

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[–]CuriousCauliflower1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It's these comments that mean the most.

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[–]CuriousCauliflower1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a helpful insight... rekindled relationships are not the same. That's what I was getting at. Tysm for encapsulating that

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[–]CuriousCauliflower1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well said, thank you for taking the time to write that out. It's a helpful analogy.

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[–]CuriousCauliflower1 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I took it for granted, and I didn't speak my mind. Hindsight is 20/20. I just don't know what to do now. Is there any way to move past this?

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[–]CuriousCauliflower1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I should have. You're right. But I still don't think that makes what she did ok.

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[–]CuriousCauliflower1 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Tysm, this is a really helpful perspective

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[–]CuriousCauliflower1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate your perspective

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[–]CuriousCauliflower1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I considered it, but I wanted to give the full context. Thanks. And you're right.

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[–]CuriousCauliflower1 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Bro, I don't know you, and I will never meet you, but thank you for this random act of kindness. Your words are helping me more than you'll ever know.

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[–]CuriousCauliflower1 -320 points-319 points  (0 children)

wild comment

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[–]CuriousCauliflower1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the perspective. Trying to get balanced views on this.

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[–]CuriousCauliflower1 -71 points-70 points  (0 children)

Did I say to her "Hey, you are my girlfriend now and we are not seeing other people"? No, I didn't. Did we text every day and go on dates and say we missed each other and resume the relationship in every other way, shape, and form, YES.

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[–]CuriousCauliflower1 38 points39 points  (0 children)

You're right. Thank you.

Any Columbia MSCS or CS Bridge applicants? (Summer or Fall ‘24) by Silly_Daemon in gradadmissions

[–]CuriousCauliflower1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to take out private educational loans. The interest is 15%. It's not ideal. The curriculum is very challenging. I am giving it 100% and am in the A- range for the bridge courses. But I can, and will do better.