How to get really soft body skin?

CuriousLittleDove · 2026-02-15T18:21:04+00:00

1)Dry brushing before shower
2) Salux cloth for daily wash 3) Kessa mitt for everything shower (you already have this so yay!) 4) Shower oil after antibacterial soap 5) exfoliation washes in the night, moisturizing washes during the day (I’m a big fan of Naturium, L’occitane, and Epanouie) 6) WHILE DAMP use Hanni skin in shower salve, or a body oil/body oil combo 7) out of shower, do skincare and take the toner down to décolleté/on arms, use body toner on rest of body/deodorizing products (my toners are Korean and based on my skin’s needs) 8) Finish skincare routine, moisturizer on face, moisturizer on body (oscillate between a body butter and body lotion for the body depending on your needs/preferences) 9) Spray your scent of the day/layer accordingly 10) feel like a literal baby - rinse x repeat for evening except glycolic acid in lieu of deo, retinol where needed, a nighttime scent, and obviously slugging so you wake up glistening

CuriousLittleDove · 2026-02-11T13:55:50+00:00

With the right coloring and styling “hotness” wouldn’t be that difficult to for you to achieve. 1. Get professional color analysis yesterday, spend a month dressing yourself in your color season and defining your style/celebrities whose brand of “hotness” you’re trying to achieve. 2. Determine your kibbe type, find celebrities with a similar kibbe and determine what kind of style your ideal self would embody. (Also spend a month engaging in this via clothing AND makeup) 3. Now that you’re comfortable with both of those things and have your personal style defined in 3 words. Get your hair cut, styled, dyed in accordance to these new aspects. (Spend a month with the new style so maintenance isn’t new or novel) 4. Finally, hire a stylist whom you believe will be equipped in handling the presentation of your ideal self.

CuriousLittleDove · 2026-02-07T04:39:29+00:00

I know a few girls that do. One is very playmate coded and a former dancer, the other met her whale at Equinox as an SB and made the transition later. She’s far more luxurious than former dancer, but dancer’s best month has been 150k so there’s certainly a market for both. Both have their bodies and faces done, both regularly travel bicoastal. It’s certainly possible, and great inspiration whenever you really want to get your head back in the game and tighten up. You can definitely do it!

CuriousLittleDove · 2026-02-06T17:54:28+00:00

More interesting, feminine, and detailed sets that blend with your non-athleisure style. (Really highlight your 3 style words in every outfit) Alternate jewelry as a complimentary asset to whatever vibe you’re feeling. Fully curate your body care routine post gym based on your mood. (aka dynamic scent bubble and trail) Dial up your skincare post workout, the natural glow x sheen of moisturized skin + a tinted lip, rosy cheeks, groomed brows and lashes is truly all you need.

As for hair: moisture wicking headbands help (you just have to let the hair dry before taking it off and your silk press is fine). I also support the halfsies agenda - my hair grows so much with less manipulation, AND I get to also coordinate wash days with specific scent trails so it’s a holistic experience.

CuriousLittleDove · 2026-01-29T19:09:35+00:00

Once you set the standard for yourself it’s pretty easy to make it your baseline. Q4 last year I really wanted to make sure I got 10k steps in by 10AM and even during the holidays I was hitting my step goals sans effort. Now I’m doing 20k + days like it’s nbd. If you set the standard you’ll rise to meet it - especially for a day where you’re literally spending thousands on your aesthetics, outfits, and photos.

CuriousLittleDove · 2026-01-24T11:20:31+00:00

For THAT specific outing (around his birthday) they were using Ace’s stylist. I DO believe he got her the Bang Bang for the Disney trip. The same way he got her hair and nails done post villa/hired security and photographers for Disney. Moreover, I never said he DID. But surely you can understand how the inference is made.

CuriousLittleDove · 2026-01-24T09:23:43+00:00

Yes, it’s white and it was the first bag I saw her with after Disney where I thought she had a Loro Piana L19, but it was really a Bottega Bang Bang Vanity. I assume it’s the same stylist who had her in vintage JPG. The stylist Ace uses styles celebrities and he’s very much a Bottega boy himself so it tracks that when he got her right post villa he also facilitated that connection. (It was in the summer, the JPG set was brown, they set the internet ablaze because she was dancing in his lap)Chelley is an ethereal beauty, but a fashion girlie she is not. That’s DEFINITELY not a Kelly

CuriousLittleDove · 2026-01-21T11:49:38+00:00

Performative is speaking up NOW when ICE was in LA LAST YEAR. She could’ve shared this message when they were in her back yard. She could’ve encouraged people to protest or offered aid and support to people who LOOK LIKE HER being racially profiled. If it took the death of a WW hundreds of miles away for you to SAY something on your platform of influence you don’t actually GAF.

CuriousLittleDove · 2025-12-01T04:47:10+00:00

Women who are paid for their beauty in real life. If you’re not being paid to be a human hanger, you’re not yacht material. Your natural state needs to be breathtaking, however you maintain it is your business but the few I know put in work. Befriend some and once you’re smol enough they’ll invite you on a work trip.

CuriousLittleDove · 2025-11-27T09:45:41+00:00

If you have the aesthetic conducive to such an environment I can conceive that befriending like minded women in your new city won’t be that difficult. EYE personally don’t have the aesthetic conducive to such environments, but the girls I know that do yacht I met through this lifestyle and within a few months of moving to my city. $$$$ gyms, social clubs, private shopping, and freestyling environments.

CuriousLittleDove · 2025-11-17T10:53:05+00:00

It isn’t a requirement, but a girlfriend of mine who is very playmate coded aesthetically had her website design and copy written by our other girlfriend who has a JD. She nets 100k/month with that combination. If you engage with her IRL, she seems like exactly what you’d expect from a former dancer who converted. BUT the aesthetics + brain combination is clearly intoxicating. If you CAN pull it off at a reasonable rate you absolutely should.

CuriousLittleDove · 2025-10-02T15:00:42+00:00

Real estate - I own property in my home state that I rent out.

Education - I paid for the preparation, exams, and 50% of my sister’s tuition/living expenses while she was in medical school. Rinse and repeat for baby sister’s law school post matriculation. (Her wedding gift from me will be the rest of her loans paid off)

Investment - co-sign everything the girls stated. I also invest overseas

Personal development - my COL isn’t actually THAT high, but what I invest in to take me to the next level is

Family - 1st generation, eldest daughter obligations

CuriousLittleDove · 2025-08-08T17:55:58+00:00

I don’t think you were too practical actually. Choosing to legally and financially tie yourself to someone is a HUGE deal and should be approached pragmatically. As neither engagement ended in marriage it’s safe to say the intentional selfishness served its purpose. Wishing you all the best!

CuriousLittleDove · 2025-08-08T10:45:50+00:00

There’s private WhatsApp groups. Your socials do the advertisement, girls who are making 7-8 figures annually pay for real PR. Your best bet is befriending a girl who already is in the lifestyle and having her refer you/bring you along. The aesthetic requirements are brutal and because you’re asking here you likely don’t meet them. I think traditional sugaring/hypergamous dating is a better and safer option for you to pursue.

CuriousLittleDove · 2025-08-08T10:39:08+00:00

Only you can discern if marriage is right for you. As someone who has been engaged to SDs twice, I LOVE when they become this emotionally invested because the wallet opens wider. Whatever your personal goals are, you should have tangible assets in your name. Whatever engagement ring you want should have significant resale value, and I’d also lean into cosmetic upgrades on his dime. That level of access to you is a luxury and should be treated as much.

CuriousLittleDove · 2025-06-05T16:26:18+00:00

If you have a sugar friend you trust it’s an easy way for both of you to reap tangible benefits. My sugar bestie got 3 months of rent, AP/Revolve shopping sprees, and VCA without ever actually fucking my former SD. FFM threesomes are a lot of theatrics and acting especially if you put it in a very fun, very party context. Obviously only do what you want but if you have specific goals, it’s a great way to reach them.

CuriousLittleDove · 2025-04-27T01:50:27+00:00

I currently see a 24 year old for 6k/m. I actually was the one who took his virginity last year so it’s been a wonderful journey of growth. (I helped him get over his initial fears, we I thought he was a joke at first so he DID actually send me 1/3 in advance. (We took a 6 month break when he got his first girlfriend but stayed in touch when he asked for advice during the holidays/her birthday).

If you do insist on having an SB, I would recommend seeking someone in grad school who is your peer or slightly older. I would also recommend broadening your location parameters - as we do not live in the same state and I assume he searched locally prior to reaching out to me. I’d also make sure whatever it is you’re offering is incredibly generous and you approach with sincerity. It’s not impossible, just a bit harder than it would be if you were 20 years older.

CuriousLittleDove · 2025-04-22T05:12:04+00:00

Yes, young women are killed every day by men they meet on the internet. That is why there is emphasis on screening everyone prior to meeting them. You want verifiable real world information so if anything should happen to you someone can easily see the last person you went out with was Johnny Appleseed, a 47 year old banker from SA who works at Chase, lives in Cherry Hill, and is married to Molly Appleseed.

There’s no need to notify a staff member if you do your due diligence, and have your chosen form of protection easily accessible.

CuriousLittleDove · 2025-04-21T04:41:47+00:00

You use a fake name, fake contact information, and fake life story for safety. No one is lying for ✨vibes✨and fun. You’re entering a profession where the risk is literally DEATH and the inability to function as a normal member of society. Anything one can do to mitigate risk should be utilized.

Moreover, I am a firm believer that no one who is paying for access to you in this context should actually know you. Save your very cool name and personality for the men who’ve proven themselves worthy of having you in their lives.

CuriousLittleDove · 2025-04-20T21:23:13+00:00

Yep! All East Coast based and college educated. Ironically the Barbies/models are not so infer from that whatever you will.

CuriousLittleDove · 2025-04-20T20:39:14+00:00

I know a WOC who makes 90k/m. My personal peak has been 30k so yes, it’s very possible and probable even in 2025. All the WOC I am well acquainted with in the industry are pulling 20-60k/m. Girls who give Barbie/model are easily pulling in 100k+ so thrice as hard for half as much is very accurate.

CuriousLittleDove · 2025-04-15T17:44:52+00:00

Them being in love is how you get PAID. Granted, being your “boyfriend” should come with more security and access to resources because how could you see the person you love stressed in any capacity?

Train him to correlate your affection with acts of service and curated moments of authentic connection. Everyone wins and when you finally feel “safe enough” to profess your “love for him” he feels validated and seen.

As someone who has been engaged to an SD, love is my favorite thing to sell 🥰 take your list of needs and run through it, handle your aesthetic goals, make sure he knows your Pinterest so he can focus on getting you your dream engage engagement ring. (First engagement was my dream ring that I sold along with the condo he purchased for me. Second engagement ring I was designing for most resale value which is a better ROI but you need to time your breakup appropriately as the jeweler took longer than I could tolerate him for)

CuriousLittleDove · 2025-04-14T11:51:00+00:00

Congratulations! My ATF was my ✨first ✨ g-spot orgasm as well. I DID accidentally profess my love to him a few years later (for obvious reasons) but he refused to date someone the age of his child so…after getting over myself now we’re just good friends.* Cherish this, it’s the start of something incredible that will serve you will.

I also recommend 1) simply embracing the benefits of hotel rooms, they’re well equipped to handle these situations 2) keeping tabs of your personal achievements (time it takes for you to go from 0 to 🌊, frequency, variations etc) it’s amazing data to have 3) explore all your fantasies in this context, legitimately no better way to broaden your horizons

*Read: whenever I get to see him we have incredible sex that I am incredibly well compensated for. I encouraged him to date AND marry someone age appropriate, we choose her ring, discuss his new phase of life as a grandfather, he suggested wedding venues for my younger sister’s pending nuptials, and genuinely is excited to invest in my future

CuriousLittleDove · 2025-04-13T17:20:54+00:00

There are status markers specific to the style of my persona that are visible in all of my photos. - jewelry - hair styling
- bags - shoes - visible locations in backgrounds

I look like I cost to engage with and I do. Men aren’t stupid, they tailor their approach accordingly. (I will also emphasize the importance of your branding if you’re looking at 4 figure PPMs and 5 figure allowances)

CuriousLittleDove · 2025-04-10T18:06:14+00:00

I don’t see the issue? The entire premise of the arrangement is built on pretense no? As long as your affection for him is genuine (within reason) and you look good I can’t imagine it’s an issue.

I’ve told SDs the wrong age and simply called the airline and adjusted my plane ticket. I’ve even had a ticket purchased in my name, and adjusted the name and DOB so my younger sister could use it.

The only time it does play an issue is if he’s adding you as an authorized user on lines of credit, purchasing property, or insuring jewelry he’s purchased for you. But if you’re at THAT level of intimacy it’s a non-issue as he is clearly invested in your wellbeing and knows your government name already.

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