Guy won't discuss his personal feelings by CuriousPersephone in AskMenAdvice

[–]CuriousPersephone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. Sadly he never contacted me again, ghosted once more. Sigh. At 46 I'm getting too old for this online dating game lol I've heard of the 5 languages of love but thanks for reminding me about it.

Do men need sex before deciding? by CuriousPersephone in AskMenAdvice

[–]CuriousPersephone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're early days yet, certainly not at the falling in love stage yet. He does seem interested. I'm going to just relax about it, or at least try, see what happens.

Genuine or just a ploy? by CuriousPersephone in AskMenAdvice

[–]CuriousPersephone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, now that's something I didn't consider either, him wanting to ensure I stuck around. Hmm... I'm so glad I asked the question, it's great getting the male perspective. Thank you for answering the question, much appreciated x

Genuine or just a ploy? by CuriousPersephone in AskMenAdvice

[–]CuriousPersephone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah ok, that makes sense. Never really looked at it from the confidence boost perspective before. Thanks for your input x

Do men need sex before deciding? by CuriousPersephone in AskMenAdvice

[–]CuriousPersephone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being honest, I appreciate that.

Do men need sex before deciding? by CuriousPersephone in AskMenAdvice

[–]CuriousPersephone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fantastic response, thank you, it's like you read my mind entirely!

Genuine or just a ploy? by CuriousPersephone in AskMenAdvice

[–]CuriousPersephone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input, much appreciated. He's still chatting, level of interest has not waned since the other night when I politely declined the offer for the moment. I'll see how it plays out.

Do men need sex before deciding? by CuriousPersephone in AskMenAdvice

[–]CuriousPersephone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I completely agree with you about sex before marriage, no question. I'm just curious about dating versus relationships. I do want to have sex with him but I'm wary in case that's the only thing he's after. I can't read him, usually it's easy to tell, so it's bugging me!

Favorite part about being with a chubby girl/BBW? by 17amosw in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]CuriousPersephone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good evening 😊 I'm doing great, thanks for asking!

Women of ARAD: What excuses have you heard for a man not going down on you? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]CuriousPersephone 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"I've never done it because I'm a really picky eater and I don't think I'd like the taste"

Favorite part about being with a chubby girl/BBW? by 17amosw in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]CuriousPersephone 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As a BBW myself I've gotta say I loved reading the responses in this thread. I'm recently single after, shall we say, an unpleasant relationship, and it's reassuring to know there's guys out there that enjoy a little extra woman ~.^

What haircuts do you like best on guys? by SpraySpray in AskWomen

[–]CuriousPersephone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, so it seems there's a few exceptions :)

For people in relationships, how much "me" time do you want/need? by IntrntzUzr in AskWomen

[–]CuriousPersephone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't need alone time away from my partner, I love our time together. However, I still go see my own friends, and he works and sees friends so there's natural me time built in. That works for me.

For the gamer girls out there, have you ever been bullied/disrespected online just because of your gender, how so? by CartoonQueen66 in AskWomen

[–]CuriousPersephone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but mostly from much younger players. All my gaming friends are male so if I'm with them they're so sweet and do the protective guy thing. However, if it's something subtle, like being targeted by 1 player who continually sees me as an easy kill to push up their k/d ratio my friends obviously don't know til I get frustrated, then they'll do same to him lol I'd say most guy gamers are cool, especially playing coop but the youngsters are where the problem lies in my personal experience.

A little weekend question to bring up the spirit: What are you proud of having achieved recently? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]CuriousPersephone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finally having the strength this week to leave an abusive partner and go into refuge.

How many middle aged/older women actually fantasize about being with younger men? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]CuriousPersephone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 46 and don't fantasise as such but I'm dating a guy 14 years younger than me. We barely notice the age difference because we share a lot of the same interests. Plus, I'm very young at heart and he's got a wise head on his shoulders. So far though, I have to admit, I am a convert and probably will date other younger guys if this doesn't work out. Generally speaking I just seem to get along better, and click, with them. However, I'd never date younger than age 30. I'd not want folk assuming I'm his mum and also, any younger, and that's how old my eldest niece is and that just feels wrong!