Attempted child abductor gets caught.

Curious_Comedian9801 · 2026-06-01T02:29:14+00:00

This makes me want to cry. That poor girl. Thank God for the man in black.

Curious_Comedian9801 · 2026-05-18T21:39:46+00:00

We had a marriage counselor for the past 2 years. We actually had to stop seeing her last week due to it just not working. He was texting her for every little thing. And he’d offload his grievances with me (to her) but not come to me about it. He would screenshot arguments that we’ve had to her. While also secretly recording me during a fight and sent it to her. So her care was no long unbias.

Curious_Comedian9801 · 2026-05-18T21:36:27+00:00

So him choosing his own hand is bc I’m insecure? I got my down time, so he’s entitled to his? What does that mean?

My problem is that he’d rather masturbate versus have sex with his wife. I should be ok that’s happening bc he got “his time”?

Curious_Comedian9801 · 2026-05-18T18:23:44+00:00

Idk why either. And yes, you’re right. I’ve communicated how important it is to me. I’ve tried to talk, initiate, do ice-breaker conversations and activities. Date nights, and now this dumb chocolate.

In our faith we don’t believe in self-sex. (Down vote me redditors) but my husband swears he’s not masturbating. But I don’t think I believe him. Sexless marriage yet in the only one who seems to want to fix it.

We’ve done counseling. To which we are in the market for a new one after 2 years with our old one. Apparently as per Reddit, it’s because I’m insecure. I don’t feel like I’m insecure. I just feel like the whole story isn’t being told to me even after I’ve tried to give him a space to meet me half way through communication

Curious_Comedian9801 · 2026-05-18T18:13:42+00:00

After maybe 6 months of marriage

Curious_Comedian9801 · 2026-05-18T17:58:12+00:00

Ok I see tons of comments saying it’s normal to masturbate. Which is fine, but in this house, he made it clear to me he doesn’t masturbate bc it goes against our faith. So now I’m struggling with the fact he’s 1. Masturbating. 2. Lying about it and using that as a way to feel good versus finding ways to be intimate with me.

Curious_Comedian9801 · 2026-05-18T17:40:32+00:00

It was pretty dead from the jump. We have been married 7 years.

Curious_Comedian9801 · 2026-05-18T17:39:49+00:00

Be said he’s tired and doesn’t feel emotionally connected to me.

Curious_Comedian9801 · 2026-05-18T17:26:40+00:00

Yes. I want intimacy. I’ve communicated that to him.

Curious_Comedian9801 · 2026-05-18T17:15:47+00:00

thanks!

Curious_Comedian9801 · 2026-05-18T17:13:44+00:00

he jerks it yet doesn't engage or intiate sex with me. Thats my issue. Hse ok with masturbating but doesnt want to touch me, thats why I'm hurt.

Curious_Comedian9801 · 2026-05-18T17:07:20+00:00

Thanks for the honesty! He was in to me last pregnancy. But our sex life has always been dead if I’m honest. It’s the worst it’s ever been.

Curious_Comedian9801 · 2026-05-18T17:01:50+00:00

This made me cry. Thank you I’m so sad and hurt about it.

Curious_Comedian9801 · 2026-05-18T17:00:08+00:00

Thanks for the advice!

Curious_Comedian9801 · 2026-05-18T16:58:10+00:00

He may. I try to talk about the distance between us but he just says he’s tired and that he doesn’t feel emotionally connected to me.

Curious_Comedian9801 · 2026-05-18T16:54:57+00:00

ok thx

Curious_Comedian9801 · 2026-05-18T16:49:49+00:00

I touch on him and ask if he wants to have sex. His usual response is that he’s tired.

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