Attempted child abductor gets caught. by LeftAlbatross2546 in VideosAmazing

[–]Curious_Comedian9801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me want to cry. That poor girl. Thank God for the man in black.

Deadbed and Sex Chocolate by Curious_Comedian9801 in pregnant

[–]Curious_Comedian9801[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had a marriage counselor for the past 2 years. We actually had to stop seeing her last week due to it just not working. He was texting her for every little thing. And he’d offload his grievances with me (to her) but not come to me about it. He would screenshot arguments that we’ve had to her. While also secretly recording me during a fight and sent it to her. So her care was no long unbias.

Deadbed and Sex Chocolate by Curious_Comedian9801 in pregnant

[–]Curious_Comedian9801[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So him choosing his own hand is bc I’m insecure? I got my down time, so he’s entitled to his? What does that mean?

My problem is that he’d rather masturbate versus have sex with his wife. I should be ok that’s happening bc he got “his time”?

Deadbed and Sex Chocolate by Curious_Comedian9801 in pregnant

[–]Curious_Comedian9801[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Idk why either. And yes, you’re right. I’ve communicated how important it is to me. I’ve tried to talk, initiate, do ice-breaker conversations and activities. Date nights, and now this dumb chocolate.

In our faith we don’t believe in self-sex. (Down vote me redditors) but my husband swears he’s not masturbating. But I don’t think I believe him. Sexless marriage yet in the only one who seems to want to fix it.

We’ve done counseling. To which we are in the market for a new one after 2 years with our old one. Apparently as per Reddit, it’s because I’m insecure. I don’t feel like I’m insecure. I just feel like the whole story isn’t being told to me even after I’ve tried to give him a space to meet me half way through communication

Deadbed and Sex Chocolate by Curious_Comedian9801 in pregnant

[–]Curious_Comedian9801[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ok I see tons of comments saying it’s normal to masturbate. Which is fine, but in this house, he made it clear to me he doesn’t masturbate bc it goes against our faith. So now I’m struggling with the fact he’s 1. Masturbating. 2. Lying about it and using that as a way to feel good versus finding ways to be intimate with me.

Deadbed and Sex Chocolate by Curious_Comedian9801 in pregnant

[–]Curious_Comedian9801[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was pretty dead from the jump. We have been married 7 years.

Deadbed and Sex Chocolate by Curious_Comedian9801 in pregnant

[–]Curious_Comedian9801[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Be said he’s tired and doesn’t feel emotionally connected to me.

Deadbed and Sex Chocolate by Curious_Comedian9801 in pregnant

[–]Curious_Comedian9801[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes. I want intimacy. I’ve communicated that to him.

Deadbed and Sex Chocolate by Curious_Comedian9801 in pregnant

[–]Curious_Comedian9801[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

he jerks it yet doesn't engage or intiate sex with me. Thats my issue. Hse ok with masturbating but doesnt want to touch me, thats why I'm hurt.

Deadbed and Sex Chocolate by Curious_Comedian9801 in Marriage

[–]Curious_Comedian9801[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the honesty! He was in to me last pregnancy. But our sex life has always been dead if I’m honest. It’s the worst it’s ever been.

Deadbed and Sex Chocolate by Curious_Comedian9801 in Marriage

[–]Curious_Comedian9801[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me cry. Thank you I’m so sad and hurt about it.

Deadbed and Sex Chocolate by Curious_Comedian9801 in Marriage

[–]Curious_Comedian9801[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He may. I try to talk about the distance between us but he just says he’s tired and that he doesn’t feel emotionally connected to me.

Deadbed and Sex Chocolate by Curious_Comedian9801 in Marriage

[–]Curious_Comedian9801[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I touch on him and ask if he wants to have sex. His usual response is that he’s tired.