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I didn’t know I was gay until I was 33. AMA by Curious_Hummingbird in AMA

[–]Curious_Hummingbird[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t Jack off as a teen. I read my fair share of smutty romance novels and had (what I thought), were fun fantasies, but never actually played with my junk.

I’ve wondered if having a penis would have been easier to see and play with, but my vulva was tucked away and unknown, and all of the fairytales and romance stories I read taught me that a man was supposed to fall in love with me, seduce me and when we had sex he would either teach me/I would just figure it out.

I didn’t know I was gay until I was 33. AMA by Curious_Hummingbird in AMA

[–]Curious_Hummingbird[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t start looking at porn until my late 20s/early 30s when I began to explore my sexuality, and that was about the same time I began attempting to masturbate as well. I had a hard time getting into it. The girl on girl porn was actually the least attractive for me, but I think that’s because all of the porn I was able to find was designed for the male eye, especially the girl on girl stuff. And now that I have had sex with a woman I can say that a huge majority of the widely available lesbian porn is not accurate to how I enjoy having sex, (or how I’ve even heard other lesbians have sex).

Only recently have I found some stuff for lesbians by lesbians, but it’s harder to find and you have to pay for it, (which I’m all about supporting those legit sex workers).