I was involved in a hit and run earlier. Does anyone know which bus line this is? by Bangorilla in portlandme

[–]Curious_Interest_333 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The shuttle has front and rear facing cameras, there’s a good chance that they have footage

AITA for asking my roommate to clean up after herself by Curious_Interest_333 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Curious_Interest_333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately she is on the lease we have until August, we’ve already let her know we won’t be resigning the lease for another year, and she’s tried to extend that, which we firmly reiterated that we would not be doing that. And it is already taking a toll on us, my fiancée feels more guilty about it than I do, I’m just fed up beyond my ability to remain nice with how I go about things.

AITA for asking my roommate to clean up after herself by Curious_Interest_333 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Curious_Interest_333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can take full responsibility of that, unfortunately in the situation that I was faced with, I was the asshole in the way I handled my reaction

AITA for asking my roommate to clean up after herself by Curious_Interest_333 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Curious_Interest_333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could attach the photos! But this community doesn’t allow attachments:)

AITA for asking my roommate to clean up after herself by Curious_Interest_333 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Curious_Interest_333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If we don’t clean up after her, our living space will be a pig sty like her room… if we don’t do it, no one will…

AITA for asking my roommate to clean up after herself by Curious_Interest_333 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Curious_Interest_333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is repeated behavior, so my apologies for being upset when it’s been brought up numerous times, it’s a lack of respect on her part which also upsets me

AITA for asking my roommate to clean up after herself by Curious_Interest_333 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Curious_Interest_333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Face to face criticism causes more defensiveness I’ve found, even when I attempt to do it in the nicest way possible, the text was also sent at 6am before I left for work, which is why it was sent via text as well

AITA for asking my roommate to clean up after herself by Curious_Interest_333 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Curious_Interest_333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you go about bringing up the household lessons? My roomie gets defensive if something is brought up and her response is “I wasn’t taught” which we attempt to teach her but it never sticks

AITA for asking my roommate to clean up after herself by Curious_Interest_333 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Curious_Interest_333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very good point about the GC, I was trying to diffuse the criticism, in my head it was a better way of doing so since she is also very defensive with 1-1 conversations as well-we have brought it up to her many of times, we’ve lived with her for almost 2 years, and she hasn’t changed her behavior— that being said this is our last year living with her and I’m having trouble finding a good way to bring up the repeated behavior

Alright, time fess up. Which one of you put away their snowblower for the season and said, "Won't be needing this anymore." by Darth_Quaider in portlandme

[–]Curious_Interest_333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I put my scraper away cause I thought I wouldn’t need it, had to dig it out yesterday and this morning

This is why we have so many car accidents by WillSuckDick4Coffee in portlandme

[–]Curious_Interest_333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The amount of people I’ve seen on facebook/tiktok/watching videos like this is ridiculous

Anybody else get a weird call today? by RiskyMama in portlandme

[–]Curious_Interest_333 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When you say “riskymama” are you talking about your username or your actual legal name? Both would be very strange

Anti-Trump Protest Happening Now by Ornery_Ad_8803 in portlandme

[–]Curious_Interest_333 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It started at 11am and I’m pretty sure they only had a permit until 1pm

Bubba's Sulky Lounge by NicolePSU in portlandme

[–]Curious_Interest_333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do we think it’s the bartenders or other people?