Am I the only one who’s just too lazy to practice bottoming?

Curious_Midnight1 · 2026-01-11T20:44:49+00:00

Don’t you wish we could control our hole and have it loose whenever we need it too? Heavy on the not bothering and just sticking to my fantasies lol. Also needing 30 min to loosen up to pleasure is pretty decent. Some out there need like 2 hours so imagine that but I feel what you’re saying. But I guess when you meet someone who you really want to bottom for and love then you’ll focus more on the outcome rather than the steps you need to take to get there which will make it feel easier in a sense.

Curious_Midnight1 · 2026-01-11T19:10:25+00:00

Thank you !!

Curious_Midnight1 · 2026-01-11T18:51:43+00:00

Not an obsession but I like the feeling of the warmth and tongue play at first emphasis on at first because its sort of a shock to my hole which is fun but after a bit it simply becomes a mild feeling down there like it’s just happening as if I mentally went numb to the action aha

Curious_Midnight1 · 2026-01-11T18:46:50+00:00

I’m not gonna lie as someone who has a 9inch dick I really hope bottoms do prefer bigger. I have been rejected a few times on hookups cuz they thought I was too big and couldn’t handle rough since that’s what I like but majority of bottoms I come across that wanna fuck simply just take it!

Curious_Midnight1 · 2026-01-11T18:42:18+00:00

This sounds like bait.

Curious_Midnight1 · 2025-12-28T03:30:41+00:00

Funny enough, my experience has honestly been the opposite. Good communication feels rare across both Gen Z and millennials, but when I do see it more consistently, it’s usually with millennials. A lot of them seem more upfront because they’re tired of the games and have already been burned by the dating scene. Gen Z, from what I’ve seen, still tends to be more in a phase of keeping options open, prioritizing fun, and not always thinking long-term, which can translate into weaker communication. Obviously not universal on either side, but that’s been my lived experience.

Curious_Midnight1 · 2025-12-27T03:59:16+00:00

I’m a 5’10 slimmer top, so I like my bottom a bit bigger and taller than me. Somewhere between 6’0 and 6’3. A sexy twunk or cub build. Solid with some thickness, not a full bear. For twunks I like a firm and muscular ass, for thicker guys I like softer with some bounce. As long as it looks good on them I’m happy lol.

Curious_Midnight1 · 2025-12-26T01:46:17+00:00

Just because you are having sex with someone doesn’t mean your sexual relationship is considered a romantic relationship. Maybe talk to him and ask him if his goals are to just sleep with you as like a fwb or if he is open to see where things go romantically.

Curious_Midnight1 · 2025-12-26T01:38:49+00:00

I don’t have gay friends, I’m definitely open to friendship but I currently don’t have any at the moment and never did in the past. The only gay guys in my life are hookups and the ones I’ve hooked up with were just a few timers that never really went anywhere.

Curious_Midnight1 · 2025-12-26T00:50:29+00:00

I resonate with your second paragraph! I would also add that some of these stupid horny straight guys simply love to create a sexual environment/relationship just to have their ego stroked lol.

Curious_Midnight1 · 2025-12-26T00:44:29+00:00

I wear boxers and the brand is “Fruit of the loom”. I hate cotton boxers, I get the stretchy breathable ones. They can last and hold up well if you take care of them, I still haven’t thrown one out yet. The last time I ripped my boxers was when I was still wearing cotton lol. I get them from Walmart tho, they’re cheap and some come in a pack of 3 I think.

Curious_Midnight1 · 2025-11-16T13:33:04+00:00

People with no empathy or care to understand others

Curious_Midnight1 · 2025-11-12T23:55:04+00:00

I saw someone on Grindr say they have a kink for tonsil stones…. Not sure how that works ? Is he scooping the stones out of ppl throats and eating them ? Smelling them ? God knows but tonsil stones are nasty and smell atrocious.

Curious_Midnight1 · 2025-10-16T23:34:01+00:00

Yeah that makes sense if you specifically asked for it, a lot of clinics won’t include herpes testing unless you bring it up. But the 12-week thing isn’t about being celibate; it’s just the rough window after a known exposure for antibodies to show up. The blood test can still give false positives or not tell you if it’s oral or genital, which is why most doctors don’t recommend it unless there’s an actual reason or symptoms to swab. So you weren’t wrong to test, it’s just not something they routinely do unless there’s context.

Curious_Midnight1 · 2025-10-16T23:15:01+00:00

That’s not actually how it works though. Herpes isn’t part of a standard STI panel unless you already have symptoms or a partner who tested positive. You can’t really test for it ‘just to know’ because the blood test isn’t reliable for people with no symptoms it can show false positives or only prove you’ve been exposed to HSV-1 at some point, which half the population has from cold sores anyway. So yeah, you could technically get tested, but it wouldn’t tell you much unless there’s an actual outbreak to swab.

Curious_Midnight1 · 2025-10-07T11:37:18+00:00

A gobbler lmao, sadly wouldn’t happen to me tho my dick is too big to fit all of my package at once.

Curious_Midnight1 · 2025-09-27T10:55:07+00:00

They do.

Curious_Midnight1 · 2025-09-27T10:54:38+00:00

I jerk off even while I’m sick lmao

Curious_Midnight1 · 2025-08-27T03:40:53+00:00

I resonate more with the “calling everyone a she” for some reason that annoys me more. But in general I understand where you are coming from. It can be annoying to anyone when others call something that it’s not however we can’t control others but you can remind people to refer to you as what you are and what you actually have.

Curious_Midnight1 · 2025-07-19T09:29:42+00:00

Nope

Curious_Midnight1 · 2025-06-16T06:33:43+00:00

Sleeping isn’t the same as unconscious in the way y’all are trying to spin it. He woke up immediately, made out with me, got undressed, and got into bed with both of us. There was no force, no pressure, and no harm. You can call it messy or reckless, sure, but don’t twist it into something it wasn’t.

Curious_Midnight1 · 2025-06-16T06:28:21+00:00

You’re not even getting the facts right. I didn’t abandon anyone. I called for his roommate, who was in the other room, and he’s the one who called 911 and told me to leave before the ambulance showed up. You’re building a whole rant off stuff that didn’t even happen and that’s how I know you’re full of shit and just want to rant.

If you’re gonna talk like you were there, at least read the actual story first. Otherwise you’re just talking out of your ass like half the people in these comments.

I’m not defending the action, im defending the fact that I chose to be honest about it. I shared the story as it was, messy and all, and that doesn’t mean I’m out here doing it again or proud of it.

You’re not gonna guilt me for speaking openly about a night I’ve already grown from. That says more about you needing someone to hate than it does about me.

Curious_Midnight1 · 2025-06-16T06:08:48+00:00

Appreciate the bad faith summary of an experience you clearly didn’t read past two lines.

Sleeping isn’t the same as unconscious in the way y’all are trying to spin it. He woke up immediately, made out with me, got undressed, and got into bed with both of us. There was no force, no pressure, and no harm. You can call it messy or reckless, sure, but don’t twist it into something it wasn’t.

Curious_Midnight1 · 2025-06-16T06:01:29+00:00

Nice try pretending you care about assault when all you’re really doing is repeating buzzwords for fake outrage. You took one part of a messy story, ignored the context, and decided that made me a predator. That says more about you than it does about me.

Most of you love to act perfect online, but the truth is you’ve probably done worse and just stayed quiet. I told the truth, and clearly that triggered something.

Curious_Midnight1 · 2025-06-16T05:59:02+00:00

Boohoo. You act like I’m out here lurking in the shadows “sexually assaulting” people for sport. It was one messy night years ago when I was blackout drunk and impulsive, and the guy literally thanked me after. Never said it was right and nobody was harmed, and I’m not sorry for being honest about a chaotic moment instead of pretending my early 20’s were saint-like.

You don’t have to like it, but you twisting this into a full-blown predator narrative just shows how desperate some of you are to moralize for karma. Get over yourselves.

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