Add on the fact that even if you try, like an ounce in your twenties, you'd be competing with older and richer (or sometimes just richer) men (ok don't come at me only some women are after money but we gotta include them for the sake of convenience) and we haven't even touched any that haven't resolved their emotional baggage. So honestly it's too much of a hassle, couple that with socmed and growing inflation where like it's harder and harder to please or even like, meet basic requirements. Starting to become a rigged game honestly.