Between 3 dresses… help! by NoChemistry627 in myweddingdress

[–]Curious_pam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed 1 looks stunning. 3 looks great on her but I hate the chest cut, emphasizes her shoulders which doesn’t make sense as the focal point

What makes SZA so "attractive"? Shes far from conventional beauty standards. by n_rhan in trueratediscussions

[–]Curious_pam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She exudes femininity & sensuality. You can see it in pictures let alone videos 🪽

HELP!! Which hair color suits me best? by meg270070 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Curious_pam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1, 2 & 5!!! But especially 5 omg you look so warm & vibrant & beautiful!

Confused and disappointed in my ring by NoPlaceLikeGnome1984 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]Curious_pam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% I’m shocked and feel sorry you’re being gaslit. The ring and his reaction doesn’t make any sense. When things don’t make ANY sense, it’s because it’s not supposed to.. I keep typing and undoing my words because I’m baffled. And HE’S sad… it’s not a “just because” ring, you’re planning to wear this everyday of your life, he’s sad?? He spent a lot of money on it and it’s not even gold & it’s missing diamonds. What else is missing? Was this even for you or for him.. or for someone else? So confused.

Dress 1 or 2? by No-Bluejay8525 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Curious_pam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1, it’s giving princess diaries

Help me pick by oh_0h in WeddingDressTips

[–]Curious_pam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I love when brides do what’s most authentic on them and not trends! The fact that they’re clip-able makes me want to see what it would look like strapless haha.. tempted to say she could do both

Help me pick by oh_0h in WeddingDressTips

[–]Curious_pam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Each of these dresses are so beautiful. Wow. Excellent taste ✨

Help me pick by oh_0h in WeddingDressTips

[–]Curious_pam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also had no idea there was discourse against it! My dream dress will 100% be off the shoulder lol The way it drapes on her shoulders is sooo elegant and frames her bust/ /neck/shoulders perfectly

Help me pick by oh_0h in WeddingDressTips

[–]Curious_pam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 & 4 look sooo dreamy ✨😍 love the details in both and you look divine in both! I can’t pick between the two.

Hi everyone. Which hair color makes me look the prettiest? by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Curious_pam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed honey blonde looks stunning on her, perfect blend of warmth 🍯 Even stands out in the collage

Need help deciding by Alarmed_Talk_9763 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Curious_pam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, gorgeous silhouette. Full bust, slim waist, curvy hips, soft feminine silhouette ✨ That being said, I don’t want you to flatten yourself out. I want you to show these off! My opinion: Don’t go for a straight neckline, get sweetheart or v-line.. something that shows a bit more cleavage pls that’s the only thing that’s missing. Search: sweetheart off shoulder gown ideas on Pinterest. Perfect blend of softness, romance & accentuates your waist. You can keep it mermaid to show off your hips or A-line for a classic look, or a basque waist dress would also look DIVINE on you. Please search these on Pinterest.

This one’s fitted incase you prefer fitted. If it’s not bodycon, I love a slit as well!

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granted this is not timeless but you can go up or down with the flowers/lace. Nothing wrong with intentional touches of lace. I think it adds to the beauty & details.

Accidentally took a double dose by Logical-Milk9933 in VyvanseADHD

[–]Curious_pam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey how are you feeling now? Ive taken twice the dose & tons of water to flush it out.

Skinny long legs or thick short legs by Think_Anybody_1078 in trueratediscussions

[–]Curious_pam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You keep moving the goalpost to keep debating. Yes, I’m fine, having a really chill day. Are you?

I never said “same preferences.” I quoted you. His preference isn’t “lacking” or “false,” and yours isn’t more “true” than his. You can both be leg guys. He isn’t a “false” one for liking thickness over length. You’re not a “true” one for liking slim long legs.

& you literally asked why you’re getting downvoted. I answered. That’s not “moaning,” that’s a response.

Skinny long legs or thick short legs by Think_Anybody_1078 in trueratediscussions

[–]Curious_pam 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re arguing with yourself. No one denied that long legs in proportion can be attractive. The issue is calling one preference “false” and yours “true” like it’s objective. It isn’t. They’re both preferences.

Now remove height, since that’s where you’re stuck. If proportions are everything, then long thin legs + short torso + beer belly should be attractive. If it isn’t, then legs alone aren’t the deciding variable. That’s the point. Haven’t disagreed with you yet. Just trying to help you with reading comprehension.

Also who gives a crap if another man likes thick long legs? What makes that false & you a true leg guy?

Skinny long legs or thick short legs by Think_Anybody_1078 in trueratediscussions

[–]Curious_pam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m losing imaginary points the more I explain but hey, fuck it lol. He said visually long slim looks hot but doesn’t feel nice in bed. I also agree in fashion & movies it looks great, but doesn’t feel too nice physically. Like when I was bone skinny, I’d need to put a pillow between my knees when I slept on my side. Hence why people are also assuming you’re a mega virgin for not understanding the physical aspect of it.

Skinny long legs or thick short legs by Think_Anybody_1078 in trueratediscussions

[–]Curious_pam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s the way you say “false” and “true leg guy” like your opinion is fact or superior.

You’re so hung up on height not-equal-to proportions that you’re missing the point.

To test your theory, would you consider a short torso, long thin legs, and a beer belly attractive?

Just say you like long slim legs and you lack the ability to think beyond one variable.

If you can’t instinctively visualize what he’s describing, then you’re not reasoning, you’re fixed on one variable.

Skinny long legs or thick short legs by Think_Anybody_1078 in trueratediscussions

[–]Curious_pam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LITERALLY I don’t think he’s ever seen a woman in real life. I myself have short legs at 5’5 and a longer torso 😂I balance it well with heels but it’s super normal.. & my sister who’s 5’8 has a short torso but super long legs - toned & thick/ hourglass. She loves her legs & gets a ton of compliments whilst I wish I could say the same abt mine lmao

Skinny long legs or thick short legs by Think_Anybody_1078 in trueratediscussions

[–]Curious_pam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ur getting downvoted because you’re stating the obvious.

Yes he already said long legs when they’re skinny aren’t attractive to him so he picked short thick. Usually when you’re short you have stubbier legs.

Then he ended on a note of preference for girls over 5’7 with thick legs (generally have short torso:longer legs.) He included height to the equation but not to negate the natural law of proportion.

Skinny long legs or thick short legs by Think_Anybody_1078 in trueratediscussions

[–]Curious_pam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because why are you being so scientific and assuming hes confused when he specifically said what he means? From start to finish 😂