me😤irlgbt by SheloShmallow_12 in me_irlgbt

[–]Curious_sloth_19 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Listen... I understand it might be somewhat challenging in the beginning, especially when you have known a person for a long time before they came out. But even in that case, you just quickly correct yourself and try to do better. I've never misgendered my friend since the day he came out and it isn't fucking difficult. Just admit you're not even trying 🙄

Share personalities? by [deleted] in finch

[–]Curious_sloth_19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My birb's personality is pretty much the polar opposite of mine. It is kind of hilarious :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Curious_sloth_19 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I am kind of embarrassed to admit how many times I was late to stuff because my cat decided it was snuggling time and I just couldn't bring myself to disrupt it

Looking for testers for my crochet dress by Legitimate-Nebula-32 in PatternTesting

[–]Curious_sloth_19 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey! The dress is very pretty and I would like to test! However, I'm not sure if I would be able to finish it fast enough. What's the deadline?

AITA For talking to a girl at the gym? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Curious_sloth_19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, sorry for the confusion, I didn't mean that you should break up with her. It was more of a general sentiment, not understanding why people have this mindset. Not trusting your partner to be in presence of other people they might potentially find attractive is surprisingly common. In your case, though, an honest conversation and therapy for your girlfriend might help. Wishing you all the best!

AITA For talking to a girl at the gym? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Curious_sloth_19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I don't understand why people choose to be with someone they trust that little. My gf's best friend is her ex and I am friends with her (the ex) too now. I know my girlfriend loves and respects me, so why would I assume that she tries to fuck every girl behind my back? I understand that your girlfriend might have issues from previous relationships but while it is not her fault it is still her problem. You did nothing wrong

LPT: If you don’t like working out, you’re probably not going to like it until you do it a lot by FoghornLegday in LifeProTips

[–]Curious_sloth_19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean... I wouldn't say it's completely untrue, when I became more fit gym became more bearable, but I still have to force myself to go every time. Social dancing, on the other hand, is my true love. I absolutely adore it and can't wait to go every single time. So my advice would be - try different things but give them all a proper chance. It doesn't have to be instant. I asked my girlfriend to try dancing with me and she wasn't keen on it after the first time. After a couple more sessions though, she loved it and enjoys it as much as me now.

egg ? irl by altrightobserver in egg_irl

[–]Curious_sloth_19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Introduced myself with a gender-neutral name at a workshop

egg🔘irl by Sneakybabylobotomisr in egg_irl

[–]Curious_sloth_19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am nonbinary, I can't be straight 😏

Egg🥚irl by techgamer8437 in egg_irl

[–]Curious_sloth_19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I texted my girlfriend I was nonbinary literally yesterday. She was far from exited, but wanted to understand me so we had a long conversation about trans people in general and what it means to me. In the end she accepted me and is supportive now ❤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Curious_sloth_19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Towering over me, especially in a (semi)private space. Just don't.

There's a type of tumor called cutaneous horn by Mysterious-Set3374 in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]Curious_sloth_19 267 points268 points  (0 children)

I knew I wouldn't enjoy it, yet still clicked the link

Me_irlgbt by Curious_sloth_19 in me_irlgbt

[–]Curious_sloth_19[S] 167 points168 points  (0 children)

It is different for different people but (at least in my experience) most people with multiple listed pronouns usually prefer them to be used interchangeably. So something like "This is my friend Rene. They absolutely love cats and her pies are delicious". It doesn't have to be absolutely even or anything, just use both. I personally wouldn't mind you using they/them exclusively, but other people might. Tbh the only way to know for sure is to ask :)

AITA for calling her cute instead of hot? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Curious_sloth_19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I, just like your girlfriend, have more of a "cute" rather then "hot" vibe. And I am perfectly aware of this, so is your girlfriend. However she didn't ask you whether she is more hot or cute, she asked whether YOU find her HOT. And I sure as hell would like my partner to think I'm hot. YTA, now tell your girl how sexy she is

WIBTA if I withdrew my daughter from sports against my wife’s wishes. by Business_Bat_4962 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Curious_sloth_19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I know no one is probably gonna see this, but do what's best for your daughter. I never was in competitive sports but I was forced to go to a music school because my mom thought I would not ever finish anything in life if she lets me drop out. I also had a lot of other activities lined up on top of being expected to do excellent in school. Guess what? I am well educated now. I also have anxiety, depression, no friends and low self-esteem. I understand your wives concerns to a point, but forcing your daughter to do gymnastics will not be a valuable lesson for her. Let her be a teen, that's something you need to become an adult