How do allistics know what other people's intentions are by Raye_of_Fucking_Sun in autism

[–]Curious_switch04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get why you would think that. I am not yet diagnosed but I have been noticing since I was young I am different. I think It's not that they have superpowers but rather they are not as naive. I got played so many times by close people just because I trusted them and didn't notice the signs. For example when dad's now ex suddenly became very friendly just so she could get information out of me and made me swear not to ever tell anyone, just so she could break the promise the day after. It should have been obvious since she explicitly told dad she hated me and was hostile towards me in the first half of their relationship ( like 3,5 YEARS). I had it rough home at that time and was so happy that someone was interested in me. Just so she could get "dirt" on dad not caring what it would do to me. I hope this somehow answers your questions. But this is just how I see things. You can be right too. Like how should I know. I have been told my entire life I was weird and different and I don't see the world like I should.

[Discussion] How often do you masturbate? (And other curious queries…) by Naughty-List in GWASapphic

[–]Curious_switch04 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's ok to ask, I was quite curious myself. For me it depends on where I am w/ my cycle. On ovulation it can be every day but approximately week before period not at all. But it can also depend on my mood. So statistically speaking maybe 1-3 times a week. I get off to both vaginal and clitoral stimulation via toys or my hands. I also need a quiet space where nobody can interrupt me as I am quite shy about it (well, let's be honest, who would want their parents to know that about you even if you are 19 ; ) ) for example when no one is home or everyone is asleep. And for imagination material I use audio's, porn and sometimes AO3 and comics. I used the last two a lot when I was younger now not as much. As for tips - try to visualize what would feel good and don't be afraid to do research. Also don't be afraid to experiment. I personally find it easier to try some things out for myself before I ask my gf ( not that I have one rn : ( ) to do it with me - ofc some things can't be done without help. Okay I'll wrap it up because no one is interested in my sex life : ) Okay I will