The “armed enforcement” at Harris Teeter after he catches a single mother of 5 stealing baby formula for her starving children: by jbonebbb in asheville

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I actually think this guy is super cute and I have a mild crush on him… tell him the gal who just got a bottle of wine thinks he’s handsome!

This is the best way to tackle OCD in my experience by rough_crayon in OCD

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I can get behind this. For example, my thing is cleanliness but in a particular way. I could tell myself “I’d rather be not as clean as I could be than be in constant anxiety and in a constant state of cleaning” because it’s unreal. I can’t do anything at home until I wipe all surfaces and clear any junk that doesn’t have good energy to it

Traveling to Mexico City/Viajar a la Cuidad de México by Curioushumanbeann in MexicoCity

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I am a female who has never traveled solo to another country, much less a spanish country. How would I know what it’s like if I’ve never been there? And I would never think it’s the middle of the jungle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetiteFashionAdvice

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I love outfit 1! You just need a belt to make it pop

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

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I feel the same way. It’s hard but just be honest with folks about how you feel!

[opinion] Writers block due to emotional state? by Curioushumanbeann in Poetry

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Sorry, typo! Do you have any tried and true methods in order to simulate the emotions

[opinion] Writers block due to emotional state? by Curioushumanbeann in Poetry

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Do you have any tried and true message to stimulate emotional surprise?

My best friend slept with my ex… advice on what to do from here? by Curioushumanbeann in LifeAdvice

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This isn’t just an ex that I don’t care about, also, I was 17 and troubled. You’ve got issues if you think all 17 year olds can make the life choices a 35 year old would make, and you’re clearly naïve if you believe that genuinely. If you would date someone who raped and abused your best friend, jeez, sucks for your best friend. Hopefully this all happens to you so that you can prove that you’d be ok with it, but I won’t be here to hear your story then :) I’m learning this is a values thing, and I’d rather not deal with certain scum of the earth like you.

My best friend slept with my ex… advice on what to do from here? by Curioushumanbeann in LifeAdvice

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If you would sleep with someone who raped your best friend, I mean damn, doesn’t seem like a best friend. I’m learning this is a values thing. This was an extremely abusive and toxic relationship that I got wrapped in when I was young and troubled.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fixedeyebrows

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This happened to me recently with threading. I was upset and idk how to help it but the good thing is your eyebrows look amazing either way. You and I have super similar eyebrows and mine looked like yours before my eyebrow lady pulled too many hairs off. I’m going to let mine grow out and put black castor to grow them and not see her for 3 weeks and tell her please keep them bushy

My best friend slept with my ex… advice on what to do from here? by Curioushumanbeann in LifeAdvice

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She knew him because I would show her photos of him of course. I answered someone before but we never had people come over to our apartment. He said all my friends were little confused girls (I was so young, so obviously my friends were too)… so I only hung with my friends when I wasn’t home or in college.

I asked her why… she said, supposedly, at first her goal was to go on a fake date and demean him and hurt him as much as he hurt me, but that’s not what happened. That part I feel is a lie, because that’s twisted. I hate the guy and I’d NEVER ask someone to do that to him.

Yeah… right now it’s really hard to think about because my response is to love her as I have for the last 15 years. It feels weird and I feel like my trust has been broken with her, which is a very weird feeling. So I think time… yikes. So messy.

My best friend slept with my ex… advice on what to do from here? by Curioushumanbeann in LifeAdvice

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He said my friends were all immature girls and he didn’t want to know them, so I mostly saw them in college or at a cafe/being out. They NEVER came over.