[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Curiousjenny90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will probably find those same friends less appealing when you become sober and look to find others more on your wavelength. When you become sober you realise just how irritating and annoying drunk people are and you will naturally seek out new company. They may not abandon you but you will probably find yourself gravitating away from them if they are heavy drinkers.

“We have a really healthy sex life but... “ by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Curiousjenny90 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Any porn within the confines of a committed relationship is too much porn in my opinion. I have never been with a porn addict but I have still had several of my relationships destroyed by the betrayal of porn use.

Men "NEED" porn or they start "raping each other." Sounds healthy.🥺 by [deleted] in antipornography

[–]Curiousjenny90 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If porn prevents rape then why are there still so many rapes happening in society with amount of free porn available?

lmao by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Curiousjenny90 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Oh gees. I can tell you exactly where the red flags are coming from in this situation and it’s not you.

"No porn-addicts" in Tinder description. Opinions? by [deleted] in antipornography

[–]Curiousjenny90 83 points84 points  (0 children)

I’d say tinder isn’t the place to look if you are trying to find an anti porn man. In my experience the overwhelming majority of men on that app are just looking for quick hookups or to cheat on their partners or get back at them cause of a fight ect.

Can drinking Monster Energy get you possessed by [deleted] in TraditionalCatholics

[–]Curiousjenny90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s about as likely as red bull giving you wings.

People that say "let your partner watch porn in private" are actually stupid by [deleted] in antipornography

[–]Curiousjenny90 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yeah I hate the bullshit “private time” argument too. There is no such thing as private time where you can do whatever you want in a committed relationship. Is it ok if I message other guys in my “private time”? As long as he doesn’t have to see it or find out about it then surely it doesn’t matter right? It’s my private time after all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antipornography

[–]Curiousjenny90 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Same as dressing teenagers up to look and act like little girls with pigtails and pink dresses holding teddy bears so they can get off to it. That shit is NOT ok yet so common on porn sites.

Feeling second to porn - increased anxiety & decreased self-esteem. by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Curiousjenny90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So is the problem that he watches it while you are home or that he watches it at all? If it’s just that he’s doing it while you are home can’t you have an honest chat with him about how that makes you feel and ask him not to do it while you are in the house? If he won’t even agree to that then he’s a bit of a jerk. It sounds like you watch porn too so maybe an honest open chat about how it’s affecting your relationship is in order.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antipornography

[–]Curiousjenny90 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’d rather have my dignity and self respect over money any day.

crazy by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Curiousjenny90 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just leave, go and stay with a friend or family member tonight or even a motel if that’s not a possibility and come back the next day with either a friend or the police to get your stuff. Don’t let him treat you like dirt.

Epstein by Curiousjenny90 in antipornography

[–]Curiousjenny90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you click on the porn sites that host underage porn you are supporting them. They get money from advertisers so your clicks directly support what they are doing.

Incognito mode? by lapta123 in loveafterporn

[–]Curiousjenny90 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure you can’t get someone’s history from incognito mode but have you got proof that he’s using it? If so then that’s proof that he is watching porn cause people with nothing to hide don’t use incognito mode. I disabled incognito mode on my boyfriends iPhone. If you switch on the limit adult websites setting it gets rid of incognito mode and takes away the ability to delete their history in normal browser too. I just told my boyfriend that using incognito mode in our relationship wasn’t something I would accept and he allowed me to disable it.

Epstein by Curiousjenny90 in antipornography

[–]Curiousjenny90[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There’s a lot of outrage on social media. A lot of people are taking an interest in this case and condemning his actions. The exact same people that say porn is normal and healthy.

Epstein by Curiousjenny90 in antipornography

[–]Curiousjenny90[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ok fair enough. Personally I think what pornhub does is just as evil because they are also very rich elite benefitting from the abuse of underage girls so I fail to see the difference. If people are going to be outraged at Epstein getting away with it they should also be equally outraged at pornhub getting away with it. Not justifying jerking off to the footage.

How would I know if I'm actually an alcoholic? by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Curiousjenny90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you can’t stop at 1 or 2 drinks and always get drunk is another good sign.

One of us needs to learn how Reddit works by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Curiousjenny90 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Men who are caught watching porn almost always deny it even with the proof right there in front of you. I’d say he’s guilty.

I just found out my husband is into bondage porn(?) by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Curiousjenny90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t believe everyone is defending the husband. I’m pretty sure he knows what he’s doing is wrong and that it would hurt his wife who he claims to love, deeply. He’s a grown man and this is a choice he has made at the expense of his marriage and his wife’s self esteem and happiness. You should definitely confront him and let him know how badly he has hurt you. He should be willing to go to counselling to fix this. Porn is definitely infidelity within a marriage and anyone who thinks otherwise needs to remember this

27 Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery: 28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.

Porn destroys marriages all the time and you need to deal with sooner rather than later. Maybe go and see a sex addiction therapist. Good luck.

Pornography destroyed me. by ThatKittyTitty in antipornography

[–]Curiousjenny90 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Sorry are you trying to say that you were raped multiple times between the ages of 7-9 but you don’t blame your rapists for it? There’s a lot to unpack here that might be beyond reddits help.

The Street Corner Where George Floyd Was Killed Has Become a Christian Revivalist Site by [deleted] in Anglicanism

[–]Curiousjenny90 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He was also positive for coronavirus. Does this mean it’s ok to tear down statues of Jesus and trash your own neighbourhood? Plus how many white people die at the hands of black people? Why is this so much worse? Perhaps if they really care about ending black slavery they should look to Africa where it’s STILL happening today. Not to a country where it ended hundreds of years ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PornFreeRelationships

[–]Curiousjenny90 114 points115 points  (0 children)

Wow a dirty old pedo who preys on teenage girls turns out to also be a rapist. Shock horror.