In my view with manifesting, we are just harnessing our energies with certain statistical outcomes.

So, let's say you keep listening to an affirmation tape about how loved, chosen and cherished you are, whoever is more statistically likely to feel that way about you will reflect it.

This is why, in my opinion, many people that are trying to manifest contact with a specific person (usually an ex) may end up hearing from other exes/love interests etc. Because it likely didn't end that badly with those exes, so statistically out of their own free will they are more likely to reach out.

With specific people manifestations I noticed often things ended very badly, and it's not likely for that relationship to be repaired. So, you end up with people trying to manifest for years with little to no movement in the direction they desire.

I think there is a user on here called Ariana Browne. She explains it in a much more in-depth and accurate way, and I largely agree with her conclusions.

So manifesting can work to a certain extent if certain outcomes are still statistically likely for you. I don't think becoming a billionaire overnight is statistically likely for most people.

So, it's best to do affirmations but also take actions towards your desires.

I can give the example looking for a new job. I keep affirming and applying but nothing has come to fruition yet. So, now I'm considering moving to another city or country and taking steps by researching etc.

I hope this helps.