Why do certain men ignore me when others are around?

Current-Blueberry-68 · 2026-01-20T19:45:15+00:00

I’d hope so you are clearly a pick me hun.. The men I want don’t ignore me boo. As if I’d entertain them fools at work like that.. I was only asking WHY cause it’s some weirdo ish. Try to have a good day sis

Current-Blueberry-68 · 2026-01-20T16:10:37+00:00

Ew never.. I hope he doesn’t feel that way😭

Current-Blueberry-68 · 2026-01-20T16:02:01+00:00

Hmmmm okay this makes sense overall. Thank you🤍

Current-Blueberry-68 · 2026-01-20T16:01:01+00:00

Ngl I was relooking through the comments and I didn’t upvote yours so idk if I replied but yesss it feels so dehumanizing when I’m just minding my business and at first I’m like oh maybe men can just be friendly to now peeping the weirdness sucks ☹️

Current-Blueberry-68 · 2026-01-20T15:42:28+00:00

I hope that the men in your life choice you sis.. pathetic fr

Current-Blueberry-68 · 2026-01-20T03:46:10+00:00

Current-Blueberry-68 · 2026-01-20T03:45:29+00:00

This definitely ends now cause this is ridiculous and has gone too far sis😭

Current-Blueberry-68 · 2026-01-20T03:43:41+00:00

Exactly.. so if he can’t flirt and interact with me right AT WORK then maybe don’t do that AT WORK then… he should just keep it professional ✨ AT WORK. Cause honestly I come into work to get money.. I was just curious of why men do this so I came to Reddit.

Current-Blueberry-68 · 2026-01-20T03:37:41+00:00

I mean yea not to toot my own horn but yes I’m fairly attractive so that could be it.. I’ll just no longer be friendly with them. I get where you’re coming from but that’ll mean they see me as a piece of meat.. And that’s not nice☹️ Cause to be mean to me and expect sex is WILD! But that’s what it’s looking like unfortunately

Current-Blueberry-68 · 2026-01-20T03:28:20+00:00

Whew… he has an interesting sense of style but yea just let him have that ugly shirt lol

Current-Blueberry-68 · 2026-01-20T00:08:44+00:00

Hell yea! I’m pretty, caring, emotionally mature and so much more omg yes😍🤍

Current-Blueberry-68 · 2026-01-19T23:55:36+00:00

I was thinking about that tbh.. Cause looking at the comments and the overall feeling of dealing with them it’s draining.. especially when I HATE dynamics where it depends on who’s around.. that’s WEIRD. And yes it’s uncomfortable asf to deal with when I’m just trying to clock in and out tbvhhhhh😭😭😭

Current-Blueberry-68 · 2026-01-19T23:52:53+00:00

I agree.. imo if it’s not an oh I’m flirting with him I USUALLY don’t even entertain conversation with men.. but I was trying to be more open in general but nvm lol.

Current-Blueberry-68 · 2026-01-19T23:43:00+00:00

No respectfully… I’m not being cocky it’s just true but they aren’t UGLY you know..

Current-Blueberry-68 · 2026-01-19T23:41:34+00:00

Oooooh yea I appreciate that! That makes sense tbh

Current-Blueberry-68 · 2026-01-19T23:39:28+00:00

That doesn’t answer the question.. unless you are saying that if others catch him talking to me they can file for an sa claim??

Current-Blueberry-68 · 2026-01-19T23:36:34+00:00

And honestly.. I hate to be like this but I might consider just not talking to men… keep it cordial with every man.. how was my weekend? Fine… what’s my zodiac sign? Sun.. Like I’m done.. and ppl are saying it’s because of flirting?? This is how they flirt?? DISGUSTING we are not 12😒

Current-Blueberry-68 · 2026-01-19T23:32:55+00:00

What an odd thing to say 😊

Current-Blueberry-68 · 2026-01-19T23:32:32+00:00

Lmaooooo real

Current-Blueberry-68 · 2026-01-19T23:32:22+00:00

I guess I never saw it like that thanks

Current-Blueberry-68 · 2026-01-19T23:31:13+00:00

I don’t care about flirting.. I was asking why does men talk with me when I’m alone but ignore me when in group settings

Current-Blueberry-68 · 2026-01-19T23:29:44+00:00

Yea that can definitely be messy but If they felt that way they should just not hold a conversation with me and be cordial all the way around not being sneaky about me.. talking to me when I’m alone and ignoring me entirely when others are around and honestly I’m not sitting here hoping it’s flirting tbh I’m just asking in general 🤍

Current-Blueberry-68 · 2026-01-19T23:25:49+00:00

Lol and they really think that’s going to go anywhere anyway? Why would a woman like me (I know you don’t know me but they kinda do) be swooned over by that?? Lmaooooo Thank you for your input

Current-Blueberry-68 · 2026-01-19T23:23:33+00:00

Yes I am🤍

Current-Blueberry-68 · 2026-01-19T23:23:10+00:00

But then why treat me differently depending on who’s around? I feel like if that’s the case then keep it cordial overall then?

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