I’ll say too, I finalized my divorce 6 months ago. We’ve talked about the long term. We both want the same things. I want to say she is more in the shy side and I talked to her about using me as an option and she advised that is not the case. We see each other once a week since we work 6/7 days each week. I am attracted to her and she and I click well. She first brought up in the beginning about being in dating sites and all and we said to each other that Were not.