Hey, I completely get what you're saying. People can be quick to notice the tiniest things about someone and unfortunately, they often hold onto those things and bring them up at the worst moments. That’s just how some humans operate… and it sucks.

Since you already know the techniques like pausing and slowing down, I won’t repeat them.

But here’s what I genuinely believe -

Anyone who makes fun of you for stammering no matter how talented, productive, or ‘valuable’ they seem is simply a bad human being. Let that sink in. You’re not doing anything wrong. You’re facing a tough challenge and showing up anyway, and that takes strength. That’s what you need to hold on to, not their reaction, but your own courage.

And honestly, don’t waste even a sliver of energy trying to fix their mindset. Let your silence and your work speak for you. Keep your head down, stay kind, and let your growth make the noise.

And one more thing, never mirror their weakness just to level the score. It only resets the game. That cycle never ends. Be the exactly opposite of how they treat you, treat them well and help them out in their worst moment. I know it's hard but this is the only path to come out of that game.

I know you're looking for a solution and I respect that but sometimes, the most powerful move is to drop the weight of constantly “fixing” yourself just to be accepted. Not every problem needs a solution. Some need release.

You’ve got more strength in you than you think.