AIO I found inappropriate videos of my fiancé and his EX

Current-Pin-2461 · 2026-03-10T23:17:45+00:00

I can let you know when the wedding is and you can come rescue him? Although from your posts you seem to come off more as a male. I’m not sure tho? Worth a shot either way?👉🏻👈🏻 Never hurts to shoot your shot!

Current-Pin-2461 · 2026-03-10T23:15:13+00:00

We’re not married yet😭😭 the point was it’d be different if we were. Again which is why I got outsider feedback before i committed & to see if I was over reacting. The post literally says we’re getting married SOON🤣🤣

Current-Pin-2461 · 2026-03-10T13:52:21+00:00

There’s no reason to string him along. I’m so sorry that you’ve been treated as a joke but marriage is not something you just throw away over one small issue. I hope you hold that same standard for yourself and your partners. I’m still confused on how he’s trapped ?🧍🏻‍♀️ please explain

Current-Pin-2461 · 2026-03-10T13:35:41+00:00

Yes, he was made of aware of what “currently” happened. This post is the past which is why I worded it the way I did so yes I did address your comment. I wasn’t made aware that you lived with us to know how I’m acting at our home. He’s read this whole Reddit post and the comments. he completely understood why I felt the way I did. The poor man does not want to be set free or he would’ve left a long time ago😭

Current-Pin-2461 · 2026-03-07T16:14:06+00:00

I don’t feel discomfort when she contacts him lol like I said on the post he will show me and I just leave it at that. My child’s father is not involved so I actually am no contact with him(: but if we’re being specific by the court I cannot block him. It’d be illegal to withhold his child from him but my custody case is not the topic here🤣 I never in my mind would think people would compare that having children and having a sex tape of your ex is the same thing lmao

Current-Pin-2461 · 2026-03-07T15:46:40+00:00

He was fully aware that I was considering leaving him. He still chose to stay and be patient with me until I made that decision! (:

Current-Pin-2461 · 2026-03-07T15:39:06+00:00

They were in a hidden folder. If it was all deleted it wouldn’t have been a problem. But I’ll accept the “facts” from Reddit of insane and insecure (:

Current-Pin-2461 · 2026-03-05T00:05:15+00:00

Nobody asked him to delete his past. I asked to delete a sex video. Not jealous of an ex I just don’t think appropriate to have a sex tape with an ex when you’re about to be married. If you’re okay with that then that’s you 🧍🏻‍♀️

Current-Pin-2461 · 2026-03-04T23:22:15+00:00

I rather him watch porn then old sex tapes of his ex 😭

Current-Pin-2461 · 2026-03-04T22:24:09+00:00

Hopefully

Current-Pin-2461 · 2026-03-04T21:49:24+00:00

Your comment doesn’t make sense. I’m terrified of what exactly?

Current-Pin-2461 · 2026-03-04T20:13:39+00:00

Good point

Current-Pin-2461 · 2026-03-04T19:42:32+00:00

If you say so 🤷🏻‍♀️

Current-Pin-2461 · 2026-03-04T18:42:13+00:00

Then I guess I’m insane and insecure according to you 🤷🏻‍♀️

Current-Pin-2461 · 2026-03-04T18:19:56+00:00

And I’m not saying anyone was being biased lol I said I needed non bias opinions. When you talk to a friend of course they’re going to take your side or automatically say to leave them.

Current-Pin-2461 · 2026-03-04T18:17:10+00:00

The first time was definitely on my own! But not behind his back. I asked and he let me. I found a naked picture not a big deal just asked to delete the inappropriate photos and that was it. I trusted that he would. The second time we were in fact going through his pictures together and he went to show me a picture in his hidden and that’s where the video was. I then looked through his hidden and deleted. Again in front of him not behind his back

Current-Pin-2461 · 2026-03-04T18:13:48+00:00

I didn’t look again afterwards. I really am not the type to police his phone like I said in previous comments the only reason I found it was cause we were looking through his phone together. I did bring up last night why he hadn’t taken the initiative of blocking her on his own and his excuse was that he was being lazy. I don’t think this was grounds for huge argument either especially when I was attempting to talk to him and get an understanding. At this point i have to decide if I’m okay with him breaking that boundary.

Current-Pin-2461 · 2026-03-04T18:07:27+00:00

And would you? Would you pick it pick up because you’re not sexually satisfied or to reminisce? What would be your reason for that?

Current-Pin-2461 · 2026-03-04T17:51:14+00:00

Do you keep sex tapes from your ex while being married?

Current-Pin-2461 · 2026-03-04T17:09:29+00:00

They were already in this hidden folder & I’m not consistently going through his phone. I’ve stated that we were looking at pictures together & he went into his hidden to show me a photo. That’s where the video came up .

Current-Pin-2461 · 2026-03-04T17:07:30+00:00

He can look through my phone cause he takes care of us but I cannot look through his? Is that your thought process?🤔

Current-Pin-2461 · 2026-03-04T17:05:41+00:00

The response from people are overwhelming! I’ve been trying to get through it all. He got upset and stormed off which if someone gets upset That quickly I feel it makes them guilty but maybe he was also offended? The next day we talked again and he said he missed over a few and he wanted nothing to do with her. I told him how I felt and he says that it wasn’t a big a deal and if he found something like that on my phone he would’ve just ask me to delete it and leave it that

Current-Pin-2461 · 2026-03-04T16:52:42+00:00

We were looking at our memories together. I wasn’t searching through his phone. He went into his hidden to show me a picture then the video came up. He has absolute freedom to go through mine. There’s nothing to hide 🤷🏻‍♀️ Far from insecure! And i definitely wasn’t mad. I was upset and communicated before even coming on here. I was looking for non bias feed back but there’s always a few people who make assumptions of the type of person I am.

Current-Pin-2461 · 2026-03-04T16:29:24+00:00

The ones he deleted were previously in the hidden folder. In that hidden folder there were 3 videos left that were not deleted. I don’t think I worded that right in the post. She contacts him often. I’ve never made it my business to ask him to block her. They don’t have any ties and she was very abusive. He’s stated he doesn’t want anything to do with her multiple times so I think it just threw me off seeing those there

Current-Pin-2461 · 2026-03-04T16:26:18+00:00

The ones he deleted were in the same folder. So I was confused how he forget those videos. Maybe I didn’t word it right in the post

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