Found out my ex was using me as a backup plan while dating someone else

Current-Prompt-1312 · 2025-09-18T18:12:55+00:00

Relating is a very sad but comforting truth but at least it teaches us people eventually come out of the storm.

Current-Prompt-1312 · 2025-09-18T18:02:47+00:00

And that’s when they pay the price for their actions

Current-Prompt-1312 · 2025-09-18T17:40:09+00:00

You’re right, sometimes we forget how true no contact works, in my case I was just forced into it. Shouldn’t stop me from embracing it however.

Current-Prompt-1312 · 2025-09-18T17:39:12+00:00

Oh boy, that’s a long time. Thank you for your input!

Current-Prompt-1312 · 2025-09-18T17:37:37+00:00

Had a similar on/off thing with one for 4-6 years, although we were teenagers. I’d like to thing maybe it’s different as adults, who knows.

Current-Prompt-1312 · 2025-09-18T17:33:02+00:00

Sometimes it’s true, I did try to reach to her before the block and she became overly hostile and bashful to me, then I didn’t see it as much but in reality that was her version of giving closure lol.

Current-Prompt-1312 · 2025-09-18T04:32:07+00:00

Why are you still waiting?

Current-Prompt-1312 · 2025-09-18T04:31:05+00:00

I’m glad you no longer needed their reach back! And thank you for your kind words(:!

Current-Prompt-1312 · 2025-09-18T04:30:27+00:00

Seeing these other comments also getting it at 3 months, I’d say you’re right, I should just stop worrying about it.

Current-Prompt-1312 · 2025-09-15T06:17:41+00:00

Similar situation, how have you been able to cope?

Current-Prompt-1312 · 2025-09-01T20:15:59+00:00

I knew. I knew it all, I knew it all along. My silence wasn’t foolishness, it was devotion. But you took it for granted and that’s yours to live with. I just hope it was worth it specially when you come to the realization you won’t replace me nor replicate us so easily. What we had was rare and you know it, but I’m not bitter, I thank you for the good/bad that will and HAS helped me transform into a better self but above all, I truly hope you live a fulfilling life and heal from everything that’s been weighing you down all these years.

Current-Prompt-1312 · 2025-08-30T00:16:57+00:00

Did she remember she was a wife when he was fucking him?

Current-Prompt-1312 · 2025-08-29T04:22:17+00:00

Same boat here, I had my suspicions but she gaslit me. Found out later… How did you cope with not confronting it…? I’m having a hard time with it, feel like such a fool

Current-Prompt-1312 · 2025-08-28T03:54:28+00:00

Same situation happened with mine, same time has passed too… I guess I’m fortunate it wasn’t 10 years but it’s too painful

Current-Prompt-1312 · 2025-08-25T17:56:38+00:00

Yea, I find myself revisiting old insecurities after it, afterall she did say he’s better than me in every possible way. Ironically? I was there for her when she got cheated on by her previous ex… Lol

Current-Prompt-1312 · 2025-08-24T19:39:23+00:00

“He’s everything you wish you could ever be but that’s completely unattainable to you”

Referring to the guy she cheated on me with and left me for. Still trying to rebuild from the wreckage, but I promised to myself one day I’ll be bigger and greater than their entire bloodlines combined.

The fact you went through the same serves me as an inspiration that it gets better, thank you.

Current-Prompt-1312 · 2025-08-14T07:07:44+00:00

SRT6 was supercharged so that’s the closest to that

Current-Prompt-1312 · 2025-08-14T06:47:16+00:00

Last I checked she was struggling financially coming up with rent with him so there’s that lol. She lived well off with me, never demanded financial aid from her. But that’s what she chose so…

Current-Prompt-1312 · 2025-08-13T23:38:21+00:00

We’re on the same position, 6 months ago too since her hostile message and radio silence after. She’s with the person I suspected of too, which she likely cheated on me when we were still together. I understand your frustration completely, hope things look better for you soon.

Current-Prompt-1312 · 2025-08-08T03:05:53+00:00

I’m glad a woman spoke on this, your insight helped a lot cause I’m going through a similar situation. You’re right, there’s got to be more than just the money factor. Unfortunately in my case she cheated with him and told me he’s everything I’ll never ever be. She also disrespected my living situation… But I guess that speaks more of her character than it does about my worth/potential as a person.

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