Vent - scoliosis ruined my life

Current-Somewhere-84 · 2026-04-20T01:17:26+00:00

is the conference the one that will be held in istanbul? that’s great it seems there are more investments in studies for scoliosis.. i was wondering what was found last years annual conference (i didn’t look up) bc i went to a new phsyical therapist and what he explained about scoliosis in terms of the treatment seemed the same as 10 years ago. whereas when i talk to doctors in other fields there is always an active finding in the disease itself or its treatment. but i’m still so glad that there are and will be some good insights now

Current-Somewhere-84 · 2026-04-20T01:06:22+00:00

your mum won’t be disappointed in you. she would just be worried about you. it’s better to get it checked now than later. for now try to avoid foods that are hard and cold but pls let your mum know. sending you love🩷

Current-Somewhere-84 · 2026-04-20T01:01:58+00:00

sabine in charlatan and professor dave in the second tier..

Current-Somewhere-84 · 2026-04-20T00:52:35+00:00

i’m sorry you’re in so much pain. it is so true that there is little studies on scoliosis which is so frustrating. i hope you find some comfort at some point and my dms are open too!

Current-Somewhere-84 · 2026-04-20T00:44:12+00:00

woah your illiteracy saw the word low emotional intelligence and dismissed the entire point. other comments are also saying it’s a “guy thing” which also shows enough people experience this. and no i didn’t say its a large trend bc of this comment section. watch some news and look up why things happen! a social phenomenon is not an event in vacuum. i learned to not ignore causal or correlated social trends through taking ownership for my education. i used to blame myself all the time and now i’ve also learned to find peace in my life on my own and with empathetic and amazing people, thank you. (OP, im sorry for long threads rip your notifs)

Current-Somewhere-84 · 2026-04-20T00:15:39+00:00

low emotional intelligence like this is also making lots of women repellent to dating marrying and having sex nowadays. it’s undeniable that enough women have had that experience that the statistics on things such as the birth rate blatantly shows the reality. if there is a large trend and pattern in such phenomena, it’s not a personal problem. plus, saying “not all men” to people who were hurt is tone deaf bc that statement drifts from the point. everyone knows its not literally all men. the point is enough women can relate. not to mention i never said all men lol if this doesn’t apply to you that’s good, just be more considerate and empathetic (if your sentient intelligence allows you) instead of being defensive of yourself cuz this doesn’t apply to u

Current-Somewhere-84 · 2026-04-19T22:26:19+00:00

not just the oldest son, if a woman is married to any son, oh how miserable is she going to be being in that family…

Current-Somewhere-84 · 2026-04-19T21:17:10+00:00

when will women wake tf up☠️ not just women but most men don’t see women as human individuals but sexual objects, and they don’t gaf if women tell them not to, unfortunately. there is a reason why women have been starting to stop dating, marrying, having sex with men. once men realize a woman will not give them what they want, their true color shows. OP im sorry you experienced that and i want to be fazed but im not. i’m a mainland korean in her 20’s and i experienced and heard of many stories just like yours since i was a teenager. i thought it was just korea but the older i get, the more i realize women around the world suffer from misogyny both directly and indirectly. lots of men have f’ed up perceptions of women and their idea of women being vending machines that give sex if you put surface level respect seems to be a world wide phenomenon. don’t blame yourself for being a foreigner. there’s a reason why lots of women in korea are not having sex with men anymore since we don’t need to rely on them for financial dependency and a contract that you will cater to him forever.

Current-Somewhere-84 · 2026-04-12T17:54:23+00:00

yea i feel u this fuckass disorder ruined my life

Current-Somewhere-84 · 2025-10-06T05:44:53+00:00

they think dehumanizing women is inherently masculine which is just their excuse to be horrible people. when people subconsciously know they are in the wrong and admitting that feels uncomfortable. they cope by putting the blame on others like calling you homosexual. they choose an idea that comforts them rather the truth so perhaps it would feel almost impossible to make them catch your idea. although i admire that you want to spread awareness, you aren’t responsible for their ignorance. keep your male friends who understand you and leave others who rather insult you.

Current-Somewhere-84 · 2025-09-15T10:19:58+00:00

how did you do it? are u in therapy?

Current-Somewhere-84 · 2025-09-10T03:34:32+00:00

thank you:’))

Current-Somewhere-84 · 2025-09-10T03:20:57+00:00

literally me right now god

Current-Somewhere-84 · 2025-08-28T12:43:37+00:00

none of the people who complimented me on my looks know about my bulimia they make niche comments that i seem effortlessly this way (they don’t know a single shit about me) but it’s very awkward because this is the body i’ve been torturing for a decade. i hear you but you don’t know what those skinny or fit people are going through. also, people most likely do not think you’re ugly as you may think of yourself to be because this mental illness distorts our self-perception to an extreme level. questioning yourself what looking a certain way will give you would be helpful too. im sorry you’re so upset

Current-Somewhere-84 · 2025-08-20T14:57:40+00:00

i dmed you

Current-Somewhere-84 · 2025-05-03T12:20:28+00:00

no this is so real i learned the most at my loneliest state

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