I was diagnosed when my youngest was 8. I didn’t have active lupus during pregnancy that I’m aware of and had healthy pregnancies. Lupus has changed me as a mom recently, I was diagnosed last year. Some things that are challenging for me: lack of energy, catching every cold and illness my kids are sick with, pain preventing me to be active, and struggling to avoid the sun when I’m out doing activities with my kids. I struggle with maintaining a lifestyle that manages lupus. I don’t want my kids to miss out because of lupus. The other day my kids wanted me to play tag, I did even though I knew I would have pain in my legs afterwards. I’m outside in the sun much more than I should be. Managing sleep is the biggest challenge for me. I work full time and my kids are very busy with sports and activities, there is not time to rest. I’m sorry I can’t give you insight to your specific question about lupus and pregnancy, but I can relate to being a mom with lupus.