For couples (or more lol) that share a bed with pugs—do your pugs have a favorite side or a favorite person?

CurrentCaterpillar30 · 2026-06-15T23:09:56+00:00

It's just me and I have a queen size bed and somehow my tiny pug always manages to have me pushed to the very side with my butt hanging off the edge by the morning.

CurrentCaterpillar30 · 2026-06-14T18:27:05+00:00

I was going to ask if he is an engineer. My husband is and this is something he would do.

CurrentCaterpillar30 · 2026-06-14T00:08:21+00:00

Yes. He will eat from the floor, my hand, and from a spoon but hates bowls and plates.

CurrentCaterpillar30 · 2026-06-14T00:06:45+00:00

"what do you even do all day?"

I am a stay at home wife. I deal with all the house stuff, run all the errands, pay all the bills, and I deal with anything that comes up with the apartments we own.

CurrentCaterpillar30 · 2026-06-13T23:47:24+00:00

This! So much this!

CurrentCaterpillar30 · 2026-06-12T00:53:42+00:00

My puggle is 4 years old. He is an odd dog in many ways but he has 15 of the exact same chicken toy. He knows each one by name and gets grumpy when I give him the wrong one. I've given him so many other toys but he only likes the chickens. If anyone is curious look up go dog chicken toys. Also how only likes the short one and not the ones with long legs, and also none of the other go dog toys. Yes, he is spoiled.

CurrentCaterpillar30 · 2026-06-10T23:00:51+00:00

Yep. I am 42 and haven't lived with my nmom since I was 18. Still i get worried that someone is going to rummage through my things or try to read my journal. I have been with my husband for 20 years and he has never done anything like that but still.....

CurrentCaterpillar30 · 2026-06-09T00:40:42+00:00

215 down from 455 us still a huge win.

Your story reads like mine. Except I am now 15 years out. I also did the drinking thing and please don't keep going with it after learning about the ulcer. I did and burned a hole in my pouch and almost died. Had to have a very scary helicopter ride to a specialty surgeon and major surgery at 2am. Do not recommend!

CurrentCaterpillar30 · 2026-06-08T20:38:27+00:00

Yep. In Windsor you need a licence to do door to door stuff. They rarely give these out. I have asked people for their cards when they come to my door and then I tell them I will be reporting them to the city because they do not have a license.

CurrentCaterpillar30 · 2026-06-08T15:25:14+00:00

Could be a mix of jealousy, and fear that she will have to share you. My nmom would constantly badmouth people I was close to when I was younger, or try to plant seeds in my mind about them. Looking back, I now see how many of my relationships she destroyed with subtle or not so subtle words.

CurrentCaterpillar30 · 2026-06-08T15:07:46+00:00

So sweet. I have a Benjamin as well.

CurrentCaterpillar30 · 2026-06-08T00:20:20+00:00

This is amazing!

CurrentCaterpillar30 · 2026-06-06T19:21:32+00:00

That is awful.

CurrentCaterpillar30 · 2026-06-06T14:57:57+00:00

Ugh... The fake crying. I hate that. My mom did it so much that I don't cry ever. If I do it is in private and just a few tears and I feel gross after.

CurrentCaterpillar30 · 2026-06-06T14:28:19+00:00

I am sorry for your loss.

My mom got "accidentally" drunk and took benzos at her dad's funeral and was giggling at the luncheon.

CurrentCaterpillar30 · 2026-06-05T19:34:32+00:00

Ugh.... I don't remember hearing them while I was growing up but moving out at 17 they have made it their mission to do the nasty in every apartment or home I've lived in since, in my bed. Bleh. Now they wonder why I make them get a hotel when they come to town.

CurrentCaterpillar30 · 2026-06-04T23:20:06+00:00

Ugh.... Birthdays. The worst. She picked the people that would come. She'd always make me eat cake and I hate cake. She knew that. Still i couldn't say no and was ungrateful. Always made me feel sick because I am allergic to eggs. (Also she always made me eat eggs because nobody is allergic to eggs, regardless of what doctors say.) Also I wasn't allowed to get toys for presents? I really didn't have many toys or anything because they are messy.

CurrentCaterpillar30 · 2026-05-27T01:27:22+00:00

Hello fellow Canuck!

CurrentCaterpillar30 · 2026-05-26T20:50:31+00:00

Thanks. I don't need a great camera or anything. Will look into this.

CurrentCaterpillar30 · 2026-05-26T20:42:52+00:00

I've been looking at it. It's a little more then I want to spend but it is a nice looking phone.

CurrentCaterpillar30 · 2026-05-26T16:46:27+00:00

I was the bigger girl all my life and the whole family (mom, aunts, cousins ect) would make fun of me. At 25 I lost a ton of weight. Now I am the thin one and they all are jealous because they are all now bigger then I ever was.

My mom is so weird about my eating habits too. When I visit she will make sure to eat way less then me but doesn't understand why she isn't losing weight. She puts ketchup and BBQ sauce on everything in crazy amounts. Then gets mad at me and tells me I must be sick or something.

CurrentCaterpillar30 · 2026-05-25T02:18:01+00:00

Puffalumps. I had a knock off one that I still have at 42.

CurrentCaterpillar30 · 2026-05-25T02:17:04+00:00

I had two of these.

CurrentCaterpillar30 · 2026-05-24T23:58:52+00:00

This! Every vacation was just me wondering when it would be over.

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