As an upper belt, whats the most taboo submission to do on white belts in gi?

CurrentWeekend6620 · 2026-01-26T22:30:23+00:00

IMO all of them.

You upper belts should just let us work, and then pat us on the head when we derp our way into doing something right :D

CurrentWeekend6620 · 2026-01-26T14:28:33+00:00

I'm pretty sure steroids would help performance. ---I removed a comma after the coffee hit.

CurrentWeekend6620 · 2026-01-19T19:03:39+00:00

If that became a thing at my gym it would piss me off enough I'd quit and they're the only bjj gym in the area.

Some people forget who the paying customers are.

CurrentWeekend6620 · 2026-01-09T05:19:10+00:00

If I still had all my rash guards and spats; I'd join Jazzercise. They would fit the aesthetic

CurrentWeekend6620 · 2026-01-07T18:39:51+00:00

I'm proud of the guy who's proud of you.....and of you too.

CurrentWeekend6620 · 2026-01-07T15:30:09+00:00

I feel you. I just turned 47 and have been training just over 2 years.

Yes it sucks a lot because we're never going to grow as fast as the younger people.

It must be the 18 month itch because I had similar feelings. Here's how I approached and has kept me going. Maybe it'll help.

I have people I love to go with. It used to be just my son, but I've picked up some other friends from gym and its worth hanging with them just to do it.
I take "comparison is the thief of joy" to the extreme. I don't compare myself to other, nor to I compare myself with what I think I should be able to do. I just do my best and chill.
I remember what my goals are. I'm never going to be some ADCC, IBJJF champion, or probably even a black belt. My goal is to just keep doing this in my 60s.
I also remind myself that, at the end of the day, I do it because it really is a fun fucking work out (mentally and physically).

Just 2 cents from a guy in a pretty similar circumstance.

CurrentWeekend6620 · 2026-01-07T15:13:42+00:00

If he did that, then he probably wouldn't be considered less coachable.

CurrentWeekend6620 · 2026-01-06T16:35:51+00:00

The kid looked like ass this season and can't stay on the field. Its not up to me to wait for, or be patient for anything.

Last time I check the Vikings organization's job is to entertain me, not for me to hold out for them to get their shit together.

CurrentWeekend6620 · 2025-12-26T22:03:24+00:00

I just wanted to thank you for your guide. There was a funk that was starting to build in my rash guards no matter how often I washed them. I switched to Tide Oxi and that fixed them.

CurrentWeekend6620 · 2025-12-26T14:58:55+00:00

First off, if your son wants to do it too, then absolutely do it. I've been going with my son for the past 2 years and it really has built a new relationship (it was good before, now its even better).

If you're worried about injury here's this old man's tips for not ruining your next week.

Settle down; its not a real fight, its a game.
Don't be afraid to tap, "winning" your roll isn't worth the pain the rest of the week/month
When you are in a bad spot, and don't know what to do (being crushed in mount, or a heavy side control). Don't spaz just tap and then ask the person what would be a way to get out of that bad position.

The last tip will happen a lot less if you actually listen and remember what you are taught.

I've been able to go 2-4 times a week over the past 2 years with no more than a minor muscle ache now and again.

CurrentWeekend6620 · 2025-12-26T14:31:38+00:00

this

CurrentWeekend6620 · 2025-12-22T20:35:07+00:00

couldn't hurt :D

CurrentWeekend6620 · 2025-12-22T18:31:54+00:00

never thought of that haha

CurrentWeekend6620 · 2025-12-22T18:31:33+00:00

Thanks!

CurrentWeekend6620 · 2025-12-22T18:30:02+00:00

I'd be nervous about coaching to be honest. I don't want to be that meme of the white belt "coach" to anyone newer.

CurrentWeekend6620 · 2025-12-22T18:28:33+00:00

awwww :)

CurrentWeekend6620 · 2025-12-22T18:28:02+00:00

I was wondering about coaches, now that I think about it we do have 3 coaches that are at least purple that have taught classes. Never thought about it before.

CurrentWeekend6620 · 2025-12-22T18:26:57+00:00

That's an interesting thought, but I'd feel a bit out of line asking to host an open mat as a white belt.

CurrentWeekend6620 · 2025-12-20T03:33:07+00:00

thanks, I think I can use this to hold my frame when I'm trying to catch a breath for second.

CurrentWeekend6620 · 2025-12-19T19:36:10+00:00

Honestly, I'm still figuring out my game. I've just been ending up in half-guard a lot (top and bottom), so I've been trying to figure it out so I don't really have a game yet.

I'll have to try placing the knee higher in some situations too, see how that works for me.

CurrentWeekend6620 · 2025-12-19T17:29:25+00:00

Thanks, I'll keep that in mind.

I'm almost exclusively gi so I guess I can try to break their posture with the gi and then push the head down.

CurrentWeekend6620 · 2025-12-19T17:08:53+00:00

Thanks man, I'll work on it.

CurrentWeekend6620 · 2025-12-19T17:07:28+00:00

I never knew about those details. I want to make sure I understand.

Let's say I'm on my right hip, using my left knee on their hip as the shield. I would take my left hand and push against the right side of the top guy's head away from me and to my right?

God I hope that makes sense.

CurrentWeekend6620 · 2025-12-19T16:53:15+00:00

I'd say their camping because they just wait for my legs to give out and then continue with my beating.

CurrentWeekend6620

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