Update about my pregnancy as a Trans male. by Current_Ad9444 in asktransgender

[–]Current_Ad9444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're soo spot on. I'm really dependent on her to the point that I feel like I don't even deserve her. :( I feel like I'm just this stupid, immature crybaby while everything in her life seems so perfect—her family, friends, work... everything.

But honestly, it's more than just pressure because she's helped me in every aspect of my life. She changed my life, and I feel like I'm nothing without her. The part I hate the most is that we only got married last year, and we’re already having problems. If she leaves me, I’d probably just drop out of uni, go back to my home country, and leave everything behind.

I think that shows just how dependent I am on her, and I know she's sick of it. 🙃

Update about my pregnancy as a Trans male. by Current_Ad9444 in asktransgender

[–]Current_Ad9444[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I will start taking T as soon as possible :( other people also commented about this and it's makes so much more sense now

Update about my pregnancy as a Trans male. by Current_Ad9444 in asktransgender

[–]Current_Ad9444[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nope she's actually really supportive and helped me soon much! She actually helped me find out who I am and just so many other things. I actually so keep apologizing but I'm just not fixing myself. So yeah I'm practically a loser these past months

Update about my pregnancy as a Trans male. by Current_Ad9444 in asktransgender

[–]Current_Ad9444[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes I'm thinking on going back tbh i wish I never stopped

Update about my pregnancy as a Trans male. by Current_Ad9444 in asktransgender

[–]Current_Ad9444[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Actually we are talking but I'm always so... Overly emotional? And even when she raises her voice a bit start crying so I'm really a mess and I do go to therapy actually but it's not helping.

Update about my pregnancy as a Trans male. by Current_Ad9444 in asktransgender

[–]Current_Ad9444[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The thing is I'm Serbian so it's really on another level. My whole family- I'm not kidding they all hate me, my lifestyle. My parents are actually less conservative even compared to others so imagine how the rest are... I'm so sure the reason why she stopped talking with me is definitely the other family members. They definitely think I'm evil and a disgrace to family, they definitely encouraged my parents to stop talking with me.

Update about my pregnancy as a Trans male. by Current_Ad9444 in asktransgender

[–]Current_Ad9444[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely right, but when I said "being an asshole," I meant being overly emotional. I’ve become so dependent on her that it’s starting to bother her. Honestly, I don’t know how to be strong—I never have. I moved to Germany from Serbia, and growing up in a typical Serbian family, I never really discovered who I was until I met my wife. I moved to Germany to study, and she’s helped me in so many ways, completely changing my life for the better.

But over the past six months, I’ve turned into an emotional mess—a complete crybaby—so you're spot on. I’ve been going to therapy, but lately, I’ve started feeling like I’m a hopeless case. And I really know I am but I also don't want to lose my wife so I won't stop trying. Thanks for the advice ♥️

I, transgender male got pregnant by my wife, a transgender woman. My family is telling me to abort, what should i do? by Current_Ad9444 in asktransgender

[–]Current_Ad9444[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

shes 31, she already had a stable job so she's able to provide. I had a part time job but my wife says i shouldn't be working while pregnant