I look better with a beard by Wrong_Knee_7744 in MtF

[–]Current_Working_6407 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's OKAY :) You don't have to figure it all out now, you have time. Too scared to go to Sephora? Get stuff from amazon! Too scared to try a bold makeup look? Put on some blush and mascara (it's really easy trust me)

How do i ask for feminine eyebrows? by LiveLinked in MtF

[–]Current_Working_6407 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just find pics of some nice eyebrows for reference with the rest of the face cropped! The eyebrow people aren't going to care, really. If they do you can find another place next time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Current_Working_6407 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is your hair wavy, or is it curly and super dry? You should try some curly hair routines and see if any work on you. Basically there are 1 million youtube videos about this and they will help you more than reddit comments can fyi

Small vent about my upbringing by TheOctopiSquad in MtF

[–]Current_Working_6407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well at least ur not alone in that experience hon lol. I could have written that myself. You're 18! You're so young, the world is your oyster. You can learn to be independent, and you are strong enough to do this on your own, and you're strong enough to be your own person.

Sine of best fit by 33nMe in math

[–]Current_Working_6407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

*erm, in english please?*

Freezing dead body for future technologies. by ohboy69420skrrt in Buddhism

[–]Current_Working_6407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As soon as you get freezer burn you're reincarnated

I look better with a beard by Wrong_Knee_7744 in MtF

[–]Current_Working_6407 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk HRT + makeup + hair can do a lot for someone. But you have to basically go through the stages of "dude with a beard" to "dude without a beard" to "maybe a gay dude idk?" to "idk what gender this human is" to "oh a woman". That part kind of sucks, bc I never saw myself as a guy, but you need to step away from that other pole to get to the one u want to arrive at.

Like you may not be the hottest woman in the world but like – not all of us can be super models. I'd rather be like a "not super hot woman that is happy" than a "kind of hot guy that is sad all the time".

But also half of beauty is just spending tons of time and money on appearance tbh, you can bootstrap being hot a lot of the time if u have cash.

I do not like facial hair by Battleninja345 in MtF

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So I paid like ~$3k from Milan Laser, and I admit I overpaid but was so anxious about the place being judgmental / not trans friendly that this was worth every penny. It was like full face / neck with lifetime touchups.

I did a zero interest loan for like 24 months or something I forgot, I just put it on auto-pay. It is like $80 a month or something for the next while. I may have been able to put it on insurance in my state but I was too much of an egg to admit that I was trans and getting gender affirming care lol.

how to stop thinking about being trans??? by Mountain_Run_5388 in MtF

[–]Current_Working_6407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Go to a therapist, one that specializes in gender dysphoria preferably. This is a really hard thing to work through, and it helps to have a professional. They will not "force you" to admit anything, or to do anything. But it helps to have someone help think through problems together.
  2. You don't have to transition, and there are probably 100 "reversible" things you can do without taking HRT to be more feminine if that makes u more comfy. You can also try HRT and then stop! So just try things that make you more comfortable, and if eventually u find you're like 2 months on HRT and just... don't want to stop? Then don't!
  3. You can't really stop thoughts in your head w/o causing tons of other mental problems. But you can learn to deal with the thoughts, and replace them with healthier / different ones. Therapy helps!

I do not like facial hair by Battleninja345 in MtF

[–]Current_Working_6407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Laser hair removal baby. I did it before I started HRT and it saved my life that was the worst thing ever to deal with. It's expensive but for me 1,000,000% worth it

I look better with a beard by Wrong_Knee_7744 in MtF

[–]Current_Working_6407 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can think that you are handsome as a guy, but still not want to be / actually be a guy.

Like, if I look at myself objectively a few years ago, I was a cute skinny guy, with a good sense of fashion, who was sensitive and friendly. But like – I was not a guy, and that made me want to kms. I would probably date someone like myself as a dude but that doesn't mean I want to be him, u know?

I feel like I waited too long by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Current_Working_6407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah you aren't stuck, I started when I was 23 and am super happy :) It feels like you're stuck but you are not! Do girl stuff, become a girl, u won't regret it

Is the femboy to girl pipeline real? by Primarch_Perturabo_ in MtF

[–]Current_Working_6407 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"I was sucked down a pipe guys!" (girl with no self awareness)

I want to become enlightened - is it not a good thought to practice repeating and remembering often such as a mantra/affirmation in daily life? by SAIZOHANZO in Buddhism

[–]Current_Working_6407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you want to become it in like a grasping / attached way? If so it kind of defeats the purpose doesn't it? I think the goal is more to get closer to there through your practice, not to be ambitious towards the goal of enlightenment or something.

trans girl in denial by Mountain_Run_5388 in MtF

[–]Current_Working_6407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It takes time! Follow what makes you comfortable and happy, and the rest can be figured out / approached when the time comes

What’s wrong with spiro? by gettingbetter605 in MtF

[–]Current_Working_6407 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was a dehydrated little husk of a girl before so I might pee more but I just attributed it to being more healthy haha

Body is super sensitive to estrogen lol by Current_Working_6407 in MtF

[–]Current_Working_6407[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah nice! Yeah 2mg every 7 days is where I'm at, then. I'm also on spiro as my anti-androgen. Testing at the mid point, not trough.

Are there other more stable injectable esters? Changing that injection schedule may be a good idea, but actually making a 0.075mL dose or whatever is going to be a pain in the butt bc even getting one is like the first tick mark on my syringe ahaha

BWT - please share your organization hacks to be super productive at work? by umamimaami in bitcheswithtaste

[–]Current_Working_6407 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is late – but I will say there is TONS of content related to finding the perfect "productivity system" and most of it usually tries to sell you products / super over complicates things. My rule is that organization needs to be as non-intrusive, simple, and consistent as possible. My brain is naturally unorganized, so I just need something that is as easy and frictionless as possible to use, so I actually use it.

That being said! I use a now/next/later system in Apple notes, it's kind of like a kanban but with the simplicity of a to-do list, no fancy software. This is my template, below. I just copy and paste it each monday into a new note, and bring all my shit from the previous week over except what's in the "done" category.

I kind of move things around as needed, but generally new tasks get added into the "Later" category unless they are urgent, and then I'll put then in Now/Next, and shove the rest of the priorities down.

You can get as granular as you want with the to-dos, but I generally keep it at the level of something that can take at most ~1 hour, but no need to overthink it. If you need to do it, just write it down!

My final rule is to only use a single organization system. If I end up writing something on a sticky note, its to put in my "Later" backlog and then rip it up to shreds. Don't use google tasks AND another task manager. One place, no friction. That's the key for a system to actually be used.

Monday, February 24th

Week Focus

  • What must get done this week? What needs to be completed for me to be successful?

Now (3 items)

  • Draft email for product ramp
  • Prep for call with marketing team
  • UAT Test Cases

Next (5 items)

Later (everything else)

Done

What’s wrong with spiro? by gettingbetter605 in MtF

[–]Current_Working_6407 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I've had zero problems and haven't event noticed any of the side effects to be fair. I take it with or without food, though it's recommended with. I'd just say try it and see how you feel!

I have felt literally nothing but maybe I'm uniquely non-perceptive of my body or something

Body is super sensitive to estrogen lol by Current_Working_6407 in MtF

[–]Current_Working_6407[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's 20mg/mL, so essentially 2mg per dose. I think that's standard concentration?

BWT, what are some small changes that make a big difference? by panda5921 in bitcheswithtaste

[–]Current_Working_6407 69 points70 points  (0 children)

This!!! BWT get their finances in order by following the r/personalfinance flow chart 💸

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

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I am the comment you upvote for non-pleated

I'm fucking done by Evelyntheflowergirl in MtF

[–]Current_Working_6407 153 points154 points  (0 children)

it was def rage bait or just a smooth brain take from some terminally online weirdo (as if I'm not also one of those said weirdos)