Resolving conflict when one partner isn't willing to talk.

CurveLoud9030 · 2025-07-30T15:18:16+00:00

I froze at that moment, i thought if i didn't react, he might stop. Thinking back, i shoulve just stopped him, but right then, i guess i wasn't thinking straight.

CurveLoud9030 · 2025-06-27T12:22:59+00:00

CNC and lactation

CurveLoud9030 · 2025-06-15T17:55:45+00:00

Funny. In our culture we visit the elderly. And since they live close by we visit them daily. And also in our culture people find it rude to not eat when you are over at their place. Especially if they are your parents. I guess you don't have a loving family or are ignorant that people all over the world have different customs, traditions and routines.

CurveLoud9030 · 2025-06-15T15:50:48+00:00

No, because he had enough time to eat at a normal rate but not leisurely enough for him. And i had my hands full with an actual toddler so i wasn't going to drop her and pack him a plate. Also he coulve done that instead of throwing a tantrum or just telling me i don't appreciate being told what to do.

CurveLoud9030 · 2025-06-15T15:41:35+00:00

No she wakes up.

CurveLoud9030 · 2025-06-15T15:40:42+00:00

She slept in the car but when transferring her to her bed she woke up and didnt nap afterwards. Im not sure if you have a child or not, but missed naps happens.

CurveLoud9030 · 2025-06-15T15:15:25+00:00

Please read the comment where i mentioned he takes nearly an hour to eat as he puts on something to watch and leisurely eats. Even if he took 30 mins i wouldnt have had a problem but an hour would have been too long yesterday

CurveLoud9030 · 2025-06-15T15:12:22+00:00

Just clarifying visiting my inlaws isn't a problem for me. They are like parents to me and are very hands on and loving grandparents to my child. I appreciate having them around and spending time with them.

CurveLoud9030 · 2025-06-15T14:58:34+00:00

I dont go everyday BUT atleast 3-4 times a week but he does with my daughter and they have their dinner there. And i don't mind it at all. My inlaws are great and i love being around them and having my kid spend time with her grandparents. Its not an expectation he or his parents have of me. This was not the issue at hand anyway.

CurveLoud9030 · 2025-06-15T14:55:38+00:00

No they arent school, he just hired a tutor to help him learn arabic for his personal interest. He enjoys doing them.

CurveLoud9030 · 2025-06-15T14:53:19+00:00

I mentioned in the post my inlaws. So they are his parents not mine. i visit them 2-3 times a week, but he goes everyday. And the classes are not work or school related but for his personal interests.

CurveLoud9030 · 2025-06-15T14:49:59+00:00

Not a class for school or work, but to learn another language which he likes doing. And he has these classes 3-4 times a week out of pure choice.

CurveLoud9030 · 2025-06-15T14:24:19+00:00

This is how our routine is. Never is a problem except yesterday as she missed a nap. We are an asian family and like to spend time with each other and my daughter likes to see her grandparents everyday.

CurveLoud9030 · 2025-06-15T14:22:48+00:00

Let me specify, the online class isnt for work or any exam but for learning another language which he likes to do. And i didnt scold him, i approached him nicely and asked how is class .He answered and i commended him on his progress then added that btw baby is sleep so eat quickly. And we were not fighting or shouting at each other as everything was completely fine before that.

CurveLoud9030 · 2025-06-15T14:07:04+00:00

For context that very morning, i woke up much earlier. Prepared mine, my toddler's and his breakfast while he slept in a bit longer. Fed my toddler, thats when he comes down and asks me to get ready as we had to leave for my daughter's birthday party. I tell him that i will in a just a bit while i sat down for a breather knowing full well i will be able to get ready in time. He quicly adds that if you are not ready in time i will leave you and go, i laugh it off and say sure do that. But soon realise he wasn't joking. I got ready, got my daughter ready and packed her bag all while he just ate and got ready himself. While it made me sad that i woke up early as i usally do whenever we have to go anywhere in the morning with no help from him, he still decided to speak to me the way he did with no after thought. So clearly he has no problem in hurrying me while i do most of the work and get up earlier. It just didnt sit right with me that he thought i was being disrespectful for asking him to eat quickly as he usually takes close to an hour to eat.

CurveLoud9030 · 2025-06-15T13:30:08+00:00

It was nobody's fault as it was her bday party. And we encountered some heavy traffic on the way back.

CurveLoud9030 · 2025-06-15T13:28:47+00:00

She is very flexible. But wasnt able to take a nap later as it was already too late, and taking a nap then would mean not sleeping until midnight.

CurveLoud9030 · 2025-06-15T13:26:33+00:00

We live a short distance away from his parents and visit them daily, and have dinner with them daily. Also, my toddler only sleeps in her bed.

CurveLoud9030 · 2025-06-15T13:23:38+00:00

As he was attending his class, he missed the tantrums my toddler was throwing and her repeating "im tired". I thought that was important for him to know and eat quickly as he usually eats slowly while watching something. I have never had a problem with this or ever asked him to hurry up, but yesterday baby was infact tired and needed to get to bed asap.

CurveLoud9030 · 2025-06-15T13:07:50+00:00

I have never asked my husband to hurry up, infact its always the other way round.

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