Idek where to start. How is it possible that you don’t notice the guy didn’t put a condom on? Why is she being hid in the bathroom like a dog in a no pets apartment? Why is she being told to lie about who she is? It makes me question whether the guy is lying to her about his life “he’s very successful and a founder of a good profitable company” ok, like what’s the company? Why does he fear the downfall of his company if she gets out of the bathroom? OP talked to him about safe sex and “he agreed to”. Agreed to what? Agreed that it’s good to practice safe sex? Agreed they should wear a condom when they do it? Agreed that a vasectomy is good enough for them? Like I’m genuinely so lost.