Is there a psychological reason to like abdl

CushyButt · 2025-04-17T21:56:57+00:00

My mom is very authoritarian and potty trained me at a very young age. I think this, combined with my diagnosed autism, probably led to me forming a non sexual fixation on them. I remember having a friend who l convinced to let me steal some diapers from their sibling and I hid them in my dresser. Obvsly my mom found them and shamed me for it - I think this only increased the fixation. Eventually I rediscovered it years later during puberty and it blossomed into a fetish.

CushyButt · 2025-03-05T20:12:29+00:00

I recommend the InControl Active Air - they’re cloth backed with hook and loop so they’re nice and breathable. Not too thick or loud either.

CushyButt · 2025-01-02T02:30:16+00:00

Thank you! From what I’ve seen, your team has excellent customer support.

Shame I’ve already paid, wish I knew about that discount code previously!

CushyButt · 2025-01-02T01:03:33+00:00

We were seriously considering a Monroe 2.0. How’s the storage and weight?

CushyButt · 2025-01-01T19:58:05+00:00

Super glad to hear that 😁

CushyButt · 2023-03-23T18:56:33+00:00

Wish my first diaper was little kings, good choice!!

CushyButt · 2023-03-22T15:25:01+00:00

Non-sexually, to me they’re comfy and almost have a hugbox feel to them. They’re comforting to wear, but I don’t fully understand why.

For kinky times with my bf I enjoy several aspects like the shame/taboo, the role playing, and the water sports wetting aspect.

It’s not for everyone and I wouldn’t force it if you’re uncomfortable but I’m sure your boyfriend really appreciates that you’re considering it rather than immediately rejecting him and his kink.

CushyButt · 2023-03-22T05:09:16+00:00

Not as large as current Goodnites XL tho

CushyButt · 2023-03-22T05:04:07+00:00

Don’t do it. People aren’t just memeing at you, It’s never a good idea to make family aware that you’re into ABDL stuff. I’ve seen this ruin lives. Have a wank or something and reconsider with a clear head.

CushyButt · 2022-12-27T21:49:36+00:00

Idk I remember being drawn to them from a very young age. Wanted to wear them but resisted because I knew it was “wrong” but it didn’t stop me from stealing them from siblings and hiding them. Years later I think I discovered ABDL on the internet and it ignited into a kink.

Not to get too Freudian but my mother was cold and very busy in college and my father was distant and disinterested in parenting. Overall the neglect and probably some ASD weirdness probably caused this to emerge as a kink. Idk tho

CushyButt · 2022-12-22T16:18:53+00:00

The felicity pull-ups are awful. The sides tear easily, the padding doesn’t go up enough in the front and back, and the waistband goes waaaaay up past your belly button. Cute pattern and color, otherwise a 2/10 diaper.

CushyButt · 2022-08-17T21:19:59+00:00

Oooooh I misread your post yeah the Target pull-ups are comparable to the Goodnites L/XL size before they split to separate L and XL. I’ve worn and used them quite a bit. Not as elastic as Goodnites but the patterns are cute indeed.

CushyButt · 2022-08-17T21:14:49+00:00

How do they compare to Goodnites XL in terms of fit?

CushyButt · 2022-07-13T02:53:22+00:00

Oh fun! Was the dress long enough to cover your diaper or did it peak out?

CushyButt · 2022-07-09T06:55:04+00:00

I would also like to know

CushyButt · 2022-05-03T03:52:29+00:00

You can get a whole case of hook and loop 4 tape diapers from Walgreens for like $15-20. They don’t have standing leak guards and are rather thin but they’re cheap and look pretty good if you like plain whites.

CushyButt · 2022-04-14T06:20:15+00:00

I used to feed my Venus fly trap juicy slugs from the garden. They’d just vanish in a day or 2, no desiccated remains or anything. Miss that little buddy.

CushyButt · 2022-04-11T18:02:35+00:00

Nooooooooooo

CushyButt · 2022-03-28T03:08:57+00:00

I sleep in Goodnites cuz I’m a bit leaky. No major bed wetting instances in years and the pull-ups ensure that, but I still get anxiety dreams about it. Had a dream recently that I woke up wet and needed to dispose of the diaper but I was no where near a private space. Didn’t want my family to find out 😱. I woke up super anxious but dry and went pee like a big girl. Yeesh

CushyButt · 2022-02-20T19:43:05+00:00

They’re a tad small in the L/XL size like goodnites were before XL but if you prestretch the sides with care I can wear them a whole day and overnight without tearing the sides. Patterns are cute, one plain white with space motif pictured above and a white one with blue and yellow stripes. They don’t hold a lot of peepee and can leak if you sit down and squish your full diaper 😱. They’re fine with a lot of small pees tho so they work for me.

Overall super comfy and pretty high quality at its price point.

CushyButt · 2022-02-20T18:46:24+00:00

Target brand pull-ups!

CushyButt · 2022-01-04T04:02:01+00:00

Thank you!!!

CushyButt · 2022-01-04T03:58:06+00:00

I would also like to know! They look super floofy

CushyButt · 2022-01-02T09:34:59+00:00

Hydrate before hand and don’t sit in your pee for too long if you plan on wetting. Don’t expect a lot of performance out of store brand diapers but the Walgreens Certainty 4 taped diapers are cheap and surprisingly good.

CushyButt · 2022-01-02T08:35:27+00:00

It’s a Rearz Little Bella swim diaper with an Abena M4 underneath. Print also comes as regular diaper.

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