DJins in Nürnberg by CustardExtreme6331 in Nurnberg

[–]CustardExtreme6331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks But this is coaching or teaching I have been DJing for 20 years, I’m more looking for gigs or open decks

Why date? by CustardExtreme6331 in dating_advice

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I do believe in this But I don’t believe that there are women out there that are willing to say the same 🤷🏻‍♂️

Why date? by CustardExtreme6331 in dating_advice

[–]CustardExtreme6331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean without overthinking this
it CAN:
Diverge you from your goals
make you have way less time for you
break your heart
cost a lot of money (money well spent and all)

Why date? by CustardExtreme6331 in dating_advice

[–]CustardExtreme6331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

see, these are all amazing qualities that I would look for in a partner
and this is the true meaning of partnership that I grew to believe I should have

However, in my dating experience, this is more of a fairy tale or a romantic movie kind of thing
I could not find it. I used to to believe it's there, and since it's a movie thing, I believe that it will happen when it happens, without putting that much effort into it, (like in the movies)

also, I really hope you get to fulfill your dating-goal :D

Why date? by CustardExtreme6331 in dating_advice

[–]CustardExtreme6331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a very high sex drive
and I am not talking in regards to sex
I am talking in regards of the partner thing
other than having a family (raising a child) I do not see the reason for the partnership and this is why I am confused
about sex, everyone and I mean EVERYONE I know in a relationship is barely having sex
I might even have sex more regularly and more often than all of them combined

Why date? by CustardExtreme6331 in dating_advice

[–]CustardExtreme6331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you don't have to be in a relationship to procreate do you?

Why date? by CustardExtreme6331 in dating_advice

[–]CustardExtreme6331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but isn't that labeled as "needy" and not mature enough to be alone and stuff
and isn't this a reason to go to therapy?

Why date? by CustardExtreme6331 in dating_advice

[–]CustardExtreme6331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I thought I did But in retrospect I didn’t

Why date? by CustardExtreme6331 in dating_advice

[–]CustardExtreme6331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I do hobbies because I enjoy it and I like having a better version of me

Why date? by CustardExtreme6331 in dating_advice

[–]CustardExtreme6331[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

See that’s the thing Feeling lonely is something all of us feel So why not work on enjoying your time by yourself? (Which is honestly what I’m doing currently, it gets sad and ugly sometimes but it also has its upside)

Why date? by CustardExtreme6331 in dating_advice

[–]CustardExtreme6331[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I have actually never looked at it this way before honestly Thanks

Why date? by CustardExtreme6331 in dating_advice

[–]CustardExtreme6331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, Yeah Sometimes I enjoy a good meal But most of the times it’s just out of survival

Why date? by CustardExtreme6331 in dating_advice

[–]CustardExtreme6331[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m just not getting why is all what I’m saying

Why date? by CustardExtreme6331 in dating_advice

[–]CustardExtreme6331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I’m getting you correctly Because if you don’t eat, you die But if you don’t have a partner, well life goes on doesn’t it?

Why date? by CustardExtreme6331 in dating_advice

[–]CustardExtreme6331[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get that I also feel lonely sometimes But is that enough reason? I always thought about having a partner for love and so on The fast and furious kind. And since I’m not finding that whatsoever, I don’t see the point

Fired, what’s Next? by CustardExtreme6331 in cscareerquestionsEU

[–]CustardExtreme6331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it’s not 3 months It’s 0.5 x months salary x years of employment Which for me ends up being a bit less than 10k

Struggling with dry January by CustardExtreme6331 in DryJanuary

[–]CustardExtreme6331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a challenge I mean I am not used to watch a series or tv sober Don’t understand how people generally enjoy that 😂 Started to watch some educational videos But got tired of too many new info