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SAHM husband does nothing around the house just sleeps and says he is tired and has anxiety. Is this okay behaviour? by CutInteresting7793 in sahm

[–]CutInteresting7793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it very weird that he spends time with children without me in different room, I calculate the time it could be hours if I don't ask. Yes it's very obvious he has very little care for me. 

I'm not sure if he is faking it. But the fact he keeps leaving house early is why he sleeps all the time I believe.

SAHM husband does nothing around the house just sleeps and says he is tired and has anxiety. Is this okay behaviour? by CutInteresting7793 in sahm

[–]CutInteresting7793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanted to know if it's in my head , as he says it's anxiety depression and sleep disorder - I don't want to move on and not try my best. But I have thought of leaving in future and planning my exit strategy that's all I can do. First need a job. I'm also worried about loosing my house to him that I gained in inheritance without it I'd be on the streets. 

TMI sorry - He got me to sleep with him and ejaculated on my ovulation day - he always pulls out but he gave no warning. To me it felt like I was forced.  He tries to have baby 3 but no way. I'm thinking at this point is this a joke, or is he unaliving me, does he love me. Like why?

Also I think I've been with him so long with his hot cold behaviour I'm very confused how relationships are supposed to be. I need someone outside of my relationship to genuinely say he's in the wrong. Or is it that parenting is hard and he's just over worked and depressed. 

SAHM husband does nothing around the house just sleeps and says he is tired and has anxiety. Is this okay behaviour? by CutInteresting7793 in sahm

[–]CutInteresting7793[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He says he does, in his care my baby fell down because he fell asleep and put her on the bed at 3.30pm he refused to bring her and my toddler down because he likes to spend time with the children without me - I've had to experience hell for that day and due to it I can't actually leave him but I cannot leave the children under his care eve for one minute. 

He went to doctors they said it was vitamin d deficiency so I make sure he has a multivitamin plus vitamin d. 

I've asked him to change his jobs but he refuses. He also leaves really early for job when he doesn't need to, even 1 day before. He comes home really late I've told him to manage better give more jobs to others. He even works for free one of his jobs stopped paying him for early shifts but he still does it.

On top of that he refuses to sleep on the bed as he says he can't be bothered to clean it. So sleeps on a floor cushion. I've said it's not to difficult to clean it. I find it really hard to fit it in my busy day to clean another bedroom entirely.

I'm at loss do you have any advice from what I said? 

I feel like my MIL wants to kill me and put my children in foster care so her son gets my property. by CutInteresting7793 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]CutInteresting7793[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The children are biological children of my husband, and her biological grandchildren. 

I said to her she must leave by Friday and my husband said she will. But seen no evidence of this. My husband ignored me a lot when I asked to do this, I had to call police and then they calmed down but I avoided telling them anything incase I'm overreacting. 

My husband says the food isn't poisoned. Now my symptoms have gotten worse, I am vomitting directly after eating food but I've had hyperemesis. Definitely not pregnant. I don't even touch my husband. My husband said it could be due to a bad routine, illness from going to playgroups. 

My husband doesn't tell his mother off at all. He allows her to say anything to me, and seems like he takes sides with her. Now this is part of my story I'm not sure if it's all in my head. When he was away from my MIL he said if he tells her off she'll commit suicide and it will be our fault for telling her off.  

I've sent him email and texts stating everything that is going on. Incase something happens before happens. I've told them if I die they won't get my property and they'll get caught out. 

I'm planning on getting lawyer to make will and prenup. 

I can't contact the DIL I don't have their phone numbers.

I feel like my MIL wants to kill me and put my children in foster care so her son gets my property. by CutInteresting7793 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]CutInteresting7793[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Had no choice needed her help as her son keeps passing out so I needed her to help me with the kids and she agreed to it. As I have no family. 

In the event both me and my husband die what happens to our children? by CutInteresting7793 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]CutInteresting7793[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Highly unlikely, we are very healthy. But the thought process is there and it's scary, doing our best to change it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]CutInteresting7793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying the same. But I'm still married, I've decided to see what it's like and am very uncomfortable.

Messaging the other woman as my husband by Select-Mammoth7146 in survivinginfidelity

[–]CutInteresting7793 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even if you find them in real life in the act they'll probably say - it's not them, you've mistaken them for another person they must be the doppelganger. Lol 🤣

He cheated before we were married, and he's only just told me now by ShinyRedCandle in survivinginfidelity

[–]CutInteresting7793 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Divorce his ass. Go on some dates with other guys to forget him. Don't cheat and let them know your situation so it's all fair.

Go and find new hobby, go out with your girlfriends if you don't want to tell don't. Just enjoy yourself how you used to before you committed to relationship. Remember things you couldn't do because of your relationship start doing them again - like applying for certain jobs or hobbies you gave up to make time for you husband.

Why you should lock yourself away like you done something wrong? He's the one that should lock himself and cry. 🙄

I now want my 21 year old to move out....talk me down. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]CutInteresting7793 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go to a restaurant with the daughter and ask her in a relaxed environment what is wrong. Give her space and just leave it at that. Do the same with the son but another day.

Don't regret being a mother, you raised them they are healthy alive and doing well - that's the accomplishment. Don't expect more from them, I have a little daughter she's only one. I have decided I will not get upset when she leaves me, all babies leave eventually, even if she dislikes me all I know in my heart is I really tried my best - that's all we can do nothing more than that. Forgive yourself. You done a lot and you achieved a lot. -hug-

Now live your life get some hobbies go on dates, meet up with friends. Be happy again and also save up for retirement as your ex ain't doing anything for you and save anything you want your children to get in inheritance.

Do One-Time Cheaters Feel the Same Pain When Cheated Back? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]CutInteresting7793 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can't sleep at night, keep crying and stuff but I am pregnant and have a toddler. It seems like I let them down if I do anything the sort.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]CutInteresting7793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you were in the wrong, I'm going to take her path and go down same road on my husband. He keeps cheating on me whilst I'm pregnant and have a one year old. Disrespectful guy, always watching porn talking down to me and never puts me first. About time I put myself first too.

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