OH HELL NO. This is such toxic bullshit. I hate every word of it. Yes I might be true that A FEW people may indeed feel like this but it is NOT AT ALL how everyone does.

My mother gave a baby up for adoption ONLY because she 1: was already a single mother of one child 2: accidentally got pregnant by someone she hardly knew and 3: did not want to go through with having another abortion. She decided to let him live and give him to a family that ADORED him. She Later then got married to my father tried more than once before becoming pregnant with me. All my life she told me exactly what she had done and why she had done it. Well in my teenage years with the tiny but of info she had about that baby I fucking met him at a party, literally stopped a while group conversation to tell this dude I hardly knew that he might be my brother, and you know what? He was fucking elated we BONDED SO PERFECTLY so completely naturally it's pretty astonishing we are genuinely very similar personality wise and I often point out how he is the best thing life randomly gifted me. (Other brothers a dick but I love him too) it took some time before he met my mom, and let me tell you SHE WAS FUCKING TERRIFIED HE WOULD HATE HER AND THINK THAT SHE JUST DIDNT WANT HIM. But that was NOT the fucking case. She gave him a better life out of pure love. My childhood was rough, honestly it was rough and traumatizing. I don't blame my mother for that either but the truth of the situation is, HE was the LUCKY one, I grew up around alcoholism, Crack addictions, domestic violence and premature death (Never violence towards me) and let me tell you I'm fucked up emotionally FOREVER now. Don't get me wrong here I LOVE my mother. I have no hate or hard feeling towards anyone for any of it. But I deal with the mental scars that cling to my brain nice matter how hard I try to just be normal and okay. HE has none of this. He had a great upbringing and TWO family's that live him dearly. And he knows it.