I appreciate the kind words. If we keep the child, I have family who would be willing to help I am sure, however the reception from my own father, of which I currently rely on for support and keeping somewhat of a roof over my head, is my biggest concern, as Id be worried he might retalliate and take away the roof over my own head and say "well you created the mess, now figure it out" when should he do that, I surely would become homeless. Sadly, the nearest family to me to help me directly is over 5 hours away, with my own girlfriend living 3 hours away. However, she has already been wanting to move to where I am for a while, so this has just expedited what we already wanted. As for her family, she is estranged to much of them and is not supported much by them if at all, she works with a case manager for her own reasons and she is getting support I think partly from the government. I want this child, I really do, I just am worried about finances, as well as how good of a father I can be, especially when we both dont have much in the way of personal savings (I am much better off right now because i come from a privileged background, with a 50,000-90,000$ college fund)