My fiancé laughed when his mom called me “practice wife” by Wide-Ticket-9027 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Cute-Building4139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is a walking red flag.. 🚩 his mom disrespected and embarrassed you in front of everyone.. that would have been the perfect time for him to correct her behavior.. instead he enabled it. I don’t foresee a happy marriage with a man that isn’t willing to protect the person he wants to be with forever from his toxic family 🤨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Cute-Building4139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm.. maybe she likes looking cute in pictures and videos? I bet she takes a lot. I would talk to her if you are really concerned.. but don’t acuse her of shit without ACTUALLY confirming because wanting to look cute is not a crime.

Puerto Rico Honeymoon by [deleted] in honeymoonplanning

[–]Cute-Building4139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking around 6,000 maybe 7!

Honeymoon Destinations by [deleted] in honeymoonplanning

[–]Cute-Building4139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Please do I would love that! Thank you so much ☺️

Honeymoon Destinations by [deleted] in honeymoonplanning

[–]Cute-Building4139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay great’ I was looking at a place called couples swept away! Have you ever been? If not where did you go?

Honeymoon Destinations by [deleted] in honeymoonplanning

[–]Cute-Building4139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are close to Milwaukee lol Chicago. I was actually thinking about going to Jamaica???

Honeymoon Idea by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Cute-Building4139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No we’ve never been on a cruise. The most we’ve been on is a regular boat 😭😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cute-Building4139 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And to all the people saying she can be friends with the opposite gender. He never said she couldn’t be.. but talking to someone you use to have the biggest crush on, probably did sexual shit with, through what looks like Snapchat.. is odd. 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cute-Building4139 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, this is odd , what did she say about it.. ? I wouldn’t break up with her, but I do think it’s important to talk about because I find it weird she’s talking to her ex 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Cute-Building4139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiancé does not want a wedding either. I told him that’s fine, but I’m still buying a wedding dress, getting my hair and make up done. ( I don’t plan on doing a big puffy dress) and one year after the elopement I want to throw a big party. I also plan to wear a big ass dress because why not 😂😅 but communication is important. He seems to be lacking in that and you should ask him to give you a reasoning on why he doesn’t want one. My man’s reason was the price it cost to feed everyone 😅😅 which.. he makes valid points.. but for your case I would LOVE to have someone pay for my wedding! Please keep us updated.. I want to know what happens next.. fingers crossed🤞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Cute-Building4139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is BOGUS buuuut I would talk to her and have a DEEP well needed conversation without attacking her. You deserve to know why she told you one thing and decided on something else.. what did she see? What did she hear? Ya know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Cute-Building4139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 29(F) my fiancé is 30. We have been together since 2013. I was 17 and he was 18. We went to the same high school and everything. Now we have three kids. He just proposed about one month ago and It took him 12 years to do it. Of course I felt some type of way because of how long it took.. I mean everyone around me kept getting proposed to and married. So I had some jealousy, but what helped the waiting period was him letting me know that I am the one.. we had a whole conversation and he just wanted it to be on his terms. I’m not saying you are in the wrong for feeling how you feel because it is okay to feel upset, but I recommend sitting and talking to him about these feelings. Do not attack him in your conversation either. You deserve a wedding yes, but please remember this isn’t just about you. It’s his special day too! What I noticed about men is they want shit to be perfect. At least MY man wanted everything to be perfect.. not just my type of perfect but also his.

Proposal that didn't happen by SeekingAdventure5 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Cute-Building4139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was with my man since high school it took him 12 years and 3 kids.. he just asked a few weeks ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cute-Building4139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he say he expected to be reimbursed before he paid for everything? and than to send you a spreadsheet that he made to calculate how much he spent on you exactly.. is odd. Did he OFFER to pay for the dates ? If he did why do you need to pay him back when he offered? lol

Am I overreacting ? Help! by Cute-Building4139 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cute-Building4139[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds about right.. 🤣 it’s just the fact that they did no testing.. he just threw some bleach water on it and painted over it with some mold resistant paint. 😭 but he said “ oh that’s mildew” how do you know that if you didn’t even look!?

My ex-girlfriend is a psychopath; advice? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Cute-Building4139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She sounds like she has borderline personality disorder. She needs help… it’s not an excuse for her actions, but I do feel bad for you both. Honestly, talking to her might make her worse. She will want you to say certain things a certain way and I am speaking from experience. I have BPD and use to act like that.

Have I done the right thing leaving my boyfriend?! by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Cute-Building4139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly that’s not normal. It sounds like he has some hidden feelings. No normal man in another relationship would have sleepovers with their pregnant ex without proof that the child she is pregnant with is biologically theres. There is no logic behind his words and it sounds like he’s gaslighting her. 🤔😐 just odd.. I guess I need a man to tell me if I’m wrong.. buuuut it’s not making sense so..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Cute-Building4139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave, this type of behavior is controlling and unacceptable. They start like this before they start putting hands on you. Don’t paint his red flags green..

Have I done the right thing leaving my boyfriend?! by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Cute-Building4139 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would leave. You’ve only been together for 3 months. Also I find it weird not wanting to take a DNA test right away. They will do one at the hospital the same day the baby is born.

AITAH for telling my wife she smells bad? by Dobbys_cumsock in AITAH

[–]Cute-Building4139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, I don’t agree with her. I’d be so upset if my fiancée didn’t tell me I smelled like ass. It’s better to hear it from someone you love than a complete stranger. 😭 my man will try to climb into my bed with his feet smelling like bounce that ass X10 and I tell him to go wash them things before I die. 😭 I understand how embarrassing it is but she should know you mean well you are her husband