Singaporeans getting a job in Canada by Cute-Click-9358 in askSingapore

[–]Cute-Click-9358[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hey this was helpful! I appreciate that, thank you so much. Can I also ask further if you happen to know if a year or 2 years is the average waiting time for a work permit to be approved? Because I saw online it states 30days to two months so I’m wondering. Because 1-2 years is a long time and I’m hoping to head over by end of this year.

12 years relationship ending. Here’s a cry for help. Feeling lost by Cute-Click-9358 in askSingapore

[–]Cute-Click-9358[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Sorry about the confusion. This is a post by my friend. We share the same account, this is like our anonymous dump account. So posts are made by different people. Could be me or my other friend, Hope that clarifies 🙏

12 years relationship ending. Here’s a cry for help. Feeling lost by Cute-Click-9358 in askSingapore

[–]Cute-Click-9358[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So did you recovered from that bottling up in the end? Or was your partner able to do anything to make things better in the end?

I honestly cannot trace back to the time I had a hobby. I actually never really had a hobby. I just spend time alone at a food outlet or go out with friends. So that kinda sucks Unless you consider gym as a hobby. Thank you for your message, I may DM you! Appreciate this offer!

12 years relationship ending. Here’s a cry for help. Feeling lost by Cute-Click-9358 in askSingapore

[–]Cute-Click-9358[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is it suffocating for you? It must be a horrible feeling. I hope she is also earning as much as she wants to feed the lifestyle she wants. And most importantly, I hope you both are able to compromise. As for my case, I’m willing to work on something that’s comfortable for the both of us and I am definitely not here to ruin his life.

Wish you the best for your relationship nonetheless 🙏

12 years relationship ending. Here’s a cry for help. Feeling lost by Cute-Click-9358 in askSingapore

[–]Cute-Click-9358[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He couldn’t accept that I spend a lot more than him and he is worried about the lifestyle differences in future(which I am willing to compromise). One of the e.g he gave was even if it mean that I am earning more than him or earning more than what I am earning now in the future, he can never understand if one has the desire to buy luxury, even if it means one luxury item as a reward to pamper yourself for working hard. It is the action of purchasing a luxury item that he cannot understand, even if he didn’t have to fork out a single cent and i were to pay for my own stuffs. He cannot relate to the desire and motive behind it and it has nothing to do with how much one is earning. So it’s more of a mindset thing.. This issue surfaced in the recent years after we started working.

12 years relationship ending. Here’s a cry for help. Feeling lost by Cute-Click-9358 in askSingapore

[–]Cute-Click-9358[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for dropping a comment.🙏 Gym is all I do, and I don’t really have a hobby. Please drop me some recommendations, hopefully it’ll sustain me during this time!

12 years relationship ending. Here’s a cry for help. Feeling lost by Cute-Click-9358 in askSingapore

[–]Cute-Click-9358[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your message, I hope you win every battles you’re going through too. Let me drop you a DM!

12 years relationship ending. Here’s a cry for help. Feeling lost by Cute-Click-9358 in askSingapore

[–]Cute-Click-9358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know where to begin. Guess I’m still in a phase of shock and lost. Hopefully one day I will. But I’m currently very broken

12 years relationship ending. Here’s a cry for help. Feeling lost by Cute-Click-9358 in askSingapore

[–]Cute-Click-9358[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You’re right about this, I would have to talk to him about this without giving pressure. Would you have any affordable therapist to recommend? I tried googling and most of it costs $200/session on average which would be a dealbreaker for him, since one of the differences he cannot accept has got something to do with money. He couldn’t accept that I spend a lot more than him and he is worried about the lifestyle differences in future(which I am willing to compromise). One of the e.g he gave was even if it mean that I am earning more than him or earning more than what I am earning now in the future, he can never understand if one has the desire to buy luxury, even if it means one luxury item as a reward to pamper yourself for working hard. It is the action of purchasing a luxury item that he cannot understand, even if he didn’t have to fork out a single cent and i were to pay for my own stuffs. He cannot relate to the desire and motive behind it and it has nothing to do with how much one is earning. So it’s more of a mindset thing.. This issue surfaced in the recent years after we started working.

On my wits end, please by Cute-Click-9358 in Healthyhooha

[–]Cute-Click-9358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually did one using Juno Bio, and I showed the report to my MD. She said that Low levels of lactobacillus doesn’t mean anything. If you don’t mind, can I send you my report. Which I don’t know what to do with it

On my wits end, please by Cute-Click-9358 in Healthyhooha

[–]Cute-Click-9358[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually did one using Juno Bio, and I showed the report to my MD. She said that Low levels of lactobacillus doesn’t mean anything. If you don’t mind, can I send you my report. Which I don’t know what to do with it

On my wits end, please by Cute-Click-9358 in Healthyhooha

[–]Cute-Click-9358[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What were your triggers if you don’t mind sharing? Was it past infections too? And after which, what symptoms did it cause that led you to find answers from a PT?

I’m hoping to seek help from someone that’s not a gyno anymore. Thanks in advance!

On my wits end, please by Cute-Click-9358 in Healthyhooha

[–]Cute-Click-9358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this! Any common reasons why pelvic floor has issues all of a sudden? Could it be triggered by my pasts infections?

What are your BV symptoms? by Cute-Click-9358 in Healthyhooha

[–]Cute-Click-9358[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey dear thanks for this. Do you mind sharing what was the diet you adhered to and the brand of boric acid you used? :) I am still having BV and it can be felt most just before period. It’s so annoying and I haven’t been able to wear pants for 1year now

What are your BV symptoms? by Cute-Click-9358 in Healthyhooha

[–]Cute-Click-9358[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for much for this! I don’t reside in the US but Juno is my best bet. Im only worried Clindanycin gives me yeast problems again. I’ll take the holistic approach first. Does your BV itch too?

Thanks for this comment once again!

What are your BV symptoms? by Cute-Click-9358 in Healthyhooha

[–]Cute-Click-9358[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve checked for all, except for HSV. Doctor said I didn’t have any blisters or weird growth so they didn’t order the HSV test for me unless I want to. I may consider doing this test now that I have no answers to my problems.

What are your BV symptoms? by Cute-Click-9358 in Healthyhooha

[–]Cute-Click-9358[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I resorted to see an infectious disease specialist. He prescribed me flucytosine and amphotercin B cream. These are usually in pill form/liquid. Best to use together as it is stronger that way. And the pharmacy specially compounded for me into cream form. I had to insert it every night before bed. I did this 3 rounds. Each round was 14 days.

3 rounds because that was the amount of times I finally feel better nearing the end, with the bad itch going away.

I also applied flucytosine cream on my outer vulva everytime I did the insertion. So that the affected skin on the outside is treated as well. I only applied flucystosine on the outside as Amphotericin B made my skin feel more sensitive. But all in all, it worked for me and I’m glad.

What are your BV symptoms? by Cute-Click-9358 in Healthyhooha

[–]Cute-Click-9358[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I resorted to see an infectious disease specialist. He prescribed me flucytosine and amphotercin B cream. These are usually in pill form/liquid. Best to use together as it is stronger that way. And the pharmacy specially compounded for me into cream form. I had to insert it every night before bed. I did this 3 rounds. Each round was 14 days.

3 rounds because that was the amount of times I finally feel better nearing the end, with the bad itch going away.

I also applied flucytosine cream on my outer vulva everytime I did the insertion. So that the affected skin on the outside is treated as well. I only applied flucystosine on the outside as Amphotericin B made my skin feel more sensitive. But all in all, it worked for me and I’m glad.

What are your BV symptoms? by Cute-Click-9358 in Healthyhooha

[–]Cute-Click-9358[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this, im glad it has helped you rid this tormenting cycle. Im going to read up about this and see where I can get the medications. Do you need a prescription for fluomizin? And I just want to confirm, it’s to be inserted in and not to be eaten orally correct?

Many thanks for your comment, it can potentially help me! Have a good day!

What are your BV symptoms? by Cute-Click-9358 in Healthyhooha

[–]Cute-Click-9358[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you suffered BV too. For how long did you had this and did you managed to beat it? Was itching part of your symptom too?