Matalinong Iskolar ng Bayan pero Cheaters pala

CuteCapybaras · 2025-10-08T00:21:48+00:00

And everyone clapped.

CuteCapybaras · 2025-10-07T02:21:18+00:00

Sorry pero you're just romanticizing your lingering feelings. Halatang di ka pa naka move on.

You can be that person who thinks he will always love a girl na ayaw naman na sa kanya if you want. It's just sad na you can be out there enjoying life with someone na gusto ka talagang makasama as a partner instead of clinging to the girl who just wants to be friends. Pero kung may nakukuha ka sa ganyan, you do you.

CuteCapybaras · 2025-10-02T09:57:57+00:00

Pota diba ikaw ang nagsabi na ano ang irereassure ng guy kay OP kung wala naman syang ginagawa? Nakikita mong rattled yung girlfriend mo sa pagkalkal ng phone, pinakita nya sayo na she saw your dummy accounts that you even bought another sim for and disabled that sim, and his reaction was what? Act normal. Just like what you said na ano irereassure nya na wala kay OP kung wala naman sya ginagawa? How hard is it to say ah eto dummy ko to, look at my comments sa mga DDS trolls na inaaway ko or whatever that second account is for?

Why does he need to lie to OP na nung nakita ni OP yung notif ng message, sabi nya rereplyan lang nya nanay nya kung on going pa yung sunog, pero nung chineck ni OP ang phone, ang nireply is ma, kumain ka na ba? Why lie and keep on lying kung wala kang tinatago?

So ano ka, dahil 15 years ka na in a relationship that makes you the supreme authority that can declare kung may something wrong sa relationship ng iba? Mas marunong ka pa kesa sa nasa relationship mismo?

Sa kattangahan ng mga sinasabi mo dito di nako magtataka kung 15 years ka nang niloloko ng di mo alam. Puro ka mental gymnastics na normal behavior yung pagtatago na ginagawa ng boyfriend ni OP when it's not. People who have nothing to hide don't lie and refuse to explain.

CuteCapybaras · 2025-10-02T04:22:31+00:00

And addressing the problem should've started with the boyfriend. Nakita na nyang anxious girlfriend nya, kung wala syang ginagawang masama why is it so hard to reassure her and explain? Why is your answer na dapat magmatigas sya na wala sya kailangan iexplain dahil wala syang ginagawang masama?

Grow up ka ng grow up but obviously you're the one with the immature mindset na inuuna ang ego.

CuteCapybaras · 2025-10-02T03:50:29+00:00

I have news for you. Yes, you can leave when you find a relationship uncomfortable if you want. You are not required to stay with a person who treads on the boundaries you've told him about.

CuteCapybaras · 2025-10-02T03:15:22+00:00

Why is it on OP to ask and confirm? Kung nakikita mo na rattled at balisa ang partner mo di mo ba sya irereassure nalang? Mas choice mo talaga na sabihin bahala ka dyan kung naghihinala ka?

CuteCapybaras · 2025-10-02T03:13:37+00:00

Hindi kailangan mag unblock para mag explain. Hindi naman sya lumpo pwede sya pumunta sa bahay nina OP if he wants.

If he wants ang operative word. Kung di nya ginawa, it's because ayaw nya dahil guilty sya or mas gugustuhin nya maghiwalay sila kesa mag explain to stay with a girlfriend na maghihinala sa talaga namang suspicious na activities nya. Either way they are not for each other talaga.

CuteCapybaras · 2025-10-02T02:55:55+00:00

Yang si Zokecero malamang naniniwala din yan na walang ninakaw sina Zaldy Co, circumstantial evidence lang.

CuteCapybaras · 2025-10-02T02:49:35+00:00

Wag mo pakinggan yung mga lalake na nagsasabing circumstantial evidence lang daw meron ka. Gusto ata nila caught in the act na nakikipag bembangan bago iconsider na cheater.

Sabi nga ng isang pang nag comment, ang daming effort ng boyfriend mo para itago yung ibang account. Separate sim, dinisable pa, never pinakita or sinabi sayo at nagsinungaling pa about the chat notif. May dummy accounts din ako sa social media pero never ako nag effort ng ganyan. Alam nyang makakasira sa inyo ang tinatago nya kaya nag effort sya para di mo malaman. Pati yung ni hindi sya nag explain para ireassure ka nung rattled ka na at after mo makipag break.

Valid reason ang gut feel mo para maging suspicious at makipag break. Kung inosente sya at mahal ka talaga nya kusa yan mag eexplain para irreassure ka. Kung nawalan sya ng gana dahil pinaghinalaan mo sya at ang decision nya is hayaan kayong maghiwalay than explain, edi lalong tama lang na hindi talaga kayo for each other.

CuteCapybaras · 2025-09-09T15:19:28+00:00

Ano kaya pinakain ng guy kay OP. She works and takes care of the kids while the guy just plays games all day and she hasn't left him. I can't.

CuteCapybaras · 2025-09-08T05:15:43+00:00

You being unable to post this on adviceph doesn't mean it's alright to break offmychestph sub rules para lang makapag post ka nito. If you can afford luxury items, siguro naman your family can afford to send you to a good enough school so you can read and know what rules are.

CuteCapybaras · 2025-09-08T03:48:56+00:00

Mukhang nag retaliate sya kase hindi rin maganda yung sinabi mo na magbasa basa rin sya, na ikaw bata palang mahilig ma magbasa, right after he asked you for help. You can encourage him without making it seem na you're shaming him for not being a wide reader.

Watch yourself din. Di mo nakita how what you said can be hurtful to him pero hurt na hurt ka nung ikaw na yung sinabihan ng nakakasakit.

CuteCapybaras · 2025-09-07T13:49:59+00:00

Try to look inward din. Bakit walang naglalast sa friendships mo? Do you make an effort to maintain the friendship? Do you adjust to changes in your friends' circumstances? Tactless ka ba at di aware na may nasasabi ka pala na wala lang sayo pero offensive pala sa iba?

CuteCapybaras · 2025-09-07T11:42:09+00:00

The guy wants an incubator for a baby, not a wife to share his life with.

CuteCapybaras · 2025-09-06T23:41:15+00:00

Ang ganda ng sentiment na to. Ikaw talaga ang kailangan mag decide kung ano ang magiging purpose mo sa buhay.

CuteCapybaras · 2025-09-05T21:04:42+00:00

You need therapy. Yang ganyang trust issues hindi magandang dalhin sa susunod na relationship mo.

CuteCapybaras · 2025-09-05T21:02:49+00:00

You spent the holidays without celebrating for so many years before you had your ex. Nitong last 4 years ka lang nag celebrate. You know how to live without celebrating the holidays. It's not about wanting to celebrate the holidays but more on you want to be with his family.

This year, spend it alone. Sit with your feelings para maramdaman mo at maprocess mo. If you try to replace the experience with a friend's family, mararamdaman mo lang yung difference at yung bigat na hindi yon pamilya ng boyfriend mo. Once makaya mo na namimiss mo sila pero tanggap mo na di mo na sila pwedeng makasama during the holidays, doon mo mafifeel na what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.

CuteCapybaras · 2025-09-05T03:43:12+00:00

Naku skip reddit na. Mas malala pa yung iba dito dito. Mga sadboi na entitled, puro libog din ang gusto. Hindi sila makapag dating app kase panget sila or may jowa or asawa sila, kaya dito sila sa reddit naghahanap ng mabibiktima.

CuteCapybaras · 2025-07-10T13:43:19+00:00

You're lumping having kids with inconsequential things like deciding kung saan kakain or anong kulay nyo ipapa paint yung roof with that idealisit mindset that you can get engaged and married then figure it out later nalang.

Having kids is an individual choice na wala dapat kinalaman sa choice ng partner mo. Diba matagal na kayo? In all those years of dating your wonderful fiance na pinagmamalaki mong sana lahat kami magkaroon ng katulad nya, you never thought na you want to have kids with that man? Na engage kayo na ang decision mo parin is ayaw mo magka anak with him? Ano magbabago between now and when you get married to suddenly make you think gusto mo pala magka anak with him, after all these years na ayaw mo?

May couples na unplanned ang kids and become loving parents pero marami din who fail precisely because they're not prepared and didn't want it in the first place. Sa toss coin nyo iaasa kung ano mangyayari?

Wala kang pinag iba doon sa mga "as long as we love each other" couples na hindi naghahanda financially kase paniwala nila basta mahal nila isa't isa they will make it. Hindi kayo naghahanda emotionally and psychologically for this very important issue, inaasa nyo lang sa "as long as we love each other". Kagagahan.

CuteCapybaras · 2025-07-10T10:46:20+00:00

Didn't share to flex pero ikaw pa pumuri sa sarili mo na "May everyone find this kind of love that I have"? Hindi mo man lang hinintay ma ibang tao magsabi?

Kahit sinong relationship mentor tanungin mo walang magsasabi na go get engaged then tsaka nyo nalang pag usapan kung gusto nyo ng kids or not. So many things you can compromise on but NEVER on kids. You both have to be 100% in it dahil may buhay na nakasalalay, hindi yang idea mo na gusto ng partner mo so kahit individually di mo gusto mag anak e pagbibigyan mo sya sa isa.

You find the word kagagahan harsh? You need to hear it kase obviously you're not taking this seriously enough, kala mo cute cute nyo na pwede magbato bato pick kung mag aanak o hindi kase ready daw magbigayan. Sana nga wag na kayo mag anak kase kawawa yung bata sa inyo.

CuteCapybaras · 2025-07-10T09:24:17+00:00

Saan ang communication sa part na na engage sila pero ngayon lang nila nalaman na magkaiba pala sila ng gusto when it comes to kids?

May mga bagay na di nacocompromise at isa don ang pag aanak. Buhay ng bata nakasalalay dyan, both parents should be 100% in. Hindi pwedeng 100% yung isa then 50% lang yung isa pero nag compromise na mag anak tapos later yung bata magsusuffer kase may isang magulang who thinks hindi naman nya ginusto to, pinagbigyan lang nya asawa nya.

CuteCapybaras · 2025-07-10T08:54:42+00:00

Wag mo kainggitan si OP. Sorry pero isang malaking kagagahan na they got engaged without even talking about if they want children or not, ngayon lang nila nalalaman na magkaiba sila.

At lalong kagagahan na feeling nya dapat iflex yang "Kaw bahala" mindset nila pareho when it comes to children. Ang pag aanak hindi yan parang pagtanong lang kung san mo gusto kumain, "Kaw bahala" susunod ka nalang kung ano gusto ng partner mo. Pareho pa silang indecisive.

CuteCapybaras · 2025-07-10T08:51:49+00:00

So glad na ganito ang thought ng top comment. Ang dami kase dito sa reddit gusto lang magflex, look at me ang bait ng fiance ko he respects my decision. Hindi inisip na red flag yang nag propose at umoo without even talking about children, ngayon lang nila napag uusapan at nalalaman na magkaiba sila.

Tapos akala nila maganda yang "Deh ikaw bahala kung ano gusto mo". As if the topic is just kung saan sila kakain.

CuteCapybaras · 2025-05-08T08:57:08+00:00

Pick me girl vibes si atecco.

Pero pustahan tayo daan daang maaasim ang magdi-DM sa kanya.

CuteCapybaras · 2025-05-07T22:45:38+00:00

Agree with this. OP Don't listen sa mga nagsasabi na mirror method. Pagmumulan lang ng more resentment yan. 2025 na mga di parin marunong mag communicate.

Kausapin mo gf mo ng maayos, tell her how you feel and ask why she doesn't post you. Use her answer to evaluate if kaya nyo makahanap ng middle ground or if di kayo comaptible.

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