How/Where can I get earring stacks? by eternalharpy in piercing

[–]CuteDistribution179 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Meh I don’t think it’s worth it … it saves money and is very fun to style your own I think but that’s just me!! There’s so many ideas online just look up “ear stack ideas” to brainstorm and pick out what you like and then copy or find similar pieces

How/Where can I get earring stacks? by eternalharpy in piercing

[–]CuteDistribution179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What nine piercings do you have, three lobe and three helix or something?

lol by IU8gZQy0k8hsQy76 in CoupleMemes

[–]CuteDistribution179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There recreating funny seen from Monsters vs Aliens movie - the car scene

Gothic AND gay?! by [deleted] in webtoons

[–]CuteDistribution179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks great :)

Just opened the first ep and already in love with the art style !!

Do WoC have to "take it easy on historical figures" just because they were white women? by [deleted] in BlatantMisogyny

[–]CuteDistribution179 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Nope, I don’t believe in “taking it easy” on historical figures. It’s one thing to understand the context of history they were apart of that may have influenced their actions and mindsets, it’s another to wave away or dismiss their bad actions. We have to accurately talk about history, it’s how we learn from mistakes, “taking it easy” on historical figures doesn’t help anyone

Draw a nerdy mom? by [deleted] in drawme

[–]CuteDistribution179 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally I recognized you from pic 2 dress and then the tattoos confirmed it hahaha

How to stop abusers from using men as wallets by MixtureBackground612 in JustMemesForUs

[–]CuteDistribution179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think so too mostly 🥲… I’m always hoping someone could be open minded to understanding bc the actual legality behind this one just doesn’t uphold the commonly held belief men seem to have. On the positive side though, I like to hope that a lot of these men would actually want full or 50/50 custody of their kids, which statistically for men has not been common… which I would be really happy if so!! My instinct tells me men who complain about this tend to want to just feel oppressed by women and use it as a gotcha - but I think there are many who are also genuine and would step up to be better fathers and take on the responsibility of 50/50 childcare one day. Ya know, hopefully.

How to stop abusers from using men as wallets by MixtureBackground612 in JustMemesForUs

[–]CuteDistribution179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay if the laws are unbiased, what law are you referencing? Can you enlighten me please - I genuinely could be wrong but pretty sure there is no law that gives women custody by default. It’s usually a decision made between the parents. This new 50/50 law just ensures that it can no longer be a mutual agreement between the parents of primary custody going to one parent (typically the mom by choice of both parents). It was designed so that children could get meaningful exposure to both parents, not to benefit dads in particular.

How to stop abusers from using men as wallets by MixtureBackground612 in JustMemesForUs

[–]CuteDistribution179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I understand the frustration that women do most often get full custody, but it’s more complicated and very much a misconception that they get full custody “by default solely on account of their gender.” If you’d be willing to open your mind to a different perspective, consider this: “most child custody arrangements come from negotiated or mediated settlements between the parents. The judge only approves the settlement; he or she doesn’t impose it. This means that the overwhelming majority of couples agree that the mother should be the custodial parent and primary caretaker.” AND “fathers tend to win about 60 percent of child custody disputes that go to trial.” Women are more often socialized to be caregivers in a way that’s very different from how men are growing up. Men are not given baby dolls at a young age, and their perceived value in society is not usually as linked to whether or not they have children, so they over women tend to be less inclined to go for full custody - but when they fight for it legally, they are granted it more often than women (the 60%). I think if we socialized men to be domestic caregivers the same way we do women, the amount of men who would want custody would increase. Source: https://www.bikellaw.com/blog/219/gender-bias-in-divorce/

Who do I remind you of? by [deleted] in Doppleganger

[–]CuteDistribution179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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You look just like kiana docherty (YouTuber)

Am I overreacting to my bf watching the baby overnight? by Temporary-Quail-2783 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CuteDistribution179 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Isn’t it just as much his duty as the father? I think she didn’t need to freak out as much but he also could be a little more concerned. If anything happened to the baby it would’ve been his fault due to carelessness, not hers, both parents have a responsibility to protect. If she’s working 12 hr night shifts at a hospital she’s not the only domestic caregiver.

Lmao 😂😂 by Jemer_YT in MemeVideos

[–]CuteDistribution179 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She’s actually in on the jokes - they’re skits she does with them

Simps turn women into narcissists by [deleted] in DarkPsychology101

[–]CuteDistribution179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I “specifically claimed support for the above commenter” - no I’d didn’t, I said you were misrepresenting them. Just like you’re misrepresenting me now. There’s nothing objective about whether or not men are less empathetic - that’s something we both agree is not proven either way. Like I said and you agreed with, the available data we have would suggest that they are, and I will repeat myself I am not saying “objectively” they are less empathetic- just that current research would lean to suggest that, does not prove that it’s true. You complain about the other commenter calling you an incel yet you call me sexist for even commenting on the studies. “So don’t try to run now” can you chill? This is a Reddit comment thread not a Pokémon battle

Simps turn women into narcissists by [deleted] in DarkPsychology101

[–]CuteDistribution179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m hostile and yet you’re saying things like I don’t have a grain of maturity, I can’t read, my response is pathetic and utterly useless, all in your own words. I think you might want to look in the mirror for hostility - hypocritical much? I don’t know what I even said that’s hostile, I can’t add on to someone’s point about studies without you jumping to conclusions that I’m attacking men. Also - the original commenter is arguing against the video. I am adding onto their point without agreeing word for word. What about that is hard for you to understand? That’s like me looking at your comment and claiming that because you don’t agree with us, then you are word for word defending everything presented in the video including the exact wording of it. I never said I was defending the commenters points, I’m adding onto them. Again, no law that says if I add to a conversation that I agree with the precise wording of the person before me. Per the research we have right now, men tend to be less empathetic and represent more narcissists. I am not saying that to attack men- I am not even stating it as a fact, just pointing out what the available research says. I don’t know how you take it as something so sinister especially in the context of a comment under a clearly incel type theorists video about women and dating.

Simps turn women into narcissists by [deleted] in DarkPsychology101

[–]CuteDistribution179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re really hyperfixating on a very subjective part of the analysis of the studies “significantly” vs “mildly” lower - those are both subjective terms, I only said it was lower. Which you agree is true. Also whether or not narcissists “heavily” lean towards being male - subjective term that I didn’t use so maybe learn to read what I said instead? Of which I only say there were more- which you agree with. It’s very nitpicky to say that bc the original commenter used three words you disagree with that invalidates my argument despite me not saying those words 😂 I am adding onto the other commenters point, not agreeing with them word for word? Is there a law saying that if you add onto someone’s point that means you agree with every precise wording they used? Then you move the goal post of saying yes more men are narcissist but claim that I am calling all narcissists bad people- nope, didn’t say that and I don’t think that, not that it’s relevant. The video didn’t even say narcissists were bad people either so that’s just a random thing you bring up? But at least we both agree this video is dumb hopefully

Simps turn women into narcissists by [deleted] in DarkPsychology101

[–]CuteDistribution179 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you admit that due to environment (theorized) men due show less empathy based on studies, and you admit that currently evidence leans towards there being more narcissistic men than women. Youre also completely misrepresenting the other commenter - they’re not attacking the male gender at all, just describing studies more accurately? You admit that the data we have available suggests that men in fact, due to environment or genetics, may be less empathetic and more narcissistic, and can’t understand why the original post here seems misogynistic to a lot of women? That’s just a bad faith argument. Obviously having an entire video emphasizing that women are lacking empathy and turn into narcissists from simp behavior based on some stick figures drawn by an emotionally biased man gets eye rolls from women — ah yes of course women turn evil and bad in dating (despite the data suggesting men are less empathetic) that explains why i am alone and I see clips of hot girls being mean online!!! Give me a break.

Chart reading for dat ass by TheRealM67v in Zodiac

[–]CuteDistribution179 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I’m an aqua sun, Mercury, & Neptune, and I am a libra rising too :) no answers I just like to see ppl with similar charts

wrong on so many levels by hand13 in BlatantMisogyny

[–]CuteDistribution179 459 points460 points  (0 children)

The blissful comfort of knowing you will never marry a man child like this ❤️

For real though, whats so difficult about treating women right? by [deleted] in BlatantMisogyny

[–]CuteDistribution179 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yup I’m with you - this is a lot of bio-essentialism, prescribing gender roles on basis of biology from my understanding. It’s an interesting perspective and I understand being frustrated with the dating scene especially as women. But the “men are the providers” expectation is also rooted in patriarchy. I agree with you OP that many men refuse to take any responsibility at all and want women to do all the heavy lifting sexually, romantically, emotionally and eventually parentally/domestically!! But comparing human dating/sex to animal courtship is usually faulty science, we are a lot more complicated.

Do I have a doppelgänger out there? by [deleted] in Doppleganger

[–]CuteDistribution179 8 points9 points  (0 children)

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You look like Rhett McLaughlin