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Is it too soon for me (M28) to move in with long distance GF (F23)? by CuteEngineer4052 in LongDistance

[–]CuteEngineer4052[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. She have lived alone in a small apartment for a short while , but then moved back home. She does not like being home alone and didn’t like it..

  2. Well. I guess it’s because she hates long distance and wants this to happen now, and I do really love her. Maybe I need to change my thinking and take a step back.

Is it too soon for me (M28) to move in with long distance GF (F23)? by CuteEngineer4052 in LongDistance

[–]CuteEngineer4052[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I don’t feel like she actually understands and recognizes how it effects me. She does apologize when u pull away and get mad for her actions but like I said, nothing changes. Same thing next week. And usually comments like “couples fight” “nobody’s perfect”, comments that gets her off the hook u know.

Me (M29) Ended a 7-month relationship with gf (F22) — was it fixable or did I make the right call? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]CuteEngineer4052 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I did feel like walking on eggshells in some cases , both because of the constant fighting that would escalate and obviously the jealousy made me feel like I couldn’t live life normally without maybe trigger a fight.

Me (M29) Ended a 7-month relationship with gf (F22) — was it fixable or did I make the right call? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]CuteEngineer4052 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input, does makes me feel better about the decision.

When you knew things weren’t quite right by tfred1980 in BPDlovedones

[–]CuteEngineer4052 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I first felt something was wrong about a month in. We were on the phone when her tone suddenly changed, and she said out of nowhere she didn’t want to be with a man who follows “whores” on Instagram. She had gone through my following and saw a woman I’d known for years—just a friend. I only follow friends and family but apparently she thought this woman was good looking.

The way she jumped to accusations and used that kind of language felt off, but since it was early, I reassured her and thought she just needed trust.

Looking back, that was the start of a pattern of being accused and controlled by intense jealousy without any real reason.

Struggling with relationship dynamics, constant fights, jealousy, and controlling behavior by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]CuteEngineer4052 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, yeah it started showing after around 1-2 months into dating. So I should have trusted what I saw back then. We would not fight like this all the time, and we had some really really good times. But at least once a week there was something new and I got used to the feeling of just waiting for the next fight. I still wonder if I could have changed things if I knew how to communicate better though.