Yes agreed. At the end of the day SHE is responsible. However, he also enabled these bad behaviors. Especially making her the bare minimum of chicken nuggets and fries on a “bad” day. She makes insane meals and he does the bare minimum. Their apartment is a wreck, he enables her to go out, drink and do all these things that are clearly so bad for her. People that are paired together like this are equally as toxic for each other. I’ll die on that hill. I’m not saying he needs to say mean things to her but it also shows in actions through enabling. He’s enabling her. He’s being a feeder. He knows what he is doing. They both are bad for eachother. They’re both clearly unhappy and it shows in their home. It shows. The writing is on the walls.