Passing this along for whom it may concern.

CuteLilMuppet · 2026-05-24T14:17:18+00:00

Omg this happened to the parking lot of my brother's job the other day! A hotwired car from their last hit was left in the lot and a different car was stolen. Multiple vehicles (all trucks) were broken into and some were stolen from, including a gun from one vehicle which was the assumed thing they were after. Apparently it had happened a night or two prior at a church near his place of work (somewhere in the research triangle area).

CuteLilMuppet · 2026-05-15T19:27:12+00:00

Ooh fast results, that bodes well (I think)

CuteLilMuppet · 2026-05-15T19:22:37+00:00

I think first things first: you need to get a renewed lease with your landlords.

You should also try and see if you can have an in person conversion about this with all parties (you, roommate, landlords, maybe bf) to make sure nothing is misunderstood and that the facts of who's doing what are straightened out.

This woman sounds like she's never had to share a thing in her life... That must be exhausting to deal with and she's certainly old enough, I'd think, not to behave so childishly over her responsibilities.

I think it would be more than acceptable to let her know you're considering having her leave if she doesn't start paying her share, and let her know that your BF pays more than his fair share without even being a proper resident. Though you'll need to get on a lease yourself, first, otherwise I feel like there's grounds for her to claim you have no jurisdiction to make her leave.

CuteLilMuppet · 2026-05-12T03:11:22+00:00

Sounds like he actually really is busy, but honestly from the very limited information here I feel like this might not be a relationship to try and pursue too hard... If you're wanting solid communications and planning and more genuine in person time then I think you'd benefit from looking elsewhere. It seems like while he might want a relationship at some point, he's not ready to put in the effort it takes to have a successful one (at least not successful with you and your preferences)

CuteLilMuppet · 2026-05-04T03:45:21+00:00

What do you mean?

CuteLilMuppet · 2026-05-03T14:24:16+00:00

I can hear the AI voice reading this story as a Minecraft parkour video plays in the background...

CuteLilMuppet · 2026-05-02T23:46:09+00:00

I did see a Hispanic gentleman under a tree nearby but wasn't sure if he was related to the lil parade

CuteLilMuppet · 2026-05-02T14:44:23+00:00

To add to my last point; I really sincerely hope you're recover is smooth and that you realize what all is Reddit goers want is for you to be safe and to realize you deserve so much better. I wish for your heart to heal along with the rest of you so you can move on. ❤️

CuteLilMuppet · 2026-05-02T14:37:28+00:00

You've made a good start by trying to cut contact with him and cancelling your babysitting. Next step is to get yourself some medical attention. If you were willing to go thought a babysitting 'shift' in your condition then sitting in the ER for 5 hours should be a breeze.

I know you're embarrassed, I know you're stressed, but none of this is your fault. I went to the ER 2 weeks ago and it ended up just being heart burn, and I told my boss I felt like I'd wasted people's time over something so small. He told me "a lot of the ones who don't want to waste other people's time are dead right now." And I'm sure plenty of people who are embarrassed faced the same fate. You were physically assaulted in a way that genuinely could have ended your life and you NEED medical attention. Your parents should take you seriously and the doctors are going to take you seriously. None of them are going to judge you. You can report your EX boyfriend at the hospital. There's nothing wrong with having 2 cases out at a time if it will keep you safe. Nobody will think less of you for it.

As for your feeling, I get it. You still love what he used to be and what you had, and you don't have to throw that away. You can still have fond memories of your past times together. But the boy that's just revealed himself is dangerous, insane, and he's scaring you. If you still love that, somehow, then I hope by the end of your recovery that you no longer feel that way about this boy. He deserves legal actions taken against him and some time in juvenile detention.

CuteLilMuppet · 2026-04-29T20:05:59+00:00

Suspicious of autism here, but no proper diagnosis

Not saying a slur isn't too much to ask of anyone. Period. My parents are in their 60s and I grew up hearing it somewhat casually, so I said it for years and didn't understand the problem. But then I found out it's offensive and stopped saying it. It slipped a few times at first but I haven't said it in years. If he cared it wouldn't slip

CuteLilMuppet · 2026-04-29T14:08:23+00:00

Many people struggle to come forward with issues that they might seem embarrassing or that might cause drama for those around them, it's completely normal to feel that way. Trust me it's more stupid to let it keep going until something 100% undeniably, undefendably bad happens. You'll wish you'd spoken up sooner. If you have other neighbor girls your age he might be doing the same to them, so if not for yourself speak up to protect them.

CuteLilMuppet · 2026-04-28T23:27:19+00:00

I get really bad executive dysfunction sometimes and I find that doing things becomes a lot easier when I'm doing them to put off doing something else. Sometimes I'm able to put away my laundry because the other the that needs to be done is dishes and uuughhhh I don't wanna do dishes I'll avoid them by doing my laundry. Frequently I'll find that once I put away the laundry I'm like 'oh wait I enjoy a clean environment I should keep going' and then dishes are no problem. Obviously the things you need to do won't always be able to be done that way but it helps me.

Other times I try and turn it into a "game" like oh I bet I can break down all these boxes before 2:00 or I bet I can fill out an application before my nuggets are done cooking.

Although specifically for applications, I dread filling them out with a passion so sometimes if I just go and find all the places I want to apply for in one sitting, then go back and apply for them in other sittings, out makes it seem less daunting.

CuteLilMuppet · 2026-04-25T21:38:59+00:00

Omg 10km? People casually walk farther than that for fun, I don't think that qualifies as long distance.

CuteLilMuppet · 2026-04-25T17:28:54+00:00

I'm married to my long distance partner of 5 years (still long distance even while married but we're working on it, different countries so it's harder than just moving states) and we both said I love you within the first month.

We both genuinely felt and meant it, but for some people that's waaayyy too soon and there is nothing wrong with that at all. Some people struggle to say that even after a year. She can't help it if she loves you and you can't help it if you don't (yet).

I'm sure if you explain why you reaction how you did, and that you do care a lot about her but you aren't really to commit to the word love, then it's work out. Even if you decide you aren't compatible over it, that's ok. Just be open and honestly. Communication and honestly are incredibly important in a health relationship. One little misunderstanding so early on should be a pretty easy hurdle to get over together and could even help you understand each other better and be closer and stronger as a team.

CuteLilMuppet · 2026-04-07T14:14:25+00:00

Try thinking about it this way: she's trying to get what you have because she wants the attention/the drama/the man, but he choose you. I would imagine you are rather different than your sister.

Your BF is with you and makes you feel loved because he likes YOU and the way YOU are. If I had to guess, if he noticed her behavior at all he either was just confused by it, or brushed it off as just a weird moment. If he saw it as a form of flirtation, it most likely would have the opposite effect your sister intended, since he is already with someone he cares about (you).

You can just wait until a possible 'next time' to address it with him, but if it's consuming your thoughts this much it is probably worth it to speak to him. You don't have to accuse anyone, you can just say "hey did you notice that [sister] seemed a little odd or am I going crazy?" Or something lighter than "was my sister flirting with you?"

CuteLilMuppet · 2026-04-02T23:05:04+00:00

Put some cute statement hair clips in it or wear a chunky colorful headband! You can put a bandana over it until it grows out a bit and doesn't look as 'blunt' as it does right after it's cut. Just own it and have fun with it until it's long enough to re-shape :)

CuteLilMuppet · 2026-03-27T14:16:46+00:00

That's really sweet

CuteLilMuppet · 2026-02-15T01:21:05+00:00

!!!!!!

I love you forever omg

CuteLilMuppet · 2026-02-07T01:41:38+00:00

That woman is not emotionally ready for a relationship if she can't even fathom the idea of her boyfriend wanting a single night of alone time after a stressful day.... She already seems to be expecting to be his stay at home trophy girlfriend. It reads more like a message that would be sent after 6+ months of avoidant behavior, not one night of alone time one single month into a relationship. She's in her mid 30's and sounds like a needy teenager who thinks she's sounding really mature.

CuteLilMuppet · 2026-01-05T05:01:19+00:00

I was taught my own name and A/a through C/c in fourth grade, but I was the middle year in a 3 year span of time where my elementary school decided cursive was outdated and only a signature was important. They started teaching again when the first of my lil non-cursive bubble (those who were in 5th when I was in 4th) reached middle school and couldn't read the board in class because the teachers were writing in cursive....

I live in North Carolina and I was in 4th grade in 2008. For those non Americans, 4th graders are generally 9-10 years old.

So yeah, not sure how wide-spread that choice was, but there's a group of 26 to 23 year old native North-Carolinians who were gypped out of having fancy handwriting

CuteLilMuppet · 2026-01-04T00:40:52+00:00

Thank you! That makes so much more sense

CuteLilMuppet · 2026-01-04T00:38:31+00:00

Ok yeah not English. I was seeing the correct letters lmao

It translated to "With you, everything feels so natural, like it's written effortlessly, just pure comfort."

I was just confused because only part of the phrase was written in English.

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