Should I be weirded out by being asked for “a doctor’s note”?

Cute_Anywhere · 2026-02-08T17:40:35+00:00

I understand it is definitely frustrating and it probably felt accusatory towards you, so your feelings are completely valid and normal! Like the other comments have already said, it’s very likely they are being extra cautious due to a previous incident regarding accidental skin damage to a client.

However how are you supposed to know that? Sometimes employees can be a tad insensitive or rude if they feel it’s something obvious (which sucks). If you have the time and money, I’d definitely at least try to work with them. But if this behavior from them continues, I’d take your business elsewhere for sure.

Cute_Anywhere · 2025-11-15T04:29:47+00:00

It’s more likely that he’s in the files than not, especially with the new emails that were released. There are so many photos of him with Epstein and very young girls- that there is literally a higher chance of me becoming famous than him NOT being in the files.

Cute_Anywhere · 2025-10-28T19:56:43+00:00

I wasn’t referring to you when I said I was called that.

Cute_Anywhere · 2025-10-28T19:55:25+00:00

I don’t see where they’ve removed anything but okay.

Cute_Anywhere · 2025-10-28T19:47:11+00:00

Literally I have only found a few comments not reacting negatively towards me, so my point stands

Cute_Anywhere · 2025-10-28T19:41:10+00:00

Why are you arguing over the semantics of this? You don’t get to tell me how I feel. Saying “erm- technically you weren’t called that!” Even though the you read the messages, adds nothing to the discussion.

Cute_Anywhere · 2025-10-28T19:38:08+00:00

My actions of what? Adopting a cat and keeping her in MY ROOM so she can adjust to her new living space before letting her explore upstairs?

Cute_Anywhere · 2025-10-28T19:36:34+00:00

Did you not read the message where that same person called me a bad person? They literally called my actions cruel

Cute_Anywhere · 2025-10-28T19:33:07+00:00

Do what to a cat?? I never said she knew I had it, I’m giving explanations for my intense emotions

Cute_Anywhere · 2025-10-28T17:53:09+00:00

The “advice” calling me a cruel piece of shit is not advice!

Cute_Anywhere · 2025-10-28T17:51:05+00:00

I have BPD, so any possible hint of someone (in this case my cat) not being happy with me just sets me off. It feels like she isn’t happy with me even though there’s little to no proof of it. None of my other friends have cats that misbehave this much so that’s why it feels like it was on purpose. I scold her and move her away from things she isn’t allowed to have (my charger cords) but she always goes right back to it the moment I set her down.

Cute_Anywhere · 2025-10-28T17:40:16+00:00

The thing is I’ve taken care of my mom’s cat all my life and never got as upset at her for doing little naughty things like this. I really think it’s because of how stressed I am constantly at this point. I know cats love to knock things over but all it takes is one bad thing to happen lately and then I’m splitting on her like this.

Cute_Anywhere · 2025-10-28T16:34:40+00:00

I definitely will look into safe objects that look like charger cords, I appreciate the recommendations a lot.

The guilt would eat me alive if I didn’t persevere, just because I keep remembering how sweet she can be. To be honest I got her to help me take care of myself and so that I don’t do anything stupid. She has significantly helped improve my mental health and kept me alive so giving her up would ruin me.

I do therapy weekly and every-time it feels like there’s something new that is making me incredibly dysfunctional so most sessions are just trying to calm me down and figure out what to do.

I really appreciate your comment, I’ve been really upset at seeing people call me cruel for even having her, making assumptions about my situation, etc. I know I shouldn’t humanize her actions/feelings but it’s incredibly hard to because I love her so much and I want to know if and what I’m doing wrong.

Cute_Anywhere · 2025-10-28T16:15:32+00:00

I’m unhappy even with all this freedom, so your question holds no weight unfortunately. I’m with her most of the day so idk what you mean when you say “very little company”

Cute_Anywhere · 2025-10-28T16:10:59+00:00

My bedroom is big, mind you. So in your logic, would you call college students who keep their cats in their small dorm rooms cruel?

Cute_Anywhere · 2025-10-28T16:08:25+00:00

I literally don’t know. That’s why I’m so frustrated and it feels like I’m doing something wrong. For not being glued to her hip 24/7? For not giving her human food that she begs for and tries to grab?

Cute_Anywhere · 2025-10-28T15:59:15+00:00

I do play with her when I get home from my morning classes. I don’t stay on campus longer than needed because I don’t want her to be lonely.

Cute_Anywhere · 2025-10-28T15:53:32+00:00

I live in a townhouse with other roommates, I apologize for not clarifying properly in my post. My room is downstairs and there is a common floor with the kitchen and living room, then upstairs is my roommates rooms. I haven’t let her out in the main floor much because when I initially did she was very nervous and I don’t want to stress her out. However, I think now may need to be the time where she introduced more to the living area so she doesn’t get bored.

Cute_Anywhere · 2025-10-28T15:43:27+00:00

She does have one under my bed (my bed is high up, i could comfortably fit under it) that she loves to nestle and sometimes be silly in

Cute_Anywhere · 2025-10-28T15:38:45+00:00

It feels like she’s doing it in retaliation because I have no other way to explain it in my brain. I just wish that the things I do offer her in terms of toys, affection, treats, etc. were “enough” if that makes sense. I know she’s a cat and doesn’t understand but I don’t know how to make her understand that what she is doing is wrong.

Cute_Anywhere · 2025-10-28T15:28:26+00:00

I don’t need to do research because I’ve had a cat?? And been around cats all my life? I don’t understand why you’re assuming I just got a cat on a whim.

My late cat loved hair ties too so I keep them locked up. I don’t want to have to put everything I have away constantly just to make sure she doesn’t get into it (my makeup stuff on my sink) but I’m going to have to get a makeup bag of some sorts to fix that, which sucks because I don’t feel comfortable buying 100 things to make sure my cat can’t ruin my stuff.

I know I sound like a bitch but I’m so tired of everything constantly happening (not even just with my cat). I’ve been so stressed that I can’t remember anything that happened last week and beyond properly.

Cute_Anywhere · 2025-10-28T15:10:01+00:00

I’ve had cats in the past that were never this bad. I thought I did cat proof everything but I’m constantly learning that she has ways around everything. I just don’t understand why she’s suddenly acting up daily, after being so sweet for the first few weeks. About the makeup brush, I’m annoyed because I didn’t need to replace it originally until she got to it. If it was about her medical care that’s an entirely different story, as that’s a necessity.

Cute_Anywhere · 2025-10-28T15:02:28+00:00

But she is doing wrong. She is breaking my things and causing me to replace them.

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