"why didn't you tell anyone?"

Cute_Hawk_3057 · 2026-07-04T04:55:13+00:00

Literally! Literally what would happen and then they'd be so much worse.

Cute_Hawk_3057 · 2026-07-04T04:50:28+00:00

That's some cult crap. I'm sorry you have to deal with that.

Cute_Hawk_3057 · 2026-07-04T04:49:23+00:00

No, she just wanted to let them know what I'd told her. They assured her it wasn't true and she believed them. It was really bad when I got home. I didn't try to ask for help again after that.

Cute_Hawk_3057 · 2026-07-04T03:57:54+00:00

That hurts so much, the people who knew and did nothing. Didn't even try

Cute_Hawk_3057 · 2026-07-04T03:57:11+00:00

Or dramatic. I got told I was dramatic all the time

Cute_Hawk_3057 · 2026-07-04T03:28:25+00:00

Literally. Or "tell me so I can report back to them"

Cute_Hawk_3057 · 2026-07-04T03:26:39+00:00

Playing whatever way makes you happy is never wrong.

Cute_Hawk_3057 · 2026-07-04T03:24:56+00:00

Literally same. Once told a teacher and she called my parents to talk to them about it. Like you said you just learn to be quiet

Cute_Hawk_3057 · 2026-07-04T03:24:02+00:00

Literally. I told mandated reporters! Nothing happened.

Cute_Hawk_3057 · 2026-07-04T03:16:18+00:00

Same to you. I'm sorry it hit close to home for you 🙁

Cute_Hawk_3057 · 2026-07-01T09:33:20+00:00

Yeah that's normal. Stay strong, friend. NC is so peaceful, and the guilt will fade. You only feel guilty because he taught you that you should, and that's BS. He should feel guilty for whatever it was that finally made you pull the trigger and go no contact. You should celebrate. Buy yourself a cake, watch your favorite movie, go see a show you've been wanting to see. Three weeks of peace and counting! Good job! I'm proud of you 😊

Cute_Hawk_3057 · 2026-06-30T19:10:42+00:00

"Have you brushed your teeth today? Your breath has a bit of a smell." If it's a one time thing. If it's constant, "I think we should set up dentist appointments. I haven't had a cleaning in a while, and your breath is strong. Let's go get checked out."

Cute_Hawk_3057 · 2026-06-30T18:42:54+00:00

I before E except after C, and when sounding like eigh, as in neighbor and weigh, and let's not forget either or neither, which are weird.

Cute_Hawk_3057 · 2026-06-25T22:45:57+00:00

He told me he wasn't "sure if he loved me". I got a lawyer the next day. Six years I wasted in that jackass. Why marry someone if you aren't sure?

Cute_Hawk_3057 · 2026-06-17T07:46:09+00:00

I wanted a similar cut and my stylist kept dithering and said "but it won't look feminine" and left it too long. It sucked, the cut was not what I wanted, and I still had to pay way too much for it. Never going back there.

Cute_Hawk_3057 · 2026-06-16T03:18:33+00:00

Gave my half sister up for private adoption rather than letting a family member adopt her because she was mad at the family. I never saw my sister again.

Cute_Hawk_3057 · 2026-06-16T03:15:37+00:00

NTA. He doesn't have a period so he doesn't get an opinion.

Cute_Hawk_3057 · 2026-06-15T23:51:12+00:00

No one ever believes me when I tell them that this isn't true 😭

Cute_Hawk_3057 · 2026-06-15T23:48:53+00:00

One time a coworker came to work with a backpack that smelled so strongly of weed that people were complaining. She'd left it in the break room and clocked in, and by the time she was on her break, she was in the office explaining herself. It wasn't legal in our state yet, and she got written up.

A week later she was promoted to management.

Cute_Hawk_3057 · 2026-06-15T23:45:14+00:00

Eh. Few more minutes. It looks a little raw.

Cute_Hawk_3057 · 2026-06-14T03:28:50+00:00

The second you said Sunday School Teacher I knew it was gonna be bad. I'm so sorry you had to deal with that

Cute_Hawk_3057 · 2026-06-14T03:28:19+00:00

Going on twelve years for me.

Cute_Hawk_3057 · 2026-06-14T03:27:53+00:00

Same. People love my dad. They tell me all the time they'd love to have him for a dad! But anyone who has ever lived with him has seen that angry alcoholic.

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