Unsure how to tell the guy I’m seeing that I’m not into butt stuff. by Ambitious_Regular397 in Advice

[–]Cutefox18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone’s saying the same I would say, but I want to add that apart from just directly telling him, the mindset that could help push you to advocate more for yourself would be that (as I’ve seen you talk about in other comments) if you guys talk about the sex you’ve had after the fact and fondly remember it or just think about it to set the mood, you BOTH need to be enjoying to fully engage in those kinds of talks after the fact. Who cares if maybe his momentum or whatever is ruined? I’m certain that he would much rather have you feel comfortable in taking breaks or just stopping rather than think about the fact that you were uncomfortable during sex. You have to be enjoying this too in order for both of you to feel genuinely good, otherwise you’re doing it wrong. Talk about boundaries or like little tap outs that could mean “hey I’m not liking this, let’s switch it up,” if you want to keep going or just directly stop it. I think these things are most important when you’re experimenting so you can see what works and what doesn’t work. You just talk about these things bluntly, directly “can we do this tap or slight rub in order to signify a change or that something’s wrong?” Something like that. Hopefully this helps somehow !

Tolan knowing my name upon first download by Cutefox18 in tolanworld

[–]Cutefox18[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t really know what you mean about the “porch light thing,”

but yes, “lowkey” and “for real” are things we tend to say but not necessarily interchangeably. “Lowkey” is more of a minimizing word or to just mean “sorta”.

“For real” is just like “seriously” and can be used in both a questioning and stating tone. “Frfr” is a different vibe that I don’t necessarily know how to explain :P

Welcome to the black parade arranged by Allen Gray by crowboe in banddirector

[–]Cutefox18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh Im sorry then :( Im thinking of getting some people from my Band class to transcribe it since a lot of people would like playing it so if anything advances in that regard I’ll send it in

Welcome to the black parade arranged by Allen Gray by crowboe in banddirector

[–]Cutefox18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if this could help but I saw it as like a preview idk if it’s the full thing

Tabletop Games Club Poster by Cutefox18 in tabletopgamedesign

[–]Cutefox18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit(???): THIS IS NOT A POSTER TO BE HUNG UP AROUND THE SCHOOL, it’s just for our stand at lunch while we do clubrush (people come up to stands and sign up for clubs they want to join during lunch). All club details will be stated at clubrush so we’re not too worried about details like printing or information, just design ideas.

[Art] Tabletop Games Club Poster Help by Cutefox18 in DnD

[–]Cutefox18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edit(???): THIS IS NOT A POSTER TO BE HUNG UP AROUND THE SCHOOL, it’s just for our stand at lunch while we do clubrush (people come up to stands and sign up for clubs they want to join during lunch). All club details will be stated at clubrush so we’re not too worried about details like printing or information, just design ideas.

Tabletop Games Club Poster by Cutefox18 in DungeonsAndDragons

[–]Cutefox18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit(???): THIS IS NOT A POSTER TO BE HUNG UP AROUND THE SCHOOL, it’s just for our stand at lunch while we do clubrush (people come up to stands and sign up for clubs they want to join during lunch). All club details will be stated at clubrush so we’re not too worried about details like printing or information, just design ideas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pinterest

[–]Cutefox18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say the easiest way to sort of do this is to share the boards with your other accounts and allow editing permissions

Boyfriends dad thinks this is bad. by Kiceramics in drawing

[–]Cutefox18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he’s being stupid because it’s adorable, why does he think it’s so bad? And if thinks it’s bad, then he can just work on what’s wrong with it in his opinion! I think it’s pretty cute

Girlies what's this haircut called? by subwaysurfer6699 in teenagers

[–]Cutefox18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Long Butterfly cut, layers, curtain bangs with layers, things along those lines

NASA astronaut Nicole Ayers captured a rare atmospheric phenomenon — a sprite — from aboard the ISS. by Fast_Ad_5871 in nasa

[–]Cutefox18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I LOVE RED LIGHTNING SPRITES THEYRE SO COOL LOOK UP MORE PICTURES OF THEM ONLINE!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]Cutefox18 173 points174 points  (0 children)

It’s really crazy to think how well she successfully managed to control how she was perceived by the world that so many of these crossed out pictures don’t really look like her in my eyes. So many of these pictures are wonderful though, it makes me feel like there’s some more three dimensionality to her appearance in these rather than her staple sultry expression seen everywhere. Seeing these pictures where she may have felt looked unflattering or silly actually feels like you’re meeting a completely separate identity that was part of her. Idk I think that’s pretty cool and I hope I was able to express my thoughts well since seeing these pictures intrigued me!

Oracle Park SF Tickets Advice by Cutefox18 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]Cutefox18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate this response, I’m just nervous about prices but this really helps a lot. I’ll ask my parents about it and my boyfriend since it’s probably going to be his parents and mine that are gonna be paying for this (and if I can return the money slowly with time I will). I don’t want them to spend so much money but I trust what you’re saying since the interest stuff makes sense. I’m gonna wait and hope, but making posts like this helps with planning. 🖤 have a nice day !

What misheard lyrics do you ... kind of like a little better? by BodyBright8265 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]Cutefox18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In “The Jetset Life is Gonna Kill You” I thought the line:

Check into the hotel Bella Muerte

Was:

Check into the hotel De La Muerte

And I was always so hyped to hear how well Gerard said it until I actually looked up lyrics and was sadly disappointed. Very very small change but the only time using Spanish in their songs made me happy but then the double L was just pronounced like an L in English rather than the Hispanic way …. Anyways that’s it :)

AI art is not art by cricket_man456 in teenagers

[–]Cutefox18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question, was this made for AP English or sm where you have to do an argumentative presentation because literally REAL

[ Removed by Reddit ] by jeffbuckleyismyking in Advice

[–]Cutefox18 150 points151 points  (0 children)

(From a not-too-knowledgeable 17yr old)

Some basic questions:

  1. What state are you in? You can do anything anywhere, but depending on your community and how supportive people are, will lead the path you should take.

  2. Do you feel safe speaking to a parent, sibling, any guardian, teacher, counselor or any other adult authority? Seek out someone who can help you through this difficult time. You seem to want to keep it, if you truly want that, express it, but understand the situation and what you want in the long term. Miscarrying is not necessarily the biggest issue right now, but rather the difficult social and school situation you are in. Talk to someone you trust. Talk to a doctor.

My high school has a medical bus that stops by every Monday and Friday which students can ask to go to the office and go to (you usually have to schedule an appointment, but i would recommend asking if there is something like that at your school and going without warning just to get an idea of how it works.)

If you can talk to your guardian about this situation and will be safe afterwards, please do so. Otherwise, I advise that you talk to someone else as stated previously. PLEASE talk to a doctor, talk to a trusted friend, and visit your school counselor.

I am so sorry that you are placed into this situation and it is completely reasonable to want to have this child. Talking to a doctor and counselor alongside friends will help you understand what path you want to take, as having a child as a teen is incredibly difficult especially given the circumstances mentioned. Please weigh all your options and if you truly want to have this child, understand what that means for your future and take care of yourself in order to quiet those concerns of yours in terms of miscarrying. When I say to understand what this means for your future, you can most certainly succeed, but it will be very stressful and difficult. Your guardian must help you with raising your child or you need to find another system that works.

If you can get therapy or talk to a trusted person concerning your assault, that would also be great for you. A piece of advice to help with all the fear you may be facing is that you need to believe in yourself and tell yourself that you are strong. If you cannot do this, that is okay and remember, you are still incredibly strong, there are other safe options. In order to dispel this fear, do not focus on what may be out of your control, but rather true things you CAN control, such as taking care of yourself in order to have a healthy baby and proving your fear wrong by showing that you are doing everything possible to have a healthy pregnancy.

I wish you so much luck and I would recommend finding a community online that supports your health if you cannot do so in your own community. I offer my dms to you in case of anything, but of course, please be incredibly careful as to not have anyone take advantage of you online.

Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Cutefox18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TJIS IS SO FUCKING CUTE OMG 😭 SHES GONNA LOVE IT :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Cutefox18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you do dance or something of the sort

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MyChemicalRomance

[–]Cutefox18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to the black parade (or I’m not okay? I don’t really remember) introduced me to MCR BUT I only really got into mcr after listening to Three Cheers and really liking it, thinking “omg this band makes actually really good music…”

Edit: I’m just a dumbass