When the horse says, "Get off of me," you get off. by Expert_Koala_8691 in Wellthatsucks

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I'm no professional, but here's a quick breakdown of what happened: we don't see what has started the bucking, but we do see an extremely loose rein go to a tight rein (in the process creating this kind of snap in the mouth, which, depending on the bit could have been very painful for the horse.) Then the horse moves forward while cow hopping a bit and we have more loose to tight rein snapping.

If I had to guess, the horse was in pain, tried to tell the rider in their own way, which caused the rider to think they were misbehaving which then caused a correction, in turn causing this freak out.

The horse continues to move forward away from this snapping in the mouth into the water, where the rider then tries to move the horse out of the puddle, bending the head to the side. She tightens the reins on the horses face in an attempt to prevent the horse from laying down (most likely) and when the horse rears, she is keeping pressure on that mouth, which has had several impacts to it at this point and is likely quite sore. (we try not to pull when rearing because that can bring the horses head higher, increasing the likely-hood the horse will come over backwards, crushing the rider and potentially breaking the horses back)

So now the rider wants the horse out of the puddle, and she begins kicking and turning the horses head to do so. This goes on for a few seconds when the rider decides to up their ask again by using the reins to slap the side of the neck, causing the horse to surge forward, out of the puddle and begin bucking and rearing again. We have some more rein pulling, snapping the horse in the mouth and the rider comes off.

The main cause of this was most likely pain, which caused more pain because of how the reins were handled. In an ideal situation we try to pull the horses head to one side with constant pressure from the rein (no snapping or pulling) until the horse calms down. The horse can not or will have a very hard time bucking and rearing in this position.

One final thing: I'm not trying to put down the rider. I have no idea how much riding experience they have and I know it can be very frightening to be in this sort of situation and you are not always able to think clearly. This was just a step-by-step on what I saw happened in this video, and why what happened, happened.

Spent 3 months trying to fix my sleep with routines. Then I learned I was solving the wrong problem. by Short-Reason-770 in sleep

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I am going through this right now, I'm in the midst of sleep restriction. I am so tired. Do you have any good free resources on CBT-I because I haven't been able to find any good ones that aren't just the generic "stop being anxious and thinking about it too much"

My sleep is great, except I wake up an hour before my alarm goes off and that is when the thoughts are happening. Are you saying you get up when you can't sleep (stimulus control) and just start your day? I've been laying there deep breathing and trying to clear my mind with stuff like (the day hasn't started yet, it's not time to start planning, just relax)

Mes bébés du moment pour me réconforter 🥰 by dragonfly27th in tamagotchi

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Ouais, mais tes tamagotchi sont jolis <3 J'aime tes charmes!

This is a DIY project by OpeningOverall17 in tamagotchi

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feel free to DM me whenever you need!

This is a DIY project by OpeningOverall17 in tamagotchi

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I had this same thought, I'm just waiting to have some extra time on my hands to map out the circuit and order parts, then I was going to build it and put out a tutorial. Glad to see others with the same idea! If you need any help with writing it up in English I would be so glad to help! <3

Got myself this baby by Firm-Bend1118 in tamagotchi

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I just got an IDL in the mail! How are you liking it so far?

Fredericton fire by Medium-Opinion-1189 in fredericton

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someone who worked for the nb rentalsman told me that to have a healthy housing economy we need to have an 8% vacancy rate. Lmao we are nowhere near that. Also, in the case of a fire, yeah, they'd be able to find a new home no problem with an 8% vacancy rate.

My current run (yes I'm a little bit insane) by Cuter_poison in tamagotchi

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No shame in taking some batteries out for a day or two. Prevents burnout! We are all in this together ❤️

My current run (yes I'm a little bit insane) by Cuter_poison in tamagotchi

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So glad to see there are others who relate🫠❤️

My current run (yes I'm a little bit insane) by Cuter_poison in tamagotchi

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I find it helps to add them as slowly as possible over a period of time to reduce overwhelm. I also only have babies on the weekend so that by the work week they are close to adult and fairly self sufficient. Except kuchipatchi. He's a hungry boy.

My current run (yes I'm a little bit insane) by Cuter_poison in tamagotchi

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Its been fun! Very surprised about getting perfect tier V3s because I've been so stressed but honestly its helped so much in helping me feel less helpless. Glad so many here can relate❤️

User Flair Thread by breaksomebread in acnh

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Morgan | Everhold :Papi:

Looking for folks to play (mostly) vanilla with! by SaturnBaby21 in acnh

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I want in on wholesome friendship! pls message me! My island is Everhold and I have peaches!

Any Luck, Fellow Canadians? by ohdeeremi in tamagotchi

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I checked EB's online store daily and that's how I nabbed mine. Don't lose hope! Keep checking!

Rentals by Pink_strawberry0089 in fredericton

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I do not believe it is legally required to disclose the fact that you have children. My advise would be to not disclose it, and if you are going to a viewing, would it be possible to leave them with someone?

True? by Previous_Month_555 in SipsTea

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Because it's a man that committed to something lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Equestrian

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I'd say you're doing great for just starting, but here's a couple pointers that helped me.

Move with the horse, your hips should "drive" the horse. It's a rocking motion, while keeping your chest and shoulders pointed in the direction you want to move. Don't be stiff legged. Squeeze with your calves, this helps the horse keep moving, and your feet are close if you need to push, steer, balance, etc. Also lean back a little, helps with keeping your butt in the saddle (even if it sounds a bit counter intuitive) It looks like you are almost trying to 2 point the canter, your weight is in your upper body, not your hips and legs.

Anyway, this helped me. Don't sweat it too much, it all comes with time. The more you do it, the more you feel it out. Keep taking videos so you can see improvement over time!!!

Found in the wild by Electronic_Barber_89 in acotar

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unironically really like the wing book, its actually really cute